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Hofstra26
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

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Posted 1/27/21 5:23 PM
 

BFNY516
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Please don’t feed the troll

I have stayed away from this thread but Trump divided the nation and now it seems one poster who isn't even here anymore has divided a board. A board where majority of discussions are civil even if they disagree. Why give that power?


My two cents is to find common ground and keep it moving. We don't all have to hold hands but put the gas cans away.

Message edited 1/27/2021 5:31:24 PM.

Posted 1/27/21 5:30 PM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by BFNY516

I have stayed away from this thread but Trump divided the nation and now it seems one poster who isn't even here anymore has divided a board. A board where majority of discussions are civil even if they disagree. Why give that power?


My two cents is to find common ground and keep it moving. We don't all have to hold hands but put the gas cans away.



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Posted 1/27/21 5:32 PM
 

jlm2008
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

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Omg a poster on here told me to seek therapy for no reason really and all of you except MC09 have ignored it. That’s is the f#kn problem we are talking about. The double standard, the hypocrisy, the fact that you guys practice “Do as I say, not as I do”.

That is what we are referring to.. not every detail or nitty gritty offense that VB did. People acknowledge that she wasn’t in the right, but no one else is being accountable for the juvenile behavior that they actively participated in.

Why is it ok for JLM to say I need therapy for basically nothing but VB saying that months ago (within reason) keeps being brought up over and over again as a reason to defend your actions. But yet no one has called out this poster for saying that?

That is what we are talking about. It’s very freaking bizarre. But I’m sure this is going to be twisted into me being wrong.

I do agree with soontobemommy that some of the behavior I saw surprised me as it was very out of character for some posters.

Idk .. but something weird is going on behind the scenes. A lot of this obsessiveness, ignoring posts and truths is so off the charts crazy even for LIF.

But then again, I’m just a troll, bot on the wrong side of history.



I have not been on in a day or so Sash, and I am not going to read all I missed. Telling you that you may want to seek therapy was trying to give you some help. You seem to have anger issues. That's not an opinion, that is fact when you turn your nastiness and sarcasm on me because I am not defending a stalker on the boards. I misunderstood something you said to me, since there was more than one way for it to be interpreted and again you turn your nasty sarcasm on me because I made a mistake. I explain to you what I thought you said and apologized for misinterpreting and yet AGAIN, you have a sarcastic comment. If you feel the need to be so aggressive to someone you do not know, either because they won't support criminal activity or because they misunderstand something you said and then explain to why and then apologize , then yes, it does suggest that you have some aggression issues that you need to work through And I will stand behind my telling you it would be a better use of your time to explore that , then attack a stranger on the internet. Therapy is a wonderful tool, Everyone including myself can benefit from it. There is no need to stigmatize it. But you will just have a nasty sarcastic comeback anyway .

Posted 1/27/21 5:56 PM
 

alli3131
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by JennP

Posted by Sash

Omg a poster on here told me to seek therapy for no reason really and all of you except MC09 have ignored it. That’s is the f#kn problem we are talking about. The double standard, the hypocrisy, the fact that you guys practice “Do as I say, not as I do”.

That is what we are referring to.. not every detail or nitty gritty offense that VB did. People acknowledge that she wasn’t in the right, but no one else is being accountable for the juvenile behavior that they actively participated in.

Why is it ok for JLM to say I need therapy for basically nothing but VB saying that months ago (within reason) keeps being brought up over and over again as a reason to defend your actions. But yet no one has called out this poster for saying that?

That is what we are talking about. It’s very freaking bizarre. But I’m sure this is going to be twisted into me being wrong.

I do agree with soontobemommy that some of the behavior I saw surprised me as it was very out of character for some posters.

Idk .. but something weird is going on behind the scenes. A lot of this obsessiveness, ignoring posts and truths is so off the charts crazy even for LIF.

But then again, I’m just a troll, bot on the wrong side of history.



You sometimes come across as one of the nastiest people on here so if you want more accountability hold onto your hat.

You've been rude to me without provocation on more than one occasion.

