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blu6385

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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!



If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.



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Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!

Posted 9/30/21 11:52 AM
 
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Re: Psst....Good deeds

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Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self. Chat Icon



It's amusing to see how he triggers you.

But I'm curious, what are you guys called?

Windy Weather's Wind Bags?

Windy Weather's Blow Hards?

Hazeleyes and her Guys?




He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
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Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.

And no you didn't.




Shut up, it is a compliment if you know what only fans is, as you have followers who like your posts and request stuff for you to post.

The joke wasn’t directed at him. Give it Up. And yes I made comments in the past about posts I felt were condescending or wrong. Get over it. He did.. he’s not even posting on here. That’s not what I would call a trigger. Do you see me attacking him or posting every time he puts something up? NOPE.

Get a life and stop making an issue where there is none. He doesn’t seem to care as much you sad ladies do.
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Posted 9/30/21 11:55 AM
 

windyweather21
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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!



If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.



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Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!



You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.

Posted 9/30/21 11:59 AM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!



If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.



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Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!



You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.



You are literally insane.

The fact that you both started this thread and continue to come back to argue with EVERYONE over what constitutes a good deed, how one should go about their good deed and to criticize anyone for doing a good deed is next level, EPIC, freaking crazy.

Something is wrong with you. Seriously.




Posted 9/30/21 12:07 PM
 

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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!



If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.



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Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!



You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.



Maybe you should this up with the people who hand out the “I gave blood” stickers, instead of directing it at a message board. You might get more results.

Posted 9/30/21 12:08 PM
 

windyweather21
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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!



If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.



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Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!



You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.



You are literally insane.

The fact that you both started this thread and continue to come back to argue with EVERYONE over what constitutes a good deed, how one should go about their good deed and to criticize anyone for doing a good deed is next level, EPIC, freaking crazy.

Something is wrong with you. Seriously.







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Posted 9/30/21 12:09 PM
 

windyweather21
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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by klingklang77

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!



If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.



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Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!



You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.



Maybe you should this up with the people who hand out the “I gave blood” stickers, instead of directing it at a message board. You might get more results.



Oh people LOVE to announce that they did this or that. Can't just do it without telling everyone. MY. ENTIRE.POINT.

Posted 9/30/21 12:11 PM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by klingklang77

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!



If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.



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Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!



You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.



Maybe you should this up with the people who hand out the “I gave blood” stickers, instead of directing it at a message board. You might get more results.



Oh people LOVE to announce that they did this or that. Can't just do it without telling everyone. MY. ENTIRE.POINT.



Who cares?? What kind of person is bothered by hearing of someone else's kindness towards others?? I'd rather listen to that allllll day long and every which way from Sunday over your repetitive, whiny posts about COVID and people wearing masks. Chat Icon

This is without question the most stupid, pointless thread ever started on LIF. Complaining about someone else being kind and selfless, now I've heard it all. Good grief. You should be embarrassed by this whole thread, nobody is even agreeing with you because everyone is smart enough to recognize how batcr@p crazy this whole commentary is. Except you, of course.

Posted 9/30/21 12:18 PM
 

blu6385

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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!



If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.



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Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!



You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.



Not sure where in my post i made it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did it but even if that’s the case who cares??!!
Something good came out of it and someone benefited from it!! Even if people bragged about it it doesn’t negate the results of the good deed!!

Still not seeing what the bad thing is here.

Posted 9/30/21 12:21 PM
 

windyweather21
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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by klingklang77

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!



If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.



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Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!



You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.



Maybe you should this up with the people who hand out the “I gave blood” stickers, instead of directing it at a message board. You might get more results.



Oh people LOVE to announce that they did this or that. Can't just do it without telling everyone. MY. ENTIRE.POINT.



Who cares?? What kind of person is bothered by hearing of someone else's kindness towards others?? I'd rather listen to that allllll day long and every which way from Sunday over your repetitive, whiny posts about COVID and people wearing masks. Chat Icon

This is without question the most stupid, pointless thread ever started on LIF. Complaining about someone else being kind and selfless, now I've heard it all. Good grief. You should be embarrassed by this whole thread, nobody is even agreeing with you because everyone is smart enough to recognize how batcr@p crazy this whole commentary is. Except you, of course.




Annnnndddd....you are still posting to said thread.



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Posted 9/30/21 12:27 PM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!



If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.



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Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!



You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.



Not sure where in my post i made it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did it but even if that’s the case who cares??!!
Something good came out of it and someone benefited from it!! Even if people bragged about it it doesn’t negate the results of the good deed!!

Still not seeing what the bad thing is here.



There is nothing bad, Hazel makes absolutely NO sense whatsoever. This whole thread was started for ONE reason, she needs constant attention and drama is her ticket to getting noticed. Anyone with half a brain (which seems to be basically everyone on here) sees this thread for the $hit stirring, passive aggressive BS it is which is why nobody has even agreed with her. Calling ANYONE out for doing a good deed is lunacy.

Posted 9/30/21 12:39 PM
 

chilltocam
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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by klingklang77

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!



If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.



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Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!



You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.



Maybe you should this up with the people who hand out the “I gave blood” stickers, instead of directing it at a message board. You might get more results.



Oh people LOVE to announce that they did this or that. Can't just do it without telling everyone. MY. ENTIRE.POINT.



Who cares?? What kind of person is bothered by hearing of someone else's kindness towards others?? I'd rather listen to that allllll day long and every which way from Sunday over your repetitive, whiny posts about COVID and people wearing masks. Chat Icon

This is without question the most stupid, pointless thread ever started on LIF. Complaining about someone else being kind and selfless, now I've heard it all. Good grief. You should be embarrassed by this whole thread, nobody is even agreeing with you because everyone is smart enough to recognize how batcr@p crazy this whole commentary is. Except you, of course.




