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Prettypit03
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Member since 3/08 179 total posts
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Jenn
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Very new at this...
So DH and I have been trying for 2 years but nothing official has been set in place as far as checking temps or dctrs apt. or anything. We have just sort of been "winging it" to see what happens, sort of like if it happens thats amazing and we will be over the moon but if it doesnt thats ok b/c we aren't "really trying". I just wanna know if I should be asking the dctr about alternate options, am I just sugar coating the inevitable by making myself believe we arent trying enough, b/c trust me, even if he isnt counting days and stuff I am and he is always saying "well next its our turn" when I mention someone is pg or jut had a baby...I just need advice and I would rather not talk to family or friends just yet. Thank you for any opinions anyone has to offer.
FYI-We are 26/27, have been together since we were 17,been married for almost 2 years and are ready, thats already been discussed between us, I think he doesnt wanna push the issue though b/c there have been months where I have been super emotional b/c AF showed up, his answer:we weren't really trying so dont be so upset....
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Posted 4/25/08 11:11 PM  |
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Reese32
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Re: Very new at this...
FM
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| Posted 4/25/08 11:26 PM |
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waterspout4
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Kelly
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Re: Very new at this...
I think it's always difficult, especially when you know you aren't over 35 and 'shouldn't be having problems TTC.' You've been at it long enough to raise questions and go get some tests done. You never know. I always thought everything was just fine, but found out that easy things the doctor did really helped me. I wish you the best of luck!
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| Posted 4/26/08 3:09 AM |
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sweetbabydreams
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Member since 12/07 2205 total posts
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Stephanie
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Re: Very new at this...
Never to soon to see a doctor and express your concerns. Seems like a long time with no results.  good luck and welcome to the board.
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| Posted 4/26/08 8:46 AM |
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babyfaith
Onward and Upward!
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Re: Very new at this...
2 years of unprotected sex without a BFP is long enough before seeing your doctor IMO.
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| Posted 4/26/08 3:51 PM |
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Carolyn
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Twin mommy
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Re: Very new at this...
Posted by babyfaith
2 years of unprotected sex without a BFP is long enough before seeing your doctor IMO.
ITA. You should go for testing even though you are young. 2 years is a long time.
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| Posted 4/26/08 7:26 PM |
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