You're always jumping down seaside's throat.

You sarcastically called someone (can't remember who) a "genius" the other day.

There are other examples but I don't remember details about everything.

Personally, I have chosen to just give it back to you rather than call you out because that's more fun and really, who gives a shit anyway.

But this post is a bit rich coming from you.



I was the “genius”.

No one should be throwing stone as we have all had our moments but VB rose to a new level!

Posted 1/27/21 7:22 PM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

The troll is baaaaaacccccckkkkkk Chat Icon

Posted 3/3/21 1:23 PM
 

Anotherplease
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Please don’t feed the troll

Haha! The crew has something to complain about!

Posted 3/3/21 3:47 PM
 

jlm2008
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Please don’t feed the troll

Along with the rest of the obnoxious, misinformation spreading crew. Oh joy.

Posted 3/3/21 7:40 PM
 

Anotherplease
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Please don’t feed the troll

If you are relying on lifamilies for information that’s pretty sad.

Posted 3/3/21 8:23 PM
 

Valentinesbaby73
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by Anotherplease

If you are relying on lifamilies for information that’s pretty sad.



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Posted 3/3/21 8:29 PM
 

Valentinesbaby73
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by jlm2008

Along with the rest of the obnoxious, misinformation spreading crew. Oh joy.



Sweet coming from someone who has no kids but insisted to give their advice to someone on the other board Chat Icon

Posted 3/3/21 8:30 PM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by jlm2008

Along with the rest of the obnoxious, misinformation spreading crew. Oh joy.



On the plus side, we get to be entertained by VB's multiple personalities. It's always fun watching her go back and forth with herself on threads. Chat Icon Chat Icon

I'm sure it won't be long before she gets herself banned again. Chat Icon

Posted 3/3/21 9:04 PM
 

Valentinesbaby73
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by jlm2008

Along with the rest of the obnoxious, misinformation spreading crew. Oh joy.



On the plus side, we get to be entertained by VB's multiple personalities. It's always fun watching her go back and forth with herself on threads. Chat Icon Chat Icon

I'm sure it won't be long before she gets herself banned again. Chat Icon



Banned for what? I would love to know what I got banned for as I never received one email telling me what I did wrong.

Posted 3/3/21 9:56 PM
 

lululu
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

OMG this thread again! I feel like I am in elementary school all over again, because even my high school friends were more mature than this.

What is the need for this post? Can't you all just FM each other and give each other the support you need to not respond to posters you don't like? Do you all have that little will power?

Posted 3/3/21 10:31 PM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

So many trolls, so little time. Chat Icon

Posted 3/3/21 10:32 PM
 

jlm2008
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by Valentinesbaby73

Posted by jlm2008

Along with the rest of the obnoxious, misinformation spreading crew. Oh joy.



Sweet coming from someone who has no kids but insisted to give their advice to someone on the other board Chat Icon



Why would you think I have no kids? From day one on this board over a decade ago, I have purposely given misinformation about personal details like that. Why you ask? Because of the psycho stalkers like you. Since you are a long time poster, you know that you are not the first stalker.

Posted 3/3/21 10:36 PM
 

Valentinesbaby73
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by jlm2008

Posted by Valentinesbaby73

Posted by jlm2008

Along with the rest of the obnoxious, misinformation spreading crew. Oh joy.



Sweet coming from someone who has no kids but insisted to give their advice to someone on the other board Chat Icon



Why would you think I have no kids? From day one on this board over a decade ago, I have purposely given misinformation about personal details like that. Why you ask? Because of the psycho stalkers like you. Since you are a long time poster, you know that you are not the first stalker.



Your comment about the birth control. It is very easy to see who have children and who don’t by nasty comments to others.

Posted 3/3/21 10:39 PM
 

lululu
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by jlm2008

Posted by Valentinesbaby73

Posted by jlm2008

Along with the rest of the obnoxious, misinformation spreading crew. Oh joy.



