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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

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WWYD - Help Me Decide - UPDATE
OK - this is going to sound pretty stupid, but I'm a guy, and am stubborn.
Tonight is my department's annual holiday party in NJ (Hackensack). My boss has it at his house and it's always a great time. I look forward to it every year.
Obviously, we know the weather. I am in NYC right now, and I live in Queens. A bunch of people have already backed, but 10 are going. They rented a van service for us to go there, and I can get a car service to come home. However, with the weather, there may be delays, so everyone is planning on leaving early.
I obviously know the smart thing to do here, but it's killing me because I love this party. Is it worth it to go - or do I cancel out and leave NYC early.
It's not sticking in NYC - but it is where I live - not sure what it is doing in Hackensack.
I have included a poll ------------------------------------------------
UPDATE:
I decided not to go. Thanks for all your input.
I found out that only 9 people were going, and none of them are ones I really socialize with.
Plus, they didn't want to leave NYC till 6:30 - the party starts at 7, ad we'd be leaving by 9:30. Considering traffic - it wasn't worth it.
Finally, my area and the area where the party is is getting hammered and I heard the roads are a mess. ----------------------------------------------
UPDATE #2
I left early to beat the rush hour and on my way home, got an email on my BB that the party had been cancelled, so I don't feel bad because I am not missing out
Message edited 12/19/2008 6:40:14 PM.
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Posted 12/19/08 11:48 AM |
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Ophelia
she's baaccckkkk ;)

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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
I would go.
as long as no one is sick or anything, go and enjoy yourself.
that is what I would say to my dh.
but if no one was sick, he wouldn't be asking this question
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Posted 12/19/08 11:51 AM |
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HoneyBadger
YourWorstNightmare.

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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
How late can you back out? I would wait it out alittle while and see how the snow thing goes.
If it gets really bad then maybe back out, otherwise I'd go.
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Posted 12/19/08 11:53 AM |
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partyof6
b nice like u want ur kidz 2

Member since 7/06 7752 total posts
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
just go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and u stubborn? u r a pussycat!
u know u rock my fellow promotion friend.
Message edited 12/19/2008 11:55:03 AM.
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Posted 12/19/08 11:54 AM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
Name: And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
actually, one of my girls goes have a slight head cold - nothing major, but she is a little under the weather.
Change your answer?
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Posted 12/19/08 11:54 AM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
Name: And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
Posted by Jennie0898
How late can you back out? I would wait it out alittle while and see how the snow thing goes.
If it gets really bad then maybe back out, otherwise I'd go.
I am making an official decision at 2
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Posted 12/19/08 11:54 AM |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe

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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
Go and have fun
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Posted 12/19/08 11:55 AM |
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MrsRbk
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Name: Michelle
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
I can tell you, I don't live far from Hackensack and it's coming down pretty good here in North Jersey! I'd say we have just about over an inch on the ground where I am.
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Posted 12/19/08 11:55 AM |
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partyof6
b nice like u want ur kidz 2

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Name: jeannine
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
ok-I am burnt today...the kids r invited too and one had a headcold?
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Posted 12/19/08 11:56 AM |
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dpli
Daylight savings :)

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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
If I didn't have to drive at all, I would still go.
That being said, if I were you, I would go if Boosh is OK with the girls solo in the event that you got home extra late.
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Posted 12/19/08 11:56 AM |
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Shorty
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
go home early and snuggle your girls. 
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Posted 12/19/08 11:56 AM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
Name: And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
Posted by MrsRbk
I can tell you, I don't live far from Hackensack and it's coming down pretty good here in North Jersey! I'd say we have just about over an inch on the ground where I am.
I'm not worried about getting there
I'm worried about getting stuck in NJ
staying at that house would be sweet though
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Posted 12/19/08 11:57 AM |
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MeNBobs
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
I'd go, drink enough to make up for the people that backed out and left early and I would stay until it ends. The roads will probably be well taken care of by tonight and there will be less traffic on the road.
Have fun
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Posted 12/19/08 11:58 AM |
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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

