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***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

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TaraHutch
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

ugh I am so very sorry, especially that your MIL won't help out. Chat Icon

Not that our situation is in any way similar, but when DH's brother's health deteriorated (he has MS, and it affects his mind, he also has mild OCD), his parents were sort of the same way (actually still are in some respects). They almost just don't want to spend time with him.Chat Icon We visited on Christmas....and they came up with all these excuses as to how long they would stay (can't leave the dogs for too long Chat Icon). DH and I spent the entire day with him. So sad to me...I guess we couldn't understand their pain, watching their own child deteriorate...yet what you are going through- ugh I wish she would put her own suffering aside and help YOU and your SON!! Chat Icon

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Posted 1/16/10 10:21 PM
 
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LoveBeingMrsT
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

i pray things work out for you all! you are so strong and such an amazing mom and wife! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/10 10:22 PM
 

rose825
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

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If you decide to get a consult at the OCD center I mentioned let me know, and I will try and help you get in quicker.

Good luck to you.

Message edited 1/16/2010 10:23:02 PM.

Posted 1/16/10 10:22 PM
 

Palebride
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

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I hope his surgery is approved!!

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Posted 1/16/10 10:40 PM
 

sydniesmom
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susan

Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

Hang in there as best as u know how!! I really hope ur husband will be a candidate for the surgery and it will be a success. You and your family deserve happiness after all that you have been through. I will also keep u and ur family in my prayers!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/10 10:41 PM
 

casey31
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

I am praying for you- I am so sorry you are going through this.

You are a strong woman- a wonderful wife and mom.

I am praying the surgery is approved and your DH recovers. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/10 11:45 PM
 

Phyl
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Posted 1/17/10 1:10 AM
 

Superkat
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

I wish there was something I could do to help you. My prayers are with all of you. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/17/10 1:27 AM
 

sweetie101
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Posted 1/17/10 7:30 AM
 

Porrruss
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

I think about you and Jacob often. I am so incredibly sorry you are going through this type of pain. It's mind-boggling to me that you've essentially been dealing with this on your own. I hope like hell you get some relief soon.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/17/10 7:35 AM
 

jennandrob
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

i have no words for what you are going through. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/17/10 7:47 AM
 

mooshyboo
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

You are an amazingly strong woman! My thoughts & prayers for you and your family!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/17/10 9:02 AM
 

mooshyboo
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

You are an amazingly strong woman! My thoughts & prayers for you and your family!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/17/10 9:02 AM
 

Merf99
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

You are so strong and from what it sounds like, doing the best job for your son!! I hope this surgery works and he recovers and your life goes back to normal again. Shame on his parents for not helping you, and him out by taking him for a few days. Who turns their back on their child for their own selfishness?! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/17/10 9:09 AM
 

CouponKT
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

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Posted 1/17/10 9:24 AM
 

Bxgell2
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

I simply cannot imagine how difficult this must be and the array of emotions - sadness at the loss, anger at your husband and his family, helpless with the situation... what I DO know is that it sounds like you are handling this with the utmost grace under fire, even in those moments when you snap at DH... who wouldn't??? So many hugs and thoughts to you and little Jacob. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/17/10 9:25 AM
 

BigB
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

You are an amazing woman! You are so strong! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/17/10 9:40 AM
 

happytobreathe
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

What about an adult day care program? Just maybe a few days a week to give you a chance to breathe.

I give you so much credit and will keep you in my thoughts!

Posted 1/17/10 9:47 AM
 

avamamma
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

I am soo sorry for you and your son.

Is it possible to get him in in-patient treatment for now. It may safer for all of you.

Posted 1/17/10 10:17 AM
 

SuzyQ
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

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Your MIL should really be ashamed of herself. I'm sure it is hard to see her son like that, but she really needs to step up & help out. I hope that your DH gets approved for the surgery & that it works. Chat Icon And I hope the counseling helps you & Jacob. It sounds like you are doing an amazing job.

Posted 1/17/10 11:02 AM
 

-Lisa-
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

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I just read about a case where the Dr. had tested the patient to rule out bacteria streptococcus as the cause of the severe OCD.

I'm sure with all the dr's you've seen, someone must have done bloodwork of this sort, but if there's the smallest chance it could help, I wanted to mention it.

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Posted 1/17/10 11:23 AM
 

Briannasmommy
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Posted 1/17/10 12:13 PM
 

MsSissy
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

Oh my...I can't even imagine what you're going through.
My heart breaks for you.
Please continue to use LIF as an outlet. We're all thinking of you and Jacob.
ManyChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon to you.

Posted 1/17/10 12:25 PM
 

AnnBrunoXO
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Re: ***UPDATE ON MY DH 1/16/10*****

I am so sorry for what you all are going through. please let me know if I can be of help Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/17/10 12:31 PM
 

saraH
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