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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
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Name: Genna
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I am torn...did anybody tell work about being pg before 12 weeks?
I am 10w3d and I wanted to tell work because I have been feeling so sick. DH and I told so many people outside of work already but for some reason I am hesitant to tell work. I am not worried about being fired (I am in the union) but I am so stressed not feeling well and being here. What do you girls think? My original plan was to tell them on 5/22 after my 12 week appointment but I dont know if I can wait
edited for spelling!
Message edited 5/8/2006 4:02:59 PM.
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Posted 5/8/06 3:53 PM |
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pmpkn087
Life is good...
Member since 9/05 18504 total posts
Name: Stephanie
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work that about being pg before 12 weeks?
I say you should tell them. I told my job before 12 weeks because I was also so sick and was on bedrest, so I wanted my bosses to know why.
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Posted 5/8/06 3:55 PM |
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Dragonfly75
I love Hypnobabies
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work that about being pg before 12 weeks?
I told work after my 8 week appointment. For me, it has worked out well that other people know, that way when I'm not feeling well people understand why.
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Posted 5/8/06 3:56 PM |
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maybebaby
LIF Adult
Member since 11/05 6870 total posts
Name: Maureen
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work that about being pg before 12 weeks?
I told work at 8 weeks because of how sick I was. I wanted them to know in case i needed to leave...i could only fake a stomach virus for so long...
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Posted 5/8/06 3:59 PM |
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
Member since 7/05 21138 total posts
Name: Genna
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work that about being pg before 12 weeks?
Thank you! I feel so sick and its getting harder to hide it
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Posted 5/8/06 4:01 PM |
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Stacey1403
Where it all began....
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work that about being pg before 12 weeks?
I told them earlier too. You can only barf in you garbage secretly for so long
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Posted 5/8/06 4:02 PM |
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casey31
Mommy of 3!
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work about being pg before 12 weeks?
Genna- I'm 10w 6days and I told my boss two weeks ago-I didn't want him to think I was looking for another job with all of my appointments!
I wasn't afraid of telling him and then something happening because the way I looked at it was if, G-d forbid, something were to happen I would need time off of work. Then, at least I could tell him the truth and take the time without feeling like I had to lie and then I would worry that he would think I was slacking off or not working hard.....I would want him to know that I really did have a good reason for taking time off.
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Posted 5/8/06 4:17 PM |
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
Member since 7/05 21138 total posts
Name: Genna
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work about being pg before 12 weeks?
thank you again! I am going to tell them Wednesday...I have my 10 week appointment tomorrow night. I will keep you all updated!
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Posted 5/8/06 4:35 PM |
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DebG
Pick a cause & stand up for it
Member since 5/05 18602 total posts
Name: The cure IS worse!
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work about being pg before 12 weeks?
I told me boss really early on too and thank goodness I did! I was SOO sick and during our busiest time of the year too! It really helped not having to sneak around AND she was pretty lenient with me and the OT requirements.
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Posted 5/8/06 4:36 PM |
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annie
This is how I play basketball!
Member since 6/05 1980 total posts
Name: Stephanie
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work about being pg before 12 weeks?
no. we only told our families & one friend before 12 weeks. i personally would not inform work that early.
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Posted 5/8/06 4:37 PM |
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anon
where's winter?
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work about being pg before 12 weeks?
Posted by annie
no. we only told our families & one friend before 12 weeks. i personally would not inform work that early. this is how i felt, however after having a m/c which they knew about and getting preggo soon after, people started putting 2 and 2 together. i needed to take time for appointments, so my immediate group knew before 12 weeks and others only afterwards...
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Posted 5/8/06 4:40 PM |
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Lichi
what what!?
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work about being pg before 12 weeks?
If anything, just tell your immediate supervisor/boss... but don't let the cat out of the bag so soon to everyone else.
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Posted 5/8/06 4:46 PM |
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work about being pg before 12 weeks?
I told the director of the lower school and the phys. ed. teacher because we took the kids upstate to Frost Valley and I was afraid to do the hike, plus I am close with them. That was about 8 weeks into my pregnancy. Then about 3 weeks later I had to tell my boss because I was in a car accident and needed some time off to make sure everything was ok with the baby.
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Posted 5/8/06 6:23 PM |
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Chatham-Chick
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work about being pg before 12 weeks?
I had to tell some of my immediate coworkers b/c of some health concerns. Otherwise everybody else found out by word of mouth.
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Posted 5/8/06 6:36 PM |
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Charly
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work about being pg before 12 weeks?
I'm holding off until I start my 14th week, but I'm not sick at all. I think you need to do what's best for your situation at work. I would only tell those that need to know this early.
Feel better
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Posted 5/8/06 6:42 PM |
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dawnygirl25
Growing up soo fast..
Member since 1/06 14917 total posts
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work about being pg before 12 weeks?
I take x rays at work so I had to tell them the next day after we confirmed the pregnancy - I was only about 7 or 8 weeks.
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Posted 5/11/06 3:16 PM |
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Faithx2
All good things in 2016!!
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work about being pg before 12 weeks?
Posted by dawnygirl25
I take x rays at work so I had to tell them the next day after we confirmed the pregnancy - I was only about 7 or 8 weeks.
same here I was 9 weeks and I administer No2 which can cause miscarriages so I had to tell right away.......
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Posted 5/11/06 3:21 PM |
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Ambersmom
Straight up nasty
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Name: Sharon
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work about being pg before 12 weeks?
Posted by Stacey1403
I told them earlier too. You can only barf in you garbage secretly for so long
How true!!! I would definitely say something. Why should you sit in silence and suffer. Use those PG perks to your advantage!!
I couldn't wait until 12 weeks - I was openly barfing at week 5.
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Posted 5/11/06 4:34 PM |
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waytogo
Balancing act on a highwire
Member since 5/05 1292 total posts
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work about being pg before 12 weeks?
I have to tell work as soon as I know this PG is viable and the EDD. Hopefully next week. They have to manipulate many other schedules to have my maternity leave so it's telling them is being considerate to others.
If we didn't have these issues, I'd wait until 12 weeks...
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Posted 5/11/06 6:10 PM |
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sunny
Life is good!
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Name: Stephanie
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Re: I am torn...did anybody tell work about being pg before 12 weeks?
I told at 9 weeks, I was getting fat and people were talking! They guessed, and I didn't want to lie to my boss.
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Posted 5/11/06 10:05 PM |
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