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annienyc
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her
Michele,
I am so sorry this is happening to you!! This is truly heartbreaking...
You are a wonderful mother to your girls and are a great wife - this is NOT YOUR fault. Stay strong for your girls - I know you will!
Please email me if you want to chat - you know how to reach me!!
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MrsS2005
Mom of 3
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her
I'm so sorry. 
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| Posted 3/19/09 5:18 PM |
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Eireann
Two ladies and a gentleman!
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her
I've been thinking about you and I'm so sorry for all of this nonsense (and of course that's putting it mildly...). I hope you remain strong and resolute for yourself and your girls...
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| Posted 3/19/09 6:51 PM |
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Ang-Rich
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her
My heart breaks thinking of what you ahve been through...what you are going through. I am so sorry
This is my favorite poem...and as such I take different meaning from it at various times...
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul
Invictus
William Ernest Henley
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| Posted 3/19/09 7:00 PM |
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dm24angel
Happiness
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her
I have no advice, no one really can give you any, its your marriage, your situation but I wanted to send hugs. and prayers for hwatever course of action you take! 
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| Posted 3/19/09 7:22 PM |
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LuvMy2Girls
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her
Thank you everyone..i'm feeling so empowered for some reason, i am at peace.
Ang-that poem is great, i'm going to print it out and put it up next to my serenity prayer :)
Annie-I will def email you soon, thank you
I figured i'd give you guys another update from last night...he made his choice on one of my options..
He chose to "separate" for 2 weeks, then work, really work, and if continues to hurt me everyday or we fight everyday, he's out for good. He also agreed to my terms of going back to MY therapist for couples therapy. I HATED his therapist!
So that's us for another 2 weeks...I am fine with this..and I will make sure i have everything in order the next 2 weeks just in case (documents etc for you know what)
Thank you so much everyone for the support.
Mwah
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I pray all goes well for you M. You SO deserve it.
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her ***Another UPDATE**** bottom pg 4..he chose one of my options..
Thinking of you and wishing you all the best! 
Whichever road you take, know that you are strong, and WILL be ok.
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| Posted 3/20/09 9:12 AM |
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Kelly9904
Mommy to 2 amazing little boys
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her ***Another UPDATE**** bottom pg 4..he chose one of my options..
Posted by LuvMy2Girls
Thank you everyone..i'm feeling so empowered for some reason, i am at peace.
Good for you!!!!
You feel at peace becuase you know that you have done all that is within YOUR power and no matter the outcome your life will begin to move forward towards happiness (with or without the husband!)
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| Posted 3/20/09 9:16 AM |
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Lucky
Growing up fast!
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her ***Another UPDATE**** bottom pg 4..he chose one of my options..
You are one strong woman! Good for you for sticking to your guns!!!!
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| Posted 3/20/09 9:22 AM |
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Shelly
She's 7!!!
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her ***Another UPDATE**** bottom pg 4..he chose one of my options..
I know you will get the loving relationship that you deserve. You are a strong woman who is so devoted to your marriage, its really inspiring. I hope your DH rises to your expectations.
If he doesn't, I know you will still find happiness and the love you truly deserve.
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| Posted 3/20/09 9:52 AM |
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annienyc
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her ***Another UPDATE**** bottom pg 4..he chose one of my options..
Michele - That sounds like a reasonable plan and is worth a shot... I hope this works out - one way or the other...
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| Posted 3/20/09 9:59 AM |
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MrsR
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her ***Another UPDATE**** bottom pg 4..he chose one of my options..
Just wanted to send you some support.
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| Posted 3/20/09 10:01 AM |
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dawnygirl25
Growing up soo fast..
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her ***Another UPDATE**** bottom pg 4..he chose one of my options..
OMG Michele. I am so sorry to read all of this. I have been thinking about you and wondering why you were MIA. I had no idea you had so much on your plate. It sounds like you are being very strong for those beauties of yours and I hope you and Frank can work things out. I am here if you wan to talk. You have my email.
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her ***Another UPDATE**** bottom pg 4..he chose one of my options..
Michele,
I am so sorry that it's come to this...I am still here if you need to vent/talk.
I admire your strength and courage through this - you are doing what is best for you and your girls...that makes you a great mom and a strong woman.
We are all here for you
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| Posted 3/20/09 10:07 AM |
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JennyPenny
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her ***Another UPDATE**** bottom pg 4..he chose one of my options..
I'll be praying that everything works out for you- no matter which way that is.
Good Luck!!
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| Posted 3/20/09 10:45 AM |
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DmarieK
My loves!!
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her ***Another UPDATE**** bottom pg 4..he chose one of my options..
I am so sorry your going through this!!
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gabbie83
2 girls <3
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her ***Another UPDATE**** bottom pg 4..he chose one of my options..
i am so sorry for what you are going through
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| Posted 3/20/09 11:45 AM |
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PrincessP
Big sister!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her ***Another UPDATE**** bottom pg 4..he chose one of my options..
I am so sorry! Good for you for sticking to your plan!
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| Posted 3/20/09 12:25 PM |
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BeachMom
Love my 4 kiddos!
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her ***Another UPDATE**** bottom pg 4..he chose one of my options..
so sorry what your going through
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| Posted 3/20/09 1:50 PM |
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mooshyboo
So Blessed!
Member since 11/07 6297 total posts
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Christine
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Re: Sooo, time for me to fess up..Ahhhh *Update* I spoke to her ***Another UPDATE**** bottom pg 4..he chose one of my options..
I am sooooo sorry you are going through this!
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