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Need friend Advice (& new relationship)

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butterfly22
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Need friend Advice (& new relationship)

Me and my friend have hung out regularly for the past 6 months or so. I recently started dating someone, whome I am crazy for and we do spend a lot of time together. She rarely asks me in advance to hang out, waits until that night, so when I have plans, I think she might start to feel I make no time. I have asked her out a few time and either she says no or thinks it's all couples. She rarely calls now, & has made some comments about "when I have time" or "we have not hung out in so long". While she says she wants one, she is in no place for a relationship, by her own choices she makes,,,but should I feel bad because I am in one?

Does this make sense???

Posted 5/17/05 10:07 AM
 
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LadyMaravilla
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Sonia

Re: Need friend Advice (& new relationship)

I don't think you should feel bad. There are many stages in our lives and maybe she can't handle your current stage. It's not like you're not trying to make time for her. Maybe she feels a little jealous about your new relationship. I think you need to sit with her and ask her what's going on and be honest with her that's all. Good luck girl~

Posted 5/17/05 10:14 AM
 

Boobobunny
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Dannielle

Re: Need friend Advice (& new relationship)

Posted by LadyLainez

I don't think you should feel bad. There are many stages in our lives and maybe she can't handle your current stage. It's not like you're not trying to make time for her. Maybe she feels a little jealous about your new relationship. I think you need to sit with her and ask her what's going on and be honest with her that's all. Good luck girl~





couldn't of said it better!!!

Posted 5/17/05 10:19 AM
 

SeptemberBride03
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Re: Need friend Advice (& new relationship)

Why don't you make plans with her in advance rather than waiting for her to ask last minute. That way it doesn't intefere with your relationship and she won't feel like she isn't seeing you.

Posted 5/17/05 1:51 PM
 
 

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