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CoutureMaMa
nicholas is one!!
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I just don't know anymore....
Is it possible to get a BFN everytime you test upuntil say 12 DPO and then all of a sudden on 13 or 14DPO get a positive? Not saying I did, because I didnt, but I just feel like hope is gone for this month because every time I tested so far I have gotten negative and I dont see how I could get a positive in a couple more days if I havent already... 
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Posted 12/18/08 11:31 AM  |
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bellaluna
Baby come on out!
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Jess
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
I personally have not, BUT there are women that I know who tested too early and got a BPN and then waited 2 plus days and got a BFP !
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| Posted 12/18/08 11:33 AM |
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Linda1003
love my 2 boys
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
Of course it's possible. But this is the reason why you really shouldn't test until 13 DPO at the earliest!!! it's way too emotional!!
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| Posted 12/18/08 11:34 AM |
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Jenhos
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
I did with my first 2 pregnancies. It took till 4 days after AF was due with my first and 2 or 3 days after with my second. I think it is rare but it does happen.
This pregnancy I got an early BFP.
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| Posted 12/18/08 11:35 AM |
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CoutureMaMa
nicholas is one!!
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Michelle
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
thanks ladies. i have had cramps since like 5 dpo and last week i had a ton of cm (sorry tmi) so i didn tknow if that was related... but getting all the bfn's are making me think otherwise. i know i shoulddnt test but i feel like if i was pg, it would have came up at least today that i am like 12 dpo...
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| Posted 12/18/08 11:53 AM |
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lolipep
My prayers have been answered
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
yes it is very possible hang in there hun!!
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| Posted 12/18/08 12:00 PM |
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MrsUta
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
Please hang in there...I know it is diffcult, but you may have tested too soon....13DPO is the "lucky" number...
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| Posted 12/18/08 12:02 PM |
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
Don't lose hope Michelle-it might still be too early! Good luck!
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| Posted 12/18/08 12:03 PM |
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diva7531
My Peanut
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Ryan 3 boys EDD 11/6!
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
Just hold out michelle! This is why they say to wait till af is late, less heartache (and less money!)
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| Posted 12/18/08 12:45 PM |
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Angel321
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
PLEASE STOP TESTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is a public service announcement from your local broadcast lunatic....
Testing early leads to heartache and pain and more money being spent on tests. Many, many, many things can happen if you test early....please, for your own sanity - STOP TESTING!!!!!!
please, please, please, please....it's not worth the heartache....
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| Posted 12/18/08 1:00 PM |
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sleepie76
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
Posted by beleebuton
Is it possible to get a BFN everytime you test upuntil say 12 DPO and then all of a sudden on 13 or 14DPO get a positive? Not saying I did, because I didnt, but I just feel like hope is gone for this month because every time I tested so far I have gotten negative and I dont see how I could get a positive in a couple more days if I havent already...
I'm sorry.
I went thru the same thing this month.
I tested up until 12 DPO BFN. I felt the same, if it hasn't shown by 12 it aint there.
Tested today 15 DPO. I knew I was out. But DH kept asking me, so I figured "what is one more test."
But hang tight, you're almost there.
Hope that 13/14 is the magic number for you!!!
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| Posted 12/18/08 1:08 PM |
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chelle
It's a Good Life
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Isn't it obvious?
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
Yes!! I did! I don't remember exactly what DPO I was....but I got a BFN on Monday and then BFP on Wednesday. So until TBAF shows up....you are NOT out!
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| Posted 12/18/08 2:25 PM |
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Ang-Rich
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
Yes! It's possible...with my son I tested at 11 DPO and negative...I was sure that I was not pregnant but 2 days after AF was due (and late) I tested again...the lines practically glowed!!!
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| Posted 12/18/08 2:37 PM |
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CoutureMaMa
nicholas is one!!
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Michelle
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
Posted by davenjess
PLEASE STOP TESTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is a public service announcement from your local broadcast lunatic....
Testing early leads to heartache and pain and more money being spent on tests. Many, many, many things can happen if you test early....please, for your own sanity - STOP TESTING!!!!!!
please, please, please, please....it's not worth the heartache....
lol local broadcast lunatic. youre too funny... thanks jess! haha
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| Posted 12/18/08 3:40 PM |
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4PsInaPod
My Loves <3
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
Posted by davenjess
PLEASE STOP TESTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is a public service announcement from your local broadcast lunatic....
