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OMG, I am FUMING **UPDATE**

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Mommy2Boys
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

Posted by Jenn627

You are not over-reacting and all I can say is wow. Just wow. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I would have been up there so fast the 'janitor' would have had to clean up his own blood.




ITA!!! This is EXTREMELY unprofessional and disturbing on so many levels. I would report him immediately to the Principal and school board. Even if he was joking it is completely unprofessional to do while a student is on the phone with his/her parents.

Posted 11/19/08 5:13 PM
 
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metagefken
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING







i have a meeting with the principal tomorrow morning





and if i didnt get a satisfactory response i'd be heading over to the superintendent's office. this teacher was way out of line and needs to, at the very least, be reprimanded. it would also be the last time he would be any where near my daughter. jerk!Chat Icon

Posted 11/19/08 5:13 PM
 

mrswask
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

Chris - absolutely inappropriate and idiotic for all the reasons everyone said!! So glad you have a meeting tomorrow morning! Keep us posted!! This dumbazz is messing with the wrong parent!!

And I can imagine how mortified D was!Chat Icon

Posted 11/19/08 5:14 PM
 

MelToddJulia
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

Posted by nrthshgrl

I think I'd be firing off an email to the teacher & cc'ing the principal. That is absolute BS.

It's not about trusting yoru daughter. It's about hearing someone lie in the background. I don't find it funny. What if she was being taken advantage of by the teacher or the janitor? IMO, he's lucky you didn't overreact with a cop showing up at school.





ITA!!!Chat Icon

Posted 11/19/08 5:17 PM
 

Babe49
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

That just reeks of unprofessionalism, rudeness and general creepiness! I'd be compeletely peeved and furious! He sounds like a flirtatious perv!

Posted 11/19/08 5:18 PM
 

Blu-ize
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

Holy inappropriate batman!

I don't know if I could wait until tomorrow. I might have had to send someone over there.

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Posted 11/19/08 5:33 PM
 

ReiRei13
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

Posted by KeithHernandez

I had a teacher like that in HS... Thought he was 'one of the guys...'

disturbing...



I also had a teacher like this in HS. Hes the same teacher who ended up getting in a fist fight with a student, and was put on probation. Again the same teacher who then proceeded to wiggle my nose not even a month after having rhinoplasty. The same teacher who cost the school quite a bit of money after a lawsuit transpired! needless to say the scumbag is still working there.

VERY DISTURBING!! He should not be working with HS students!!

Posted 11/19/08 5:59 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

Posted by Ophelia

sorry..11 year old girl staying after school with a male teacher who is making shady comments...

I would be pizzed too.

hi dude...I trust my DAUGHTER...i don't trust YOU! too many pervs in the world for you to be making jokes if I haven't even MET you. Chat Icon



exactly...ewwwChat Icon

Posted 11/19/08 6:03 PM
 

Phyl
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

I'm totally at a loss for what that teacher could have even remotely been thinking!Chat Icon

Posted 11/19/08 6:19 PM
 

BigB
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

That behavior is unacceptable! End of story. As a teacher, there is an unwritten code of conduct that needs to be followed.

As a teacher, I hate when others behave like that! I would file a complaint with the school. I have a ZERO tolerance policy for behavior like that!

Message edited 11/19/2008 6:30:05 PM.

Posted 11/19/08 6:19 PM
 

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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

How utterly unprofessional. And creepy. I am so glad you're meeting with the principal tomorrow.

Posted 11/19/08 6:21 PM
 

joenick
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

So inappropriate!!!!!!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I would have lost it!!!!!!!!!!!

Good luck tomorrow morning. That "teacher" needs a letter put in his file, to say the least! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/19/08 6:30 PM
 

4monkeys
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by leighla

I'm not sure I'm following.

The teacher was trying to make you believe your daughter was lying? Chat Icon




pretty much

i've never met this teacher before (PT conference is next week) -- so i'm not sure if he falls into the "jokester" category or not. if that is the case, and I was familiar with this teacher, then I probably would have laughed it off "ha ha, very funny" sort of thing. but I was SO taken aback by it!!!



and JUST for the fact that you never met this teacher before, and dont know his humor, this is even more COMPLETELY inappropriate !

I would send an email to the teacher and CC the principal like Barb said!

in this day and age, he's an IDIOT for even attempting something like that ! Chat Icon

see what he says at the conference, but you should document that somewhere somehow.

i hope it was nothing Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/19/08 6:38 PM
 

Erica
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

good luck tomorrow! you re completely right in being upset! I would try to go in as calm as possible (sometimes when parents go in yelling, principals will automatically defend the teacher as a result). I think having points written down is a great idea! and I think it's a must to change DD's schedule...if he's stupid enough to do something like that, he's probably stupid enough to hold a grudge.

do you know how long he has been teaching? Honestly I hope it's less than 3 years, b/c it's people like this that you need to get out of teaching before tenure - they give teachers a bad name!

Posted 11/19/08 6:39 PM
 

Diana712
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

Go there and get to the bottom of this.. Try to say cool.. Honestly this sounds very fishy and weird and inappropriate.. I would never let this go.. You are NOT by any means over reacting one bit.. He needs to be called out on this.. creepy very creepy...

Posted 11/19/08 7:24 PM
 

JenniferH
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

You have every right to be fuming mad...that is totally not acceptable behavior from a teacher...and I don't care if he is the "jokester" type or not...he sounds more like a creep to me...I hope you and/or your husband has a talk with this teacher or even a higher up if need be...

Posted 11/19/08 8:22 PM
 

lipglossjunky73
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

Honestly, i think that it's very odd for a teacher to act this way. in this day and age, why would a teacher want to put a parent through undue stress???? Very inappropriate and just weird....

Posted 11/19/08 8:30 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

That is effed up! I'm sorry, but I'd server his azz to him for dinner.Chat Icon

Posted 11/19/08 8:31 PM
 

juanvi
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

sick!Chat Icon

Posted 11/19/08 8:44 PM
 

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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

Creepy creepy creepy. I'd almost think the guy was STONED, as his comments were so wholly inappropriate! I hope he's having fun tonight cause tomorrow is NOT going to be a good day!!!!!!

Posted 11/19/08 8:46 PM
 

Alicia
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

You are not overreacing at all! That is just inappropiate on so many levels!Chat Icon

Posted 11/19/08 8:56 PM
 

KarenG2003
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

Posted by nrthshgrl

What if she was being taken advantage of by the teacher or the janitor? IMO, he's lucky you didn't overreact with a cop showing up at school.



I was thinking the same thing!

Posted 11/19/08 9:11 PM
 

Wendy1220
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

Posted by MelToddJulia

Posted by nrthshgrl

I think I'd be firing off an email to the teacher & cc'ing the principal. That is absolute BS.

It's not about trusting yoru daughter. It's about hearing someone lie in the background. I don't find it funny. What if she was being taken advantage of by the teacher or the janitor? IMO, he's lucky you didn't overreact with a cop showing up at school.





ITA!!!Chat Icon



EXACTLY! When I read the janitor comment my heart went in my throat.

Posted 11/19/08 10:57 PM
 

LightUpOurLife
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Re: OMG, I am FUMING

Are you sure she was in the classroom with the teacher. Are you sure it wasn't a boy, pretending to be the teacher. It sounds so juvenile and unprofessional, that is why I'm asking.

I can't fathom an adult talking like that EVER. Disgusting. I hope everything works out for your daughter.

Posted 11/19/08 11:00 PM
 

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Posted 11/19/08 11:14 PM
 
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