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does your DH/SO think you are too obsessed about TTC??
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MrsMessina
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Re: does your DH/SO think you are too obsessed about TTC??
Posted by MetsGirl07
that was very well said!
and touching at the same time.. i got all teary eyed just now 
i guess i have to take that in consideration.. maybe im being too selfish.. 
 Awww, sweetie- you're not being selfish. You went through a tramatic event I know you both did/are, but it's different for you than it is for him I'd think.
I never realized my DH was hurting- he's a guy and he's got a hard shell....I actually took his actions to mean that he wasn't 'really' ready to TTC.... but kept on trekking anyway, because we're dealing w/ IF and I felt like we started too late (and we've been dealing w/ TTC for over 4 years). It was nice that he was eventually able to open up and talk about it- though it took him seeing me at my worst (up til that point) to do so...
Message edited 6/17/2008 3:29:25 PM.
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Re: does your DH/SO think you are too obsessed about TTC??
Posted by MrsMessina
Posted by MetsGirl07
that was very well said!
and touching at the same time.. i got all teary eyed just now
i guess i have to take that in consideration.. maybe im being too selfish..
Awww, sweetie- you're not being selfish. You went through a tramatic event I know you both did/are, but it's different for you than it is for him I'd think.
I never realized my DH was hurting- he's a guy and he's got a hard shell....I actually took his actions to mean that he wasn't 'really' ready to TTC.... but kept on trekking anyway, because we're dealing w/ IF and I felt like we started too late (and we've been dealing w/ TTC for over 4 years). It was nice that he was eventually able to open up and talk about it- though it took him seeing me at my worst (up til that point) to do so...
yea my husband has that "hard shell" as well.. it hard to tell sometimes how he is feeling, or thinking for that matter.
but i dont know why i am obsessing over it.. its just unexplainable..
and he does tell me that he has to be the strong one.. so by saying that, it meant a lot!
i feel terrible that you and DH are going through this , hearing IF stories just breaks my heart.. having friends ,, and family going through it as well.. i wish you all the best and im so happy to see that you are hanging in there and keeping positive!! sounds like you have a wonderful husband by your side!! 
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