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Bxgell2
Perfection
Member since 5/05 16438 total posts
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Beth
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All for naught
I'm out. I started bleeding heavily this AM, which makes no sense considering I'm 12dpiui and still on the progesterone. I've never gotten AF this early and I never even got AF on the progesterone last month.
I just don't understand. How can I go from getting pregnant my first month of trying, miscarrying and getting pregnant one week later, to now, 3+ years later, NOTHING. We've been trying now for a year and a half, CBEFM, robitussin, primrose oil, countless IUI's and now two cycles of medicated IUI's.
If it really is just hostile CM why isn't ANYTHING working? I'm starting to feel like this is an impossible dream and that if it hasn't worked by now, nothing will 
Message edited 7/12/2008 10:09:21 AM.
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MrsJoeG
Beyond Blessed <3
Member since 2/08 1482 total posts
Name:
Amanda
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Re: All for naught
 I am so sorry Beth. It will definitely happen for you though, it will!
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| Posted 7/12/08 10:10 AM |
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MrsMessina
Thankful for our miracles!
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Re: All for naught
I'm so sorry Beth
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| Posted 7/12/08 10:10 AM |
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BA2008
Need to find some hope!
Member since 2/08 2485 total posts
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Beth -Ann
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Re: All for naught
I'm so sorry. I know how you feel. I mean if I got pregnant a year ago without ART, how come with 6 IUI's and 2 IVF's I cannot seem to get there again. It is so frustrating. 
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| Posted 7/12/08 10:46 AM |
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rose825
Best Friends
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Re: All for naught
same here.
Pregnant 6 years ago without ART.
4 years after trying, several IUI's, 4 fresh IVF cycles, 2 FET's and nada!!
It is VERY frustrating. I am blessed to have DC and am just going to have to get creative with #2
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| Posted 7/12/08 11:38 AM |
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Lee
LIF Adolescent
Member since 4/07 758 total posts
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Re: All for naught
I'm so sorry....
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| Posted 7/12/08 8:57 PM |
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Kissy331
My two miracles!
Member since 5/06 17826 total posts
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Kristen
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Re: All for naught
I'm so sorry!  I know the feeling of disappointment especially when AF comes early after IUI!!!
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| Posted 7/13/08 10:28 AM |
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MrsS518
Big Sister to be!
Member since 7/07 3423 total posts
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Tara
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Re: All for naught
Beth im so sorry
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| Posted 7/13/08 12:00 PM |
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MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3
Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
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Michelle
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Re: All for naught
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Hotmamma408
LIF Adolescent
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Re: All for naught
i am so sorry!
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| Posted 7/13/08 4:10 PM |
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babyfaith
Onward and Upward!
Member since 2/08 3210 total posts
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Re: All for naught
I am sorry. I know how frustrating it is. I finally gave up on medicated IUI's after 4 tries and decided to go for IVF.
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| Posted 7/13/08 7:36 PM |
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hope316
LIF Adult
Member since 8/07 1085 total posts
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Re: All for naught
I'm so sorry
After 2 years surgery and 4 IUI i was recommended to go to ivf which is painful on 2 levels
emotionally: do i really need to go there
Financially; no insurance coverage
I pray our day is around the corner
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| Posted 7/14/08 8:48 AM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
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Susan
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Re: All for naught
this is so frustrating.
I only hope that it will come for you soon.
I can tell you to hang in there a billion times, but I know the longing.
I haven't been through anything yet, but I can feel your pain.
Maybe IVF is your next route. I know your insurance doesn't cover it.
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| Posted 7/14/08 9:09 AM |
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Bxgell2
Perfection
Member since 5/05 16438 total posts
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Beth
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Re: All for naught
Posted by Blu-ize
this is so frustrating.
I only hope that it will come for you soon.
I can tell you to hang in there a billion times, but I know the longing.
I haven't been through anything yet, but I can feel your pain.
Maybe IVF is your next route. I know your insurance doesn't cover it.
I have an appointment with my RE tomorrow and I'm going to discuss with her next steps. I'm really starting to believe that tiny little endometrioma cyst on my ovary may just be indicative of a more severe case of endo than we realize, even if I am asymptomatic otherwise. So I'm going to insist on laparscopy after another 1-2 more medicated cycles.
If the lap shows nothing significant, then yes, IVF will be our next step. It is daunting and scary because we will have to pay out of pocket, and the prospect of getting a BFN after spending thousands, god, I just don't know if I could recover from that 
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| Posted 7/14/08 9:12 AM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
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Susan
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Re: All for naught
I know what you mean. I hope that you don't have any structural issues that make this drag on but in a way you hope for something that will explain everything.
I'm very scared about spending thousands only to have nothing for it.
The emotional and financial drain is tremendous.
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| Posted 7/14/08 10:04 AM |
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Carolyn
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Member since 5/07 5351 total posts
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Twin mommy
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Re: All for naught
I'm so sorry Beth. I'm in a similar boat. No coverage for IVF but the medicated IUIs just aren't working. *sigh* I know how much it sux.
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