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BeachGal
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More Bad News
Hi everyone.
I spoke to my Dr yesterday and he told me because I am so regular I should just BD everyday from CD8 - CD15 and I should have no problem. (Glad he thinks its so easy!) He also said he would write a script for an analysis for DH just in case because I told him that DH is on a bunch of medications and I am afraid they can be affecting him.
I was discussing this with DH who then confessed to me that he is having issues with "finishing". OMG, I had no idea. I guess it wasnt that bad this month because he thought this month was it and I would be PG. I wish I knew this when I spoke to Dr because I could have asked him what the heck to do.
I started bawling which of course upset him because I wasnt supportive. This happened last night and I am still in a fog and cant stop crying. I think he should have told me this a LONG time ago and been more aggressive about contacting a doctor to find out what is going on. DH thinks it is the meds. I am so upset we wasted so much time.
Thanks for listening. I cant discuss this with DH because he cant handle it and I would NEVER tell anyone this IRL.
I guess I will wait for the analysis but I think he said to call a Dr to find out about this "finishing" issue.
Message edited 8/8/2010 10:41:46 AM.
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MrsH2009
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Re: More Bad News
 I'm so sorry and I'm sure DH feels like crap too. I can imagine how embarrased and nervous he is, but yes he should have told you about this. Especially if it's a side affect of the medicine, the doctors could just prescribe an alternative. Anyway, now that you have this info I hope you can get some answers and excellent results. 
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| Posted 8/8/10 10:42 AM |
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BeachGal
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Re: More Bad News
Thank you!!! He did tell me about the meds but I figured since I got PG once before it wasnt a problem. My dr said it also wasnt a problem so not sure why his did.....?
He didnt tell me about the "finishing" issue which I think is kinda recent.......
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| Posted 8/8/10 10:55 AM |
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pickles16
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| Posted 8/8/10 10:57 AM |
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aw that's so hard. I imagine it was hard for DH to tell you (though he should have sooner) but it must be so emotional - not only bc it's sensitve in general but bc it's so tied into the TTC. . and then the more you worry probably the worse it gets. .
the good news is of course that now you have some new information that you can really do something about as opposed to being partially a mystery
but a  and to you both and as always
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| Posted 8/8/10 11:14 AM |
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Exarina
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girl im with you..its the stress of it all. I know because i hear it and want to ring the neck of the person who tells me but I really think we should all stop counting the days....getting ourselves and our DH's stressed out it can be prventing it all.
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| Posted 8/8/10 11:34 AM |
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LoLaBlue
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| Posted 8/8/10 12:09 PM |
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BeachGal
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Re: More Bad News
Thanks everyone! Yes, the good thing is that we have a new piece of info and hopefully we can get this analysis and he can see the dr about why this started happening. We are assuming it is due to medications but who knows. The stress cant be helping.
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| Posted 8/8/10 12:22 PM |
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Michi
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Re: More Bad News
I am just a lurker on this board, but I am curious what meds is he on? Many meds have cause issues with "finishing" but there r ways around it.Take one step at a time, and there is NOTHING to be embarrassed about..
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| Posted 8/8/10 2:27 PM |
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BeachGal
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Re: More Bad News
Hi Mrs. Semetis! FM me if you are still curious.
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Shelleybean11
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