Member since 6/07 42079 total posts
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
actually, one of my girls goes have a slight head cold - nothing major, but she is a little under the weather.
Change your answer?
what says the wife?
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Posted 12/19/08 11:59 AM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
Name: And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
Posted by lastchance1222
ok-I am burnt today...the kids r invited too and one had a headcold?
no no
kids aren't invited
ophelia said, "as long as no one is sick"
and i said that one of my girls has a head cold
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Posted 12/19/08 11:59 AM |
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dpli
Daylight savings :)

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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
I'm also going to add, Don, that I get out so rarely now, after having a baby, I imagine with twins, you get out even less. If it's something you look forward to all year - go.
But still see Boosh disclaimer above.
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Posted 12/19/08 11:59 AM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
Name: And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
Posted by headoverheels
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
actually, one of my girls goes have a slight head cold - nothing major, but she is a little under the weather.
Change your answer?
what says the wife?
she doesn't tell me or advise me what to do, and leaves me to my own devices
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Posted 12/19/08 12:00 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
Name: And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
Posted by dpli
If I didn't have to drive at all, I would still go.
That being said, if I were you, I would go if Boosh is OK with the girls solo in the event that you got home extra late.
even if that were to happen, MIL is there with her and is sleeping over
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Posted 12/19/08 12:00 PM |
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Celt
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
Posted by MeNBobs
I'd go, drink enough to make up for the people that backed out and left early and I would stay until it ends. The roads will probably be well taken care of by tonight and there will be less traffic on the road.
Have fun
Hell I'd stay until TOMORROW But see if the host changes his mind, maybe if so many people cancel they'lll do it another night????
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Posted 12/19/08 12:02 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
Name: And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
Posted by colette
Posted by MeNBobs
I'd go, drink enough to make up for the people that backed out and left early and I would stay until it ends. The roads will probably be well taken care of by tonight and there will be less traffic on the road.
Have fun
Hell I'd stay until TOMORROW But see if the host changes his mind, maybe if so many people cancel they'lll do it another night????
not going to happen - he arranged catering and pays for all this stuff out of his own pocket - so he'd lose money
Plus - he and other members of senior management travel alot - so this would be next to impossible to reschedule after the holidays
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Posted 12/19/08 12:05 PM |
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LoveyQ
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
I work in Jersey and EVERYTHING is completely white outside - they are estimating 6+ inches for parts of Jersey. Keep that in mind when making your decision.
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Posted 12/19/08 12:06 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
Name: And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
Posted by MrsQ-in2007
I work in Jersey and EVERYTHING is completely white outside - they are estimating 6+ inches for parts of Jersey. Keep that in mind when making your decision.
thinking that too
boosh just called and said that my part of Queens is getting slammed
not looking good
Thanks for all the input though, all. You guys drive a hard bargain
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Posted 12/19/08 12:08 PM |
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JenniferH
LIF Adult

Member since 8/07 1109 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
I'm sorry...I say you should back out...this storm is no where near over...it's just getting worse and worse out there...
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Posted 12/19/08 12:08 PM |
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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

Member since 6/07 42079 total posts
Name: LB
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
Posted by headoverheels
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
actually, one of my girls goes have a slight head cold - nothing major, but she is a little under the weather.
Change your answer?
what says the wife?
she doesn't tell me or advise me what to do, and leaves me to my own devices
and i suppose those devices include LIF? 
honestly, if it were me, i would not go. i hate bad weather like this and i would rather be home with DS and DH.
plus even if the roads are clear later, they could still be icy.
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Posted 12/19/08 12:09 PM |
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PaddysGirl
Little princess is here!

Member since 4/07 5923 total posts
Name: Crystal
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Re: WWYD - Help Me Decide
I say go, but I am also very stubborn. Have a great time!
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Posted 12/19/08 12:09 PM |
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