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Happy1
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Talk about depressing
A friend of mine had asked me over a month ago about TTC. I told her when to try referred her to an O calendar online and BAM she gets a BFP one month later.
Although I am extremely happy for her at the same time it is very sad. Anyway, I bumped into her this morning and she showed me a picture of her 1st sonogram. I almost lost it, I actually teared up and had to fight back the tears.
Does anyone else ever feel this way? I feel like such an evil person but I guess for a TTC'er this is normal 
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Kissy331
My two miracles!
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Re: Talk about depressing
It is hard while TTC & you see friends & family members getting PG so easily...Trust me, I have been there! My SIL is due anyday now with her 2nd & at times I get emotional bc she has been blessed! Then DH brings me back to reality with "things happen for a reason."
In this entire TTC thing, I have become a firm believer that all of our time will come at some point. Some people have it easier then others & there is nothing wrong with getting emotional. We all have our hard/bad days
 
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| Posted 8/31/07 12:28 PM |
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Happy1
I'm a mommy!!!!
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Re: Talk about depressing
Posted by Kissy331
It is hard while TTC & you see friends & family members getting PG so easily...Trust me, I have been there! My SIL is due anyday now with her 2nd & at times I get emotional bc she has been blessed! Then DH brings me back to reality with "things happen for a reason."
In this entire TTC thing, I have become a firm believer that all of our time will come at some point. Some people have it easier then others & there is nothing wrong with getting emotional. We all have our hard/bad days
You couldn't have explained it any better! 
Message edited 8/31/2007 12:35:13 PM.
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| Posted 8/31/07 12:35 PM |
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sfp0701
Liam's Mommy!
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Tricia
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Re: Talk about depressing
I hear you...
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| Posted 8/31/07 1:00 PM |
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when
Maybe this time?
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Re: Talk about depressing
You're not evil; you're human.
I know exactly how you feel. It s$cks
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| Posted 8/31/07 5:14 PM |
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lisalisa27
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Re: Talk about depressing
I know how you feel
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| Posted 8/31/07 6:09 PM |
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kmac
Two under two!
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Kris
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Re: Talk about depressing
I totally know how you feel! One of my good friends is prego and we started talking about TTC at the same time and she was pregnant the following month. She's 5 months now and I'm making the invites for her shower. It's def hard, but I know eventually it will be my turn. It's hard not to be sad though.
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| Posted 8/31/07 10:37 PM |
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Goldi0218
My miracles!
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Leslie
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Re: Talk about depressing
Initially it started to hurt when the world around me was PG and I was not. then I realize that every child is a blessing and no person should ever be begrudged the happiness a child brings. However, I do get upset when people who cannot handle the commitment (financially, emotionally and otherwise) to raising children continue to have them. I have no patience for irresponsibility.
Our time will come. We will all be parents.
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| Posted 8/31/07 11:40 PM |
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BellaRock
I am all the Me I will ever Be
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Re: Talk about depressing
Well said.
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| Posted 9/1/07 9:53 AM |
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mskittynj
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Member since 7/07 256 total posts
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Rafaela
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Re: Talk about depressing
It's normal to feel that way! I think most of us feel like that when we find out someone around us is preg.
XOXO
Kitty
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| Posted 9/1/07 10:31 AM |
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