Annnnndddd....you are still posting to said thread.



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So what? What the hell is your point? Your thought processes are way off balance

Posted 9/30/21 12:40 PM
 

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Re: Psst....Good deeds

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Message edited 9/30/2021 12:48:28 PM.

Posted 9/30/21 12:47 PM
 

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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by MC09

Posted by windyweather21

Are not supposed to not be mentioned and flaunted.

That’s the entire point of doing them. You help others which in turn does make you feel good but when told what you do is defeating the purpose of doing them.



Wasn't there a Friends episode about this? They were discussing good deeds and one of them said if it makes you feel good to do a good deed then it's technically not a selfless act Chat Icon I want to say it was either Joey or Phoebe's line, because it sounds like a Joey or Phoebe line, but I don't remember exactly. A Friends fan will probably recall the scene better.

So, according to Friends, that warm feeling that comes from doing good deeds means you're actually a selfish jerk Chat Icon Chat Icon



Yes it was Joey, and Phoebe spent the whole episode trying prove him wrong. Even in the end she donated to his telethon and the big donation led to Joey being on TV which she the felt good about. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

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Posted 9/30/21 12:49 PM
 

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Posted 9/30/21 12:51 PM
 

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Posted 9/30/21 1:22 PM
 

windyweather21
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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!



If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.



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Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!



You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.



Not sure where in my post i made it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did it but even if that’s the case who cares??!!
Something good came out of it and someone benefited from it!! Even if people bragged about it it doesn’t negate the results of the good deed!!

Still not seeing what the bad thing is here.



There is nothing bad, Hazel makes absolutely NO sense whatsoever. This whole thread was started for ONE reason, she needs constant attention and drama is her ticket to getting noticed. Anyone with half a brain (which seems to be basically everyone on here) sees this thread for the $hit stirring, passive aggressive BS it is which is why nobody has even agreed with her. Calling ANYONE out for doing a good deed is lunacy.



Once again, if it bothers you so much...why do you keep posting?

Posted 9/30/21 1:31 PM
 

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Re: Psst....Good deeds

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Posted 9/30/21 1:33 PM
 

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Exactly!

Posted 9/30/21 1:36 PM
 

KarenK122
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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by klingklang77

Posted by KarenK122

There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.



I don’t think you seem to understand the things she has said for people to react to her like that. You can do a search for all of that if you like. She has said plenty of things.

-She has called people out and said they need serious mental help after googling online. The problems are usually anxiety.

-She searches on here and looks for anything to say negative things. She victim blames. She probably has a spreadsheet on her wall.

She’s been Hazel, Afternoon Delight and numerous other screen names. WHy she keeps coming back is beyond me. She’s been an issue for at least 10+ years. There are many posts on private FB groups about her.

I have received many FMs from people who say, yes, now I know why you said what you did.

And then you have her and another poster calling people out that they “know more than you think about you.”

And you (collective) don’t understand why people are upset? Yeah, no.



I fully understand. I have also seen you do the same exact things to her.

Posted 9/30/21 1:51 PM
 

KarenK122
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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by JennP

Posted by KarenK122

Posted by JennP

Posted by Sash

Posted by JennP

Posted by Sash

Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self. Chat Icon



It's amusing to see how he triggers you.

But I'm curious, what are you guys called?

Windy Weather's Wind Bags?

Windy Weather's Blow Hards?

Hazeleyes and her Guys?




He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is? Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
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Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.

And no you didn't.

Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.

Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.

People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.



The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.

She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.

I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.



There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.

Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)

I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.



Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.

And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.

Posted 9/30/21 1:54 PM
 

Anotherplease
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Psst....Good deeds

This is the thread that never ends it goes on and on my friends! This is hysterical!

Posted 9/30/21 2:09 PM
 

windyweather21
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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by Anotherplease

This is the thread that never ends it goes on and on my friends! This is hysterical!



and they complain about it while they keep posting. At least you can get a laugh today as it is hysterical.

Then we go on to start a thread asking people what good deeds they do. Whoooooshhhh right over their heads.

Posted 9/30/21 2:11 PM
 

mommy2devin
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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Anotherplease

This is the thread that never ends it goes on and on my friends! This is hysterical!



and they complain about it while they keep posting. At least you can get a laugh today as it is hysterical.

Then we go on to start a thread asking people what good deeds they do. Whoooooshhhh right over their heads.



Hazel, do you really not get why that post was started? I think maybe things….. whoosh…. Right over your head.

Posted 9/30/21 2:28 PM
 

MC09
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Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by Sash

Posted by MC09

Posted by windyweather21

Are not supposed to not be mentioned and flaunted.

That’s the entire point of doing them. You help others which in turn does make you feel good but when told what you do is defeating the purpose of doing them.



Wasn't there a Friends episode about this? They were discussing good deeds and one of them said if it makes you feel good to do a good deed then it's technically not a selfless act Chat Icon I want to say it was either Joey or Phoebe's line, because it sounds like a Joey or Phoebe line, but I don't remember exactly. A Friends fan will probably recall the scene better.

So, according to Friends, that warm feeling that comes from doing good deeds means you're actually a selfish jerk Chat Icon Chat Icon



Yes it was Joey, and Phoebe spent the whole episode trying prove him wrong. Even in the end she donated to his telethon and the big donation led to Joey being on TV which she the felt good about. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

ETA: the fact that no one responded to your post is disturbing to me on ALL LEVELS. This is a trigger for me Chat Icon



Yes, that was it! I forgot all about the telethon Chat Icon Thank you!

Posted 9/30/21 2:30 PM
 
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