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Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

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Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

We closed today on our first (and hopefully last) house today. I won't BS anyone, but the process sucked arse. Truly did.

We were ideal buyers. We had excellent credit, ZERO debt, had nothing to sell, steadily employed with additional income and our lender put us through the ringer. We provided papers upon papers. Being that our down payment came as a result of the sale of my family home a well as distributions from an existing family business, I had to prove at least 3 different ways that I was entitled to the money. Cancelled checks from Mom's estate wasn't enough. I had to provide a copy of her will too as well as her death certificate.

With Dad's business, I had to provide cancelled checks, tax returns from the business and HIS death certificate. I had to provide my marriage license to prove I was who I was because my father passed before I was married and there was a name change involved.

Our lender seemed to be disorganized and I plan on expressing my displeasure with them after we are settled and moved in.

We were also dealing with a very difficult situation. The sellers are in the midst of a nasty divorce and therefore were not in the closing room together. Their attorney was going back and forth between the two rooms which prolonged things slightly. The divorce also made our access to the home EXTREMELY difficult. We had a walk through on Saturday, but will effectively have to have a second one once they vacate - they still have children in school and are paying taxes, etc until school is over. We take posession on the 28th.

Our agent is an extremely hard working and incredible agent who went above and beyond for us. If anyone needs a recommendation, feel free to FM me.

Finally, this day was extremely emotional and bittersweet. We could not have done this without the sale of my family home and distributions from my father's business from which we (my siblings and I) continue to draw income. HOWEVER, nothing would have brought more joy to my parents than to see us and our children in a house. Their presence was felt in so many ways. We wish they could have been with us to see this day.

I dont have too many pictures but here is one: The roof and siding will be completely replaced before Zippy comes!:
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Posted 6/21/10 7:43 PM
 
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lilacwine
only love...

Member since 5/05

2034 total posts

Name:
<3

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Congratulations!!!! Love the big driveway!

Fingers crossed that all goes well through when the sellers vacate!

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Posted 6/21/10 7:55 PM
 

bklyngirl
COULD THIS BE MY YEAR??

Member since 6/05

15758 total posts

Name:
Gail

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

lots of luck to you!!!!!!

Posted 6/21/10 7:55 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Posted by lilacwine

Congratulations!!!! Love the big driveway!

Fingers crossed that all goes well through when the sellers vacate!

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That will be the true test. It's unsettling, but its the best we could do. I will be there at the designated vacating time with a locksmith (and a cop if I need one Chat Icon )

Posted 6/21/10 7:59 PM
 

LI-Joy

Member since 10/07

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Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Congrats and best of luck! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/21/10 7:59 PM
 

Kathy042806
LIF Adult

Member since 5/06

1417 total posts

Name:
Kathy

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Congrats! Dh and I close on Friday. Where are you moving to?

Posted 6/21/10 8:01 PM
 

DRMom
Two in Blue

Member since 5/05

20223 total posts

Name:
Melissa

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Its so cute! The big driveway is awesome

Posted 6/21/10 8:02 PM
 

julz33
i run for bacon

Member since 5/05

20584 total posts

Name:
julz

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Congrats!

Posted 6/21/10 8:06 PM
 

TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog
Leah's here!

Member since 9/07

5404 total posts

Name:
Sabrina

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Congratulations and Mazel Tov! Enjoy your new home! We changed the locks the day we closed (since we could finally take possession that day) and we were called "so Queens" haha...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/21/10 8:06 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Posted by TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog

Congratulations and Mazel Tov! Enjoy your new home! We changed the locks the day we closed (since we could finally take possession that day) and we were called "so Queens" haha...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Seriously? I dont know why anyone WOULDN'T change the locks ASAP.

Posted 6/21/10 8:07 PM
 

SKPtzu
Oh boys

Member since 6/08

1388 total posts

Name:
SKPtzu

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Congrats and lots of luck!

Posted 6/21/10 8:14 PM
 

evnme
My little lamb

Member since 8/05

12633 total posts

Name:
aka momma2b

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

congrats!!

Posted 6/21/10 8:21 PM
 

Kate
*****

Member since 5/05

7557 total posts

Name:
Kate

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Congratulations! Chat Icon

Posted 6/21/10 8:24 PM
 

beautyq115
New Year!

Member since 5/05

13729 total posts

Name:
Me

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Posted by Goldi0218

Posted by TheDivaBrideandTeddyFrog

Congratulations and Mazel Tov! Enjoy your new home! We changed the locks the day we closed (since we could finally take possession that day) and we were called "so Queens" haha...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Seriously? I dont know why anyone WOULDN'T change the locks ASAP.



I changed every freakin lock that DAY as well! You can't trust anyone! I am so happy for you and Ed! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/21/10 8:27 PM
 

Elbee
Zanzibar

Member since 5/05

10767 total posts

Name:
Me

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

CONGRATS!!

Posted 6/21/10 8:29 PM
 

twinkletoes807
Mommy's Girls! ♥

Member since 11/07

10116 total posts

Name:
Gabi

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Congratulation Leslie! There is nothing more satisfying and scary as owning your own home! Chat Icon Definitely change those locks!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Best of luck with the 2nd walk thru. May your home be filled with many many years of laughter, good times and love! xoxo

Posted 6/21/10 8:38 PM
 

pickles16
Real Estate Professional

Member since 11/07

17227 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Mazel Tov!!!!!!! Def change the locks the second you move in!!!

Posted 6/21/10 8:41 PM
 

JldDolphin

Member since 1/07

6929 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

CONGRATS!!!!!! May you have many years of wonderful memories in your new Home!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/21/10 8:45 PM
 

Jax430
Hi!

Member since 5/05

18919 total posts

Name:
Jackie

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Mazel Tov Leslie!!! I'm so excited for you! May you form many memories with your family in your home, that your children will cherish the way your cherish the times you had in your family home. Chat Icon

Posted 6/21/10 8:48 PM
 

Bops
My 3 wishes

Member since 12/07

13625 total posts

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Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Congratulations Leslie ...Many years of health and happiness in your new home Chat Icon Though not there in the flesh, know that your mom and dad are there in spirit shining down on you Chat Icon

Posted 6/21/10 9:04 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Posted by Jax430

Mazel Tov Leslie!!! I'm so excited for you! May you form many memories with your family in your home, that your children will cherish the way your cherish the times you had in your family home. Chat Icon



And Jax, we live close enough to be able to WALK to shul on Shabbos if we decide to be GOOD Jews. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/21/10 9:06 PM
 

browneyedgirl
family is all that matters

Member since 6/06

6513 total posts

Name:
browneyes

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

congrats!!! so happy for you guys! can't wait to see it in person!Chat Icon

Posted 6/21/10 9:07 PM
 

dani731
Blessed!!!

Member since 1/08

3355 total posts

Name:
D

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Congrats!!

Posted 6/21/10 9:09 PM
 

greenfreak
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Member since 9/06

11483 total posts

Name:
greenfreak

Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!

Congratulations!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/21/10 9:09 PM
 

bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!

Member since 3/09

6115 total posts

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Re: Its official: WE ARE HOMEOWNERS!!!



Congrats on your new home!!!
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Posted 6/21/10 9:09 PM
 
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