Testing early leads to heartache and pain and more money being spent on tests. Many, many, many things can happen if you test early....please, for your own sanity - STOP TESTING!!!!!!
please, please, please, please....it's not worth the heartache....
what she said
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| Posted 12/18/08 4:13 PM |
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maybeamommy
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
It can happen I'm sure.. I honestly have no idea how common it is though.
I always prefer testing because then I don't cling to that hope.. and I start to prepare myself for AF. Not everyone feels that way, but that's just how I feel.
From my blog 
I am kind of happy that I tested beforehand this way the BFN didn't hit me like a ton of bricks. I slowly had time to get used to the idea.. allow it to sink in... allow myself to take a step back and think about what to do next. I guess it was like climbing up this ladder of excitement and positivity and hopefulness... and each BFN was like taking one step backward - one step down. I figure it's better than clinging onto the hope and anxiousness and anxiety of NOT knowing... not having a clue either way.. climbing all the way to the top of that ladder, then having it taken right from under your feet and crashing and falling to the ground - if that makes sense.
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| Posted 12/18/08 4:49 PM |
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kitkat32
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
Posted by maybeamommy
It can happen I'm sure.. I honestly have no idea how common it is though.
I always prefer testing because then I don't cling to that hope.. and I start to prepare myself for AF. Not everyone feels that way, but that's just how I feel.
From my blog
I am kind of happy that I tested beforehand this way the BFN didn't hit me like a ton of bricks. I slowly had time to get used to the idea.. allow it to sink in... allow myself to take a step back and think about what to do next. I guess it was like climbing up this ladder of excitement and positivity and hopefulness... and each BFN was like taking one step backward - one step down. I figure it's better than clinging onto the hope and anxiousness and anxiety of NOT knowing... not having a clue either way.. climbing all the way to the top of that ladder, then having it taken right from under your feet and crashing and falling to the ground - if that makes sense.
That's exactly how I feel too
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inbliss
I'm a mommy to a 2 year old!!!
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
all of the above
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HLT407
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
Posted by davenjess
PLEASE STOP TESTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is a public service announcement from your local broadcast lunatic....
Testing early leads to heartache and pain and more money being spent on tests. Many, many, many things can happen if you test early....please, for your own sanity - STOP TESTING!!!!!!
please, please, please, please....it's not worth the heartache....
I could not agree more! Testing early causes nothing but heartache. Please try to stop testing. Just wait it out the next few days. You've already got a few BFNs so as PPs have said, if you do get AF it won't hurt so bad Try to relax
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| Posted 12/18/08 10:05 PM |
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CoutureMaMa
nicholas is one!!
Member since 9/07 6081 total posts
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Michelle
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
Posted by maybeamommy
It can happen I'm sure.. I honestly have no idea how common it is though.
I always prefer testing because then I don't cling to that hope.. and I start to prepare myself for AF. Not everyone feels that way, but that's just how I feel.
From my blog
I am kind of happy that I tested beforehand this way the BFN didn't hit me like a ton of bricks. I slowly had time to get used to the idea.. allow it to sink in... allow myself to take a step back and think about what to do next. I guess it was like climbing up this ladder of excitement and positivity and hopefulness... and each BFN was like taking one step backward - one step down. I figure it's better than clinging onto the hope and anxiousness and anxiety of NOT knowing... not having a clue either way.. climbing all the way to the top of that ladder, then having it taken right from under your feet and crashing and falling to the ground - if that makes sense.
that just made me cry... i totally agree with u. i feel like everytime i test and see the negative, it does prepare me more. if i do get a bfp soon, then it would be great! but if not, at least i knew it was coming.
i just have such bad cramps for like 10 days and thats the only thing making me  because i never have this.. only when af is here. and even then, it s a different cramp.  i dont know. its driving me crazy...  this is so depressing seeing how hard it is to get pregnant... and wondering why
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| Posted 12/18/08 10:18 PM |
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lolipep
My prayers have been answered
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Lori
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
hey michelle how are you?
just wanted to give you some
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| Posted 12/18/08 10:19 PM |
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CoutureMaMa
nicholas is one!!
Member since 9/07 6081 total posts
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Michelle
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Re: I just don't know anymore....
Posted by lolipep
hey michelle how are you?
just wanted to give you some
i am ok hanging in there and waiting until the latest possible time to test and hope that i get what i m looking for thanks for asking lori; how r u feeling?!!?!? i am so happy for u; i think i told u that a million times. haha...
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