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Ladies, I know that I haven't been on in a while..

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matzena
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Ladies, I know that I haven't been on in a while..

But I've been so depressed lately about this whole TTC journey.. and everywhere I look someone else that I know is getting pregnant.. Yes it's wonderful for them but I guess I want to be selfish and ask WHY NOT ME?!?!?! All I want to do is cry.. Actually as I'm writing this right now I'm starting to cry.. I'm expecting TBAF 7/27, and I have an appt with my OBGYN on 7/28 to go back on clomid if I'm not preggo.. I'm not going back to the RE b/c my insurance won't cover it and my OB told me he can do IUI's ans stuff.. also my RE & OBGYN are good friends.. they both did my Laparoscopy on June 1st.. I just wanted to let all of you know how I was doing and I feel bad for not being on here latley.. Congrats to all of you who got BFP's recently!!! And Good Luck to everyone else!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/18/10 10:49 AM
 
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WannaBbabyMama
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Re: Ladies, I know that I haven't been on in a while..

Im in the same boat as you. I keep on seeing people getting preggo all around me, and people posting pics of their beautiful children on fb and I am so jealous! Hate being jealous but I guess our time will come.

When I am feeling depressed I usually scroll down to the related posts from the past few years and see how many women were in our shoes just a few years ago and now they have pics of their beautiful children as their chat avater.

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Posted 7/18/10 11:48 AM
 

LoLaBlue
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Posted 7/18/10 11:56 AM
 

wants2bamom
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Re: Ladies, I know that I haven't been on in a while..

I totally understand how you feel. I feel like Ive been here forever as more girls come and go....its very frustrating and I find it difficult at times to move on. You're not aloneChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

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Posted 7/18/10 12:58 PM
 

MrsH2009
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Re: Ladies, I know that I haven't been on in a while..

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Posted 7/18/10 2:03 PM
 

SweetTooth
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Re: Ladies, I know that I haven't been on in a while..

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Just confirm that your insurance will cover the clomid/IUI even if it is your gyno doing it. It is still infertility treatment, no matter who does it. Insurance sucks big time, it is so unfair.

ETA: I don't know what state you are in, but NYS requires insurance companies to cover basic infertility treatment by law (meds, IUI).

Message edited 7/18/2010 2:29:46 PM.

Posted 7/18/10 2:28 PM
 

poasBFP
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EDD April 25th 2011

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Posted 7/18/10 3:20 PM
 

DaisyGirl
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Re: Ladies, I know that I haven't been on in a while..

I'm sorry you are having a tough time. We've been TTC awhile as well and I understand how difficult it is when it feels like everyone around you is getting pregnant. It sounds like you have a good game plan and I wish you lots of luck! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/18/10 4:23 PM
 

FlowerWife
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Re: Ladies, I know that I haven't been on in a while..

i know how you feel. it will pass and you will get excited about TTC again!! just keep your eye on the prize!!

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Posted 7/18/10 5:27 PM
 

MrsFein09
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Posted 7/18/10 6:06 PM
 

BabyHopes15
Thank you St. G for my boy PJ!

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Aim

Re: Ladies, I know that I haven't been on in a while..

I understand how you feel. I just suffered a m/c and am a little jealous of those who are pregnant, but you never know their story either. Just hang in there and coming on here really helps to know you're not alone and the support is awesome! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat IconChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/18/10 10:39 PM
 
 

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