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Overnight Guests

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THUMPER
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Laurie

Overnight Guests

A friend of mine has someone staying with her for a few days, today they went out to lunch and when they got back the guest went and pushed the button on her answering machine to hear the messages. Would you have said something? I know I would have but friend did'nt because she did not want to have a fight with her. But was upset and cannot wait for her to leave tomorrow.

Message edited 2/25/2011 6:40:17 PM.

Posted 2/25/11 6:39 PM
 
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VickiRG510
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Vicki

Re: Overnight Guests

WOW someone is way toooo comfortable there. I think thats way too bold.

Posted 2/25/11 6:41 PM
 

KNic19
Baby's First Christmas

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Kim

Re: Overnight Guests

Umm, that is weird. I wouldn't listen to anyone else's messages. Even my mom walks out of the room to give me privacy when I check my messages.

Posted 2/25/11 6:42 PM
 

acm1899
LIF Adult

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Re: Overnight Guests

Were they expecting a call or just being nosey?

Posted 2/25/11 6:43 PM
 

THUMPER
LIF Adolescent

Member since 5/05

509 total posts

Name:
Laurie

Re: Overnight Guests

Being nosey, she has her cell and when it rings she goes in another room. So she wants her privacy, she has been a nightmare guest, tells her how to cook, decorate etc. They have not seen eachother in 4 years and I think it will be along time before she gets invited back.

Posted 2/25/11 6:46 PM
 

LSP2005
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Member since 5/05

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L

Re: Overnight Guests

Chat Icon That is horrible!!!

Posted 2/25/11 7:11 PM
 

muffaboo
LIF Adult

Member since 12/10

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Re: Overnight Guests

wow, i would never! unless of course my friend was like, "hey, can you push the play button on the answering machine for me?"

Posted 2/25/11 7:32 PM
 

debidonnamom
Kindness matters

Member since 12/10

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Mary (MOB)

Re: Overnight Guests

Whoaaa, Laurie, your poor friend!!! Mary

Posted 2/25/11 8:51 PM
 

Mushesgirl
Too blessed to be stressed

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Re: Overnight Guests

SAY WHAT????!!

Sometimes I read things on here and can NOT believe what people are doing these days!!!!!!! The utter chutzpah!!!!!!

Posted 2/25/11 8:54 PM
 

PrincessVonTrockel
Trophy Wife in Training

Member since 11/09

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Name:
Natalie

Re: Overnight Guests

Wow....not cool.

Posted 2/25/11 9:24 PM
 

PaddysGirl
Little princess is here!

Member since 4/07

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Crystal

Re: Overnight Guests

wow Chat Icon so wrong and rude!

Posted 2/25/11 9:55 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Overnight Guests

Wow! Thats just RUDE!Chat Icon

Posted 2/25/11 10:21 PM
 

THUMPER
LIF Adolescent

Member since 5/05

509 total posts

Name:
Laurie

Re: Overnight Guests

I thought it was too, and I do not think I could have held my tongue. A hotel would have beenin ger future for tonight.

Posted 2/25/11 10:35 PM
 

StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!

Member since 6/10

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Stacey

Re: Overnight Guests

Wow, that is bizarre

Posted 2/25/11 10:50 PM
 

KittyKatCopper
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Member since 3/09

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Kat - HamptonsBride (LIW)

Re: Overnight Guests

She should call her own machine while the friend is in the bathroom or outside & leave a message saying "Can't wait til you leave!" and let her push the button & hear that Chat Icon

Posted 2/25/11 10:55 PM
 

THUMPER
LIF Adolescent

Member since 5/05

509 total posts

Name:
Laurie

Re: Overnight Guests

LMAO I will tell her so if it happens again, she can make that message.

Posted 2/25/11 10:56 PM
 

nancygrace
I'm 2!

Member since 9/05

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Live*Love*Laugh

Re: Overnight Guests

I have had a guest (family) staying with me since tuesday. and she has ben asnwering my phone and that has been bothering me.. however i didnt say anything..there are worse things and i will pick and choose my battle...now ask me when she broke my shower handle yesterday then yes she knew i was not happy lol

Posted 2/26/11 8:02 AM
 

skip123
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Re: Overnight Guests

the only person who could possibly get away with that here is my Mom..but she would never...its definitely out of line...

Posted 2/26/11 11:50 AM
 

Diana712
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Diana

Re: Overnight Guests

Posted by THUMPER

Being nosey, she has her cell and when it rings she goes in another room. So she wants her privacy, she has been a nightmare guest, tells her how to cook, decorate etc. They have not seen eachother in 4 years and I think it will be along time before she gets invited back.



I have a friend who is a guest at my house about once every 6-8weeks for about 4-7 days it depends.. I have had many issues with her but I LET HER KNOW MY ways .. ie: never cleans up after herself.. I was cleaning up after everyone.. she also leaves every light on in the house and her TV on ALL night long and during the day when she is not in the room.. She also refused to strip the bed when her time to leave came and put new linens on.. I told her how I felt and she understood.. Things are so so so much better.. I hope you can express you feelings and move on.. Dont hold a grudge.. Chat Icon

Message edited 2/26/2011 7:41:40 PM.

Posted 2/26/11 4:31 PM
 

Babymakin
LIF Adult

Member since 12/10

920 total posts

Name:
Sarah

Re: Overnight Guests

Those are some BIG brass ones.

Posted 2/26/11 8:51 PM
 

MDF
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Member since 5/05

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Name:
Melissa

Re: Overnight Guests

That would bother me.

Posted 2/26/11 9:09 PM
 

THUMPER
LIF Adolescent

Member since 5/05

509 total posts

Name:
Laurie

Re: Overnight Guests

Well my friend is happy she is gone, I found out also that she invited herself. So when leaving she said I guess next time I should wait for a invite and she was told yes that is a good idea.

Posted 2/26/11 10:47 PM
 

Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st

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Re: Overnight Guests

Posted by THUMPER

Well my friend is happy she is gone, I found out also that she invited herself. So when leaving she said I guess next time I should wait for a invite and she was told yes that is a good idea.



Wow! What a great guest.

Posted 2/26/11 10:48 PM
 

Sweetheart409
LIF Adult

Member since 11/10

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Re: Overnight Guests

unless it is somebody that i am close with (mother, bff or sibling) i woulda asked what on earth they were doing? or if they were expecting a call on their home phone. thats way to comfy for me not to mention ballsy!

people are ridiculous....

Posted 2/26/11 11:47 PM
 
 

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