Stupidest Concern ever..but

So I am starting my 2WW. We have just started trying again after a MC in february followed by emergency surgery (I posted about this before), which is making me really anxious in regards to TTC and quite frankly really scared.

DH and I were going to visit his parents (who moved to TX in the beginning of June) a few days before AF is due...so here is my issue: I know flying hasn't been proved to increase your chances of MC, but they also don't necessarily say its 100% safe to fly in the 1st trimester. I keep thinking...what IF I get pregnant and then I fly and end up MCing again. I know this is stupid because I won't even KNOW if it happened...but I am still scared and unsure if I should go.

Thoughts guys. I know this is irrational but I can't help feeling this way.

Then again who knows how long it will take for us to get a BFP...I know I shouldn't modify my life thinking I *might* get preg this month.

Message edited 10/26/2007 7:14:45 PM.

Re: Stupidest Concern ever..but

I totally get your concerns - I think we all do this to a degree. But like you said in your post - you can't stop living b/c that might just be the month.

I would put my concern in check and go on the trip...

Good Luck!

Re: Stupidest Concern ever..but

I can totally understand your concerns because you neve want to go through what you went through again. But.. Like you said.. What if you don't get pg and you don't go? I would go and just "give it up to God". That is the best thing to do. JMO