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dapnkap
Our 3 angels
Member since 7/07 4824 total posts
Name:
Karen
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Re: He left me
I am so sorry! 
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Posted 1/29/09 1:38 PM  |
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twobabies
Praying
Member since 7/05 9662 total posts
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Mrs. Honeybee
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Re: He left me
oh jess. im so sorry. I believe you wrote he has another child correct??? Does he take care of he or she?? I know you said you dont want him involved, but maybe he will come around. Either way, you are strong. you can do it.
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| Posted 1/29/09 1:40 PM |
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codybear
Our Family is Complete!
Member since 11/06 2064 total posts
Name:
Christine
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Re: He left me
I'm so sorry. What a jerk! You seem like a strong person, and you'll get through this without him. Things will get better!
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| Posted 1/29/09 1:46 PM |
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mrsgafforio
LIF Adult
Member since 3/07 3929 total posts
Name:
Christine
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Re: He left me
I'm so sorry 
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| Posted 1/29/09 1:51 PM |
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MarisaK
HELLO Manolo !!
Member since 5/06 14562 total posts
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Marisa
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Re: He left me
This is now about you and you alone.
You will decide what is best for you and your life - HE no longer gets a vote.
All the best to you
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| Posted 1/29/09 1:52 PM |
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FeliciaDP
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Member since 5/05 18599 total posts
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Mommy
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Re: He left me
Jes, I'm really sorry to hear this. I am just repeating the obvious, but your BF has acted so immaturely that it might be best for you and your baby that he is out of the picture for now. That doesn't change how hard this must be for you, of course, but it is probably for the best ..
Hang in there.. you will get through this...
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| Posted 1/29/09 2:00 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
Member since 9/07 3389 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: He left me
Posted by Mikismom
what an azzhole
sorry jess.
my words exact, I hope everything works out for you in the end
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| Posted 1/29/09 2:08 PM |
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
Name:
Properly perfect™
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Re: He left me
Jess I am so sorry....be sure to lean on those close to you for support....you will get through this and come out stronger
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| Posted 1/29/09 2:17 PM |
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boosh1002
We like hanging together!
Member since 5/05 5475 total posts
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Mommy to twins
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Re: He left me
Im sorry Jess
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| Posted 1/29/09 2:53 PM |
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ReiRei13
Life is Good!!
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Re: He left me
I'm so sorry
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| Posted 1/29/09 3:01 PM |
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steph4777
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Member since 5/05 11726 total posts
Name:
Stephanie
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Re: He left me
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| Posted 1/29/09 3:15 PM |
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My4GirlsMyLife
My 4 girlies
Member since 2/08 9702 total posts
Name:
Valerie
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Re: He left me
I am so so so sorry 
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| Posted 1/29/09 3:43 PM |
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
Member since 5/05 24460 total posts
Name:
Tania
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Re: He left me
Grrr, i can't believe what a pos he is.
I'm so sorry Jes, now is time to think of you and your baby. you can do this, you are a strong woman and you will get through this.
Please, please if you need anything, don't hesitate to ask.
anything you need, im here for you!!
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| Posted 1/29/09 3:55 PM |
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rmdrn125
LIF Toddler
Member since 5/07 497 total posts
Name:
mom mom
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Re: He left me
I'm very sorry tho read this.. some people 
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| Posted 1/29/09 4:05 PM |
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Dani922
Here's to new beginnings
Member since 10/07 7260 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: He left me
Posted by KeithHernandez
I guarantee he will change his mind 1000000 times before the baby is born. I would even say remember that he is putting you through this, but you never know whether or not he's frightened and acting hastily, or reacting to how his step mother's antics..
My son's father was in & out so many times... ultimately he was gone for good and it hurt SO MUCH at the time, but I swear to you... I am SO THANKFUL he left... My son is better off without him and has the most amazing step father who truly loves him.
He might be scared... he might come around... only time will tell. The best advice I can give you is to be prepared to raise this child on your own... if he's involved, he's involved... count your blessings and NOT your losses... I promise you it will work out in the end.. For me, although it hurt so much when my son was born, it was for the best his father left.
I wish you all the best
I agree 100000%. My DH changed his mind constantly. One day he decided he would abandon me & the baby & just send checks. Then he wanted to be involved with the baby, but have nothing to do with me. It was on & off all the itme. When I was around 7 months along, he decided he wanted to stay with me & be there completely for our daughter. He kept that promise & we married when DD was two. Don't be surprised if he changes his mind more than once in the next few months. He may very well just be scared & confused & I'm sure the situation with his step-mother isn't helping him any. None of that excuses his behavior, but it could explain it.
Like Caroline said, be prepared for him to not change his mind at all. Start working on a plan to provide for yourself & the baby without him around. Can you maybe stay with family? Are they willing to help you? Then, if things work out & he comes around, great! You can always change your plans to include him, but it will be harder to come up with a way to do this on your own at the last minute when he doesn't come back. I completely agree that if he doesn't come back, it's for the best. You wouldn't want a father like that for your child.
I am so sorry he is putting you through this
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| Posted 1/29/09 4:42 PM |
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Bri
I Love You to Pieces!
Member since 5/05 9919 total posts
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Brianne
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Re: He left me
Jess, I am so sorry- you are a strong woman and you will get through this, no matter what happens. Take care of yourself and your baby
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| Posted 1/29/09 5:15 PM |
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angnick
Life is So Wonderful!
Member since 8/06 6663 total posts
Name:
Angela
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Re: He left me
o my goodness sweetie i am so sorry!
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| Posted 1/29/09 5:20 PM |
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