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Traveling spouses??

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Bluepixie
Mamarazzi

Member since 6/07

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Name:
Laura

Traveling spouses??

My DH is working on several large projects that require him to work away from home 4 days a week. So far, we're really only in the 1st true month of TTC but I'm banking on having to try at least 3 months to hit the "nail on the head"...

I'm just concerned with him gone so much, we may miss our opportunityChat Icon

Posted 9/6/07 11:20 AM
 
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Kissy331
My two miracles!

Member since 5/06

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Name:
Kristen

Re: Traveling spouses??

My DH travels for work also but we follow the motto of "when it is meant to happen, it will"

This is our 4th month trying & we have of course not been successful yet. With DH travelling, it is hard at times bc my O schedule falls when he is gone. Just try to stay focussed & don't stress about it too much! It will happen Chat Icon

Posted 9/6/07 11:48 AM
 

when
Maybe this time?

Member since 7/07

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Re: Traveling spouses??

DH doesn't travel, but i do. It seems like I am always gone druing O time. It is very frustrating. There is NOTHING that can be done about this either...just have to go with it, unless he is willing to find a new job.

Posted 9/6/07 1:50 PM
 

TwinMama
Love my little ladies

Member since 2/06

1225 total posts

Name:
Stephanie

Re: Traveling spouses??

Maybe if it could be done ..plan a mini trip around the traveling. If either the DH or wife is away during that time..use that as an excuse to hop on a plane or car and be romantic at night...just some thoughts!

Posted 9/6/07 5:59 PM
 

bpmom
Feeling Blessed

Member since 6/07

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Re: Traveling spouses??

Posted by Kissy331

My DH travels for work also but we follow the motto of "when it is meant to happen, it will"

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I agree with kissy331. When it happens, it happens!

When I finally had a predictable cycle, I realized DH was going to be traveling when i ovulated. There wasn't much we could do about it, except BD the days before he left and the days just after he returned.
Good news, turns out I O'd earlier than we thought, so the actual conception happened while I was home alone and he was out of state. I was gardening and doing pretty heavy yardwork while DH was hanging out with his boys out west - that's when the magic must have really happened, we guess!
I patiently did the 2ww, took a test when AF was a day late, and got a BFP.
Now we're 4 months along...
If we had skipped that particular month because of his traveling, we might still be TTC...

Posted 9/9/07 9:42 AM
 

MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3

Member since 1/06

19197 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: Traveling spouses??

Unfortunately because I am on fertility treatment, we make sure before I start my monthly meds that either one of us are not traveling. I am not willing to take the meds just to miss a month.

Posted 9/9/07 5:48 PM
 

SupportACop
Momma's Boy & Lovin' it!!

Member since 5/06

2579 total posts

Name:
C

Re: Traveling spouses??

Dh and I work different schedules and were hoping and Chat Icon Chat Icon summer would work but unfortunatly BFN all summer.
Now me back in school I work 8-10 hours a day usually (7-7)
Dh works nights (6-7)
we are on completely different shifts and it is so depressing. Chat Icon
After this month I am taking off to lose weight, work on me, and not worry/stess about TTC Chat Icon

Posted 9/9/07 6:05 PM
 
 

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