LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

So frustrated!!

Posted By Message

mishmosh
That's all I got.

Member since 7/06

1452 total posts

Name:
Michelle

So frustrated!!

I had an appt. for my followup to my failed July IVF cycle at the end of August, but had to cancel it last minute, b/c of a family emergency. I called the following week to reschedule and all they could give me was October 21...7 weeks away! Ok fine. I work full time and it's a pain in the a$$ for me to take off. So I'm sure being available only after 4 is not a help, but come on.

But then they called me yesterday to reschedule, because THEY screwed up. Now I have to wait until 10/28. ugh.

I can deal with that. It's just that I wanted to do another cycle. If I would have had my august appt, I could have started already. I just don't understand why I have to sit face to face with Dr. Brenner to start the ball rolling on the next cycle. Why can't I just start on bcp next AF and be ahead of the game?

A nurse is supposed to call me back. Too bad I can't take calls while I'm in my classroom!

I'm just venting. I hate having my issue filtered through a receptionist. I wish I could email the nurse and explain it that way. It's so hard to cover everything concisely while you're being rushed off the phone.

Posted 9/23/08 9:54 AM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

Gertyrae
Peace out Homies!

Member since 5/05

20046 total posts

Name:
Gerty ®

Re: So frustrated!!

I have to tell you, that's probably my biggest problem with LI-IVF...they should really have e-mail access.

Posted 9/23/08 10:02 AM
 

MrsMessina
Thankful for our miracles!

Member since 2/07

7254 total posts

Name:

Re: So frustrated!!

Posted by Gertyrae

I have to tell you, that's probably my biggest problem with LI-IVF...they should really have e-mail access.



It's funny you posted this morning- I was just getting ready to FM you to see what was going on.
I agree. I'm not sure if it's different b/c mine would've been a FET but originally (before my beta didn't cooperate) they were allowing me to start on an FET cycle (assuming I paid the fee that day) right away, w/o talking to my dr (who was on vacation) or ANY dr.... I would call back and ask them to have Dr. B call you directly so you and he can sort this out. There's no reason that you should be put off for months like this- and ITA- I wish they had email access- they obviously do amongst eachother, but not for the patients... which would def. make life a lot easier and cut down on the phone calls.Chat Icon

Posted 9/23/08 10:05 AM
 

babyfaith
Onward and Upward!

Member since 2/08

3210 total posts

Name:

Re: So frustrated!!

Would a phone conversation with Dr. B suffice? I called him many times during the year I was at LI IVF to discuss failed cycles and our next step.

Posted 9/23/08 11:23 AM
 

mom2mgn
Love my family

Member since 2/08

2267 total posts

Name:
Christine

Re: So frustrated!!

Posted by babyfaith

Would a phone conversation with Dr. B suffice? I called him many times during the year I was at LI IVF to discuss failed cycles and our next step.



I was just going to suggest this. After my failed cycle, Dr. Droesch said I could come in or she would work with me to do a phone appointment.

ETA - I hate that you can't communicate with them via e-mail. I work in a cubicle and everyone hears my business. If I ever have to call them, I have to do it during lunch and hope and pray they call me back while I am out to lunch.

Message edited 9/23/2008 11:49:49 AM.

Posted 9/23/08 11:47 AM
 

jgrafff426
LIF Infant

Member since 9/08

185 total posts

Name:
xoxoxox

Re: So frustrated!!

Ditto on the email frustration. I agree w/ calling Dr. Brenner. He's usually pretty good w/ returning calls and maybe he can get you on your cycle w/o having to suffer this eternal wait. On the other hand, maybe there is a reason they need to see you face-to-face to discuss next steps? I would think they could get you in earlier though in either case.

Don't they also "shut down" to do their statistics stuff mid-October too?

Posted 9/23/08 12:48 PM
 

mishmosh
That's all I got.

Member since 7/06

1452 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: So frustrated!!

Phone appt! good idea. It would be easier if I was able to get calls during the day. So I'm playing phone tag with them now. I'm going to call later and hopefully talk to Gale (she called me back and left a message this morning). I'll be 3 weeks into my next cycle when I see Brenner, so maybe I can start BCPs next time around. I just want to get a cycle in before Christmas! I'll be away for work the week of Dec 1st, so it's hard to juggle this all.

Either way, I'll ask about doing a phone appt. with Dr. B.

Posted 9/23/08 1:45 PM
 

mishmosh
That's all I got.

Member since 7/06

1452 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: So frustrated!!

I spoke to Gale/Gail and she was VERY helpful. She went through the calendar with me and we figured out some things over the phone. I then called Lake Success and they were able to squeeze me in on 10/6 (I'll have to get someone to cover my last class), which is right before AF, so I could probably start BCPs next cycle, which would bring me to a November IVF. Sounds good to me! Let's hope AF cooperates.

Posted 9/23/08 4:51 PM
 

MrsMessina
Thankful for our miracles!

Member since 2/07

7254 total posts

Name:

Re: So frustrated!!

Glad to hear it seems to be working out. Chat Icon I spoke with her today as well... wish my outcome was better. Chat Icon Chat Icon I won't get into that though....
Keep me posted!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Good luck sweetie! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/23/08 4:57 PM
 

LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis

Member since 8/06

11613 total posts

Name:
L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)

Re: So frustrated!!

Posted by mishmosh

I spoke to Gale/Gail and she was VERY helpful. She went through the calendar with me and we figured out some things over the phone. I then called Lake Success and they were able to squeeze me in on 10/6 (I'll have to get someone to cover my last class), which is right before AF, so I could probably start BCPs next cycle, which would bring me to a November IVF. Sounds good to me! Let's hope AF cooperates.



Excellent...I am so glad you did that...I didn't see this post.

I do the same with Brenner. He is pretty accomodating over the phone...I figured he would actually probably let you start BCP to get you to a November cycle. But seeing him in Lake Success is much easier than seeing him in Melville. That's a nightmare. But when he wants to see you? They certainly make sure he's available. But he also expects you to be there at the drop of a hat...my last cycle when I got pregnant, I was actually seeing HIM twice a week. But I had to get there on HIS schedule...when he was the one who wanted to see me! That was pretty annoying.

Posted 9/24/08 9:00 AM
 
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
I'm out... sad... and frustrated MrsPornStar 9/13/07 31 TTC
UPDATE!!!! LONG VENT: Back from hospital and so frustrated I am ready to cry Mommy2Boys 4/1/07 26 Pregnancy
soooooo frustrated!UPDATE...Pants found at last!! (see bottom of page ) Blondie805 11/7/06 9 Fashion & Beauty!
I forgot to go in for bloodwork!!! - UPDATE SO FRUSTRATED!! leighla 6/28/06 5 Infertility
Getting Frustrated . . . . Best and quickest way to lose 10-15 pounds Bri 5/22/06 9 Diet & Fitness
SO Frustrated!!! Does anyone's husband forget to tell you things? MrsRbk 2/2/06 3 Families Helping Families ™
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 493890 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows