LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

Update on me....LOOOONG

Posted By Message

sfp0701
Liam's Mommy!

Member since 1/07

9764 total posts

Name:
Tricia

Update on me....LOOOONG

So.. here goes... the shortened version

As some of you may remember I had a m/c on the 30th of September... 30 days ago. I had bleeding for 18 daysChat Icon
My beta levels for the first week were
Monday: 540
Wed: 420
friday: 195

The next thursday: 65

The bleeding stopped the thursday after that.
The next day( friday): 45 hcg

So then I stopped bleeding for exactly one week.
The sunday after that last hcg I had ewcm and that thursday I started to spot. I thought maybe implantation spotting maybe af.. Who knows. I chalked it up to AF. Well today is Tuesday and I still spotting with some very weird cramping. SO last night called the dr. and had blood drawn this morning and went in for an appt this afternoon.
They did a sono which shows that I ovulated recently on my left side.. Makes sense. My prog. level was 8 which also shows that I ovulated. My Beta level is 31?????????? We don't know at this point if that is from the m/c still or if I am pg. The dr. Seriously doubts that I am pg and

thinks I ovulated 3 to 4 days ago. Dh and I bd'ed on Sat the 20th and sunday the 21st. So if I ovulated 4 days ago... pg is not a possibility. I told her about the ewcm and she says she can't rule out that I ovulated a week and 2 days ago but seriously doubts it.

Well anyway since I O'd I will be getting AF in 14 days from the O. Unless I am pgChat Icon She thinks I still have some left over cells from the m/c and doesn't recommend a d&C because I will be getting a period in a week or so and that should flush everything out. Also... there is the off chance that I could be pg. The other thing is that my uterine lining was very thin... No duh.. I have been bleeding for 30 days... so I don't think that is a good thing for a new pregnancy.. Who knows.. I am just guessing...

Well anyway there is my update.... It sucks... I just want to move on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1


ETA: thanks for all the support, I am sure everyone is getting tired of my "story" by now. I really means a lot to have a place to go and unload!!!Chat Icon

Message edited 10/31/2007 6:09:29 PM.

Posted 10/30/07 5:30 PM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

sfp0701
Liam's Mommy!

Member since 1/07

9764 total posts

Name:
Tricia

Re: Update on me....LOOOONG

Also I guess this answers my question from last week.. Can you ovulate when there is still hcg in you? YES

The dr. said there is not a lot of research out there saying you can but that generally there is a level that once your body gets below it you can O. I guess 45 ish is okay.

Posted 10/30/07 5:34 PM
 

Carolyn
.....

Member since 5/07

5351 total posts

Name:
Twin mommy

Re: Update on me....LOOOONG

Wow...what a crazy story! Hope things get straightened out soon -
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/30/07 5:46 PM
 

Kissy331
My two miracles!

Member since 5/06

17826 total posts

Name:
Kristen

Re: Update on me....LOOOONG

I am so sorry you are going through all of this Chat Icon Chat Icon You know I wish Stephen & you nothing but the best. I hope this gets straightened out very soon & you are able to move on. Did the Dr say anything about if you are PG again, would it be viable giving all the other factors???? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/30/07 6:26 PM
 

sfp0701
Liam's Mommy!

Member since 1/07

9764 total posts

Name:
Tricia

Re: Update on me....LOOOONG

Posted by Kissy331

I am so sorry you are going through all of this Chat Icon Chat Icon You know I wish Stephen & you nothing but the best. I hope this gets straightened out very soon & you are able to move on. Did the Dr say anything about if you are PG again, would it be viable giving all the other factors???? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I didn't even get into that because at this point she is pretty sure it is not a pregnancy. It could be and she did say she could be wrong but I think she doesn't even want to cross that bridge until we come to it. She doesn't want to do any more blood tests until next week because at this point it is just useless and causing me emotional stress. So I am going to enjoy my birthday this friday... you know as long as Stephen gets it through his head that I need HIM to plan something nice and leave me out of it. If he asks me one more time what I want I am going to scream!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (my parents are going out of town and I am just sad) Sooo yeah... the plan.. relax, enjoy my birthday and try to not obsess until next week. The dr did tell me to drink this weekend..She said don't get sloppy drunk just in case.. but drink and have fun.

Posted 10/30/07 7:10 PM
 

sfp0701
Liam's Mommy!

Member since 1/07

9764 total posts

Name:
Tricia

Re: Update on me....LOOOONG

Posted by Carolyn

Wow...what a crazy story! Hope things get straightened out soon -
Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Yeah she said it is rare that a m/c would take this long but it does happen and when it does it is usually with an early m/c... If I was further along it would have all just come out (TMI) at once and been heavier and shorter.

Posted 10/30/07 7:12 PM
 

Kissy331
My two miracles!

Member since 5/06

17826 total posts

Name:
Kristen

Re: Update on me....LOOOONG

Definately enjoy your birthday & have a few drinks to relax yourself. You truly do deserve it & will have some answers soon!!!

Posted 10/30/07 7:41 PM
 

csorisi
My 2 LOVES

Member since 11/05

1984 total posts

Name:
Corinne

Re: Update on me....LOOOONG

Trish-
I hope that everything works out. You and Stephen have been in my prayers since this all started.
Love ya

Posted 10/30/07 8:51 PM
 

firsttimer

Member since 5/07

1532 total posts

Name:

Re: Update on me....LOOOONG

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/30/07 9:10 PM
 

diva7531
My Peanut

Member since 2/07

5199 total posts

Name:
Ryan 3 boys EDD 11/6!

Re: Update on me....LOOOONG

Enjoy every second of your birthday!!! Have a drink and relax!
Come back to all this next week. Chat Icon

Posted 10/30/07 10:44 PM
 

RJzWife
LIF Infant

Member since 10/07

108 total posts

Name:
Kristen

Re: Update on me....LOOOONG

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/30/07 10:57 PM
 

-BabyMiracle-
When will my ship come in?

Member since 9/07

1056 total posts

Name:
J

Re: Update on me....LOOOONG

I am so sorry you have to deal with all of this! I hope its all straightened out soon. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/31/07 10:06 AM
 

Mommyof3
LIF Toddler

Member since 6/07

390 total posts

Name:
Traci

Re: Update on me....LOOOONG

Sorry about this....I will be hoping for you that everything gets straightened out. Good Luck!!!!

Posted 10/31/07 10:45 AM
 

DRMom
Two in Blue

Member since 5/05

20223 total posts

Name:
Melissa

Re: Update on me....LOOOONG

Has she talked to you about methotrexate? if there are cells still left they should not be there. Ask her about the metho shot

Posted 10/31/07 1:04 PM
 

sfp0701
Liam's Mommy!

Member since 1/07

9764 total posts

Name:
Tricia

Re: Update on me....LOOOONG

Posted by melijane

Has she talked to you about methotrexate? if there are cells still left they should not be there. Ask her about the metho shot

That is what induces a miscarriage right?
If so.. No.. because she wants AF to wash them out naturally. That is why she is not into doing a d and C. She did pose that as an option but I said no to that. She agreed. There is no need to do anything invasive because I WILL be getting a period because She was able to confirm ovulation. So since I waited a full month, another week is no big deal. If I really wanted to she would have done one of those options right away. There are no signs of infection at this point so she wants me to keep close contact with her and wait it outChat Icon

Posted 10/31/07 6:07 PM
 

KellyDance
Merry Christmas!

Member since 6/07

2153 total posts

Name:
Kelly

Re: Update on me....LOOOONG

I'm so happy you updated! Well, either way things are looking in you direction. Either you are PG Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon or you will get AF and be able to understand you cycles and hopefully get a BFP soon!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

The worst is behind you!

Posted 11/2/07 11:11 AM
 
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
any tips to prepare for a BIG interview....update I'm back Beth 7/20/06 27 Families Helping Families ™
My update rose825 3/23/06 11 Infertility
Another Janet & Keith Update baghag 3/23/06 40 Families Helping Families ™
April 1st - 12pm - Photo GTG - UPDATE 1st post nrthshgrl 3/23/06 38 Parenting
Appraisal Question (Update) jaysee00 3/22/06 17 Home
I Can't Wait Another Day! - Update Susan 3/15/06 57 Adoption
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 223373 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows