now that you're TTC, do you ever feel like...

...sex isnt for enjoyment anymore?? i feel like every time we do it its just for a purpose and im overthinking it. im trying so hard to not have it on my mind when we're BD'ing and to just enjoy being with DH, but i cant help but have in the back of mind "is this it??? is this gonna be the one that works???"

how do you guys deal with it?

Re: now that you're TTC, do you ever feel like...

I don't have any advice for you, but feel the same exact way, I don't want to say I dread (I definitely don't), but I do sometimes feel it is a chore we do. Even when I try to be spontaneous, I'm still thinking about it or wondering if he's thinking about it.

Re: now that you're TTC, do you ever feel like...

So funny that you said this - I was going to ask something similar. I don't like the idea of sex on a schedule.

My fertile/O dates came and went with the recent Thanksgiving craziness. With our child we got PG by "accident" and it was so much better!!!!

Re: now that you're TTC, do you ever feel like...

Yes, sometimes it does feel like a chore.

I am very much looking forward to non-TTC se x again!

Re: now that you're TTC, do you ever feel like...

When we were TTC i never let DH know when i got +OPK so he at least never knew it was baby making sex. I tried REALLY hard to still make it like i was "seducing" him when all the while i had a hidden agenda. He was thankful for it too.

But if youre doing Deannas plan, then its pretty obv that youre only having sex to TTC so...then i have no advice. Sorry

Hopefully youll get pg soon and you wont have to worry anymore