Sweet coming from someone who has no kids but insisted to give their advice to someone on the other board Chat Icon



Why would you think I have no kids? From day one on this board over a decade ago, I have purposely given misinformation about personal details like that. Why you ask? Because of the psycho stalkers like you. Since you are a long time poster, you know that you are not the first stalker.



You aren't the first to say you do this. I find it interesting. Do people really worry that someone on here is going to stalk them to the point that they or someone in their family will be harmed? I try not to post about things like when I plan to travel (although we almost always have a house sitter so I hope no one gets any ideas....) because it is pretty easy to figure out my name IRL. But I would never make up details like having or not having children, being married or divorced etc.

Posted 3/3/21 10:41 PM
 

Valentinesbaby73
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by lululu

Posted by jlm2008

Posted by Valentinesbaby73

Posted by jlm2008

Along with the rest of the obnoxious, misinformation spreading crew. Oh joy.



Sweet coming from someone who has no kids but insisted to give their advice to someone on the other board Chat Icon



Why would you think I have no kids? From day one on this board over a decade ago, I have purposely given misinformation about personal details like that. Why you ask? Because of the psycho stalkers like you. Since you are a long time poster, you know that you are not the first stalker.



You aren't the first to say you do this. I find it interesting. Do people really worry that someone on here is going to stalk them to the point that they or someone in their family will be harmed? I try not to post about things like when I plan to travel (although we almost always have a house sitter so I hope no one gets any ideas....) because it is pretty easy to figure out my name IRL. But I would never make up details like having or not having children, being married or divorced etc.



Because if you say you know about their lives because they posted for years, you will be accused of being a stalker. She has said before she deleted things for a “stalker”.

Posted 3/3/21 10:45 PM
 

jlm2008
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by lululu

Posted by jlm2008

Posted by Valentinesbaby73

Posted by jlm2008

Along with the rest of the obnoxious, misinformation spreading crew. Oh joy.



Sweet coming from someone who has no kids but insisted to give their advice to someone on the other board Chat Icon



Why would you think I have no kids? From day one on this board over a decade ago, I have purposely given misinformation about personal details like that. Why you ask? Because of the psycho stalkers like you. Since you are a long time poster, you know that you are not the first stalker.



You aren't the first to say you do this. I find it interesting. Do people really worry that someone on here is going to stalk them to the point that they or someone in their family will be harmed? I try not to post about things like when I plan to travel (although we almost always have a house sitter so I hope no one gets any ideas....) because it is pretty easy to figure out my name IRL. But I would never make up details like having or not having children, being married or divorced etc.



Yes, some of us do worry, because it has happened on this board. and I don't mean the crazy rantings of VB, but where posters have gone to others houses, gone to their offices, physical altercations have happened, bosses have been called, wedding arrangements cancelled, that was on LIW, but for most part a lot of us have been part of both sites. When I have been on dating apps I have done the same, mostly with city location. Anything that I say is my opinion or has happend to me or a situation I have been involved in, so they aren't untruths, I just try to mix up the identifying details.

Posted 3/3/21 10:48 PM
 

jlm2008
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by Valentinesbaby73

Posted by jlm2008

Posted by Valentinesbaby73

Posted by jlm2008

Along with the rest of the obnoxious, misinformation spreading crew. Oh joy.



Sweet coming from someone who has no kids but insisted to give their advice to someone on the other board Chat Icon



Why would you think I have no kids? From day one on this board over a decade ago, I have purposely given misinformation about personal details like that. Why you ask? Because of the psycho stalkers like you. Since you are a long time poster, you know that you are not the first stalker.



Your comment about the birth control. It is very easy to see who have children and who don’t by nasty comments to others.




I won't confirm or deny obviously, but there are some people that actually try to raise their kids as functioning adults. Not as many with the millennial generation, but I was raised to have many responsibilities as a child and teen. Being responsible for my BC as a teen was one of them. a 21 year old adult is just that, an adult.

Posted 3/3/21 10:50 PM
 

jlm2008
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by Valentinesbaby73

Posted by lululu

Posted by jlm2008

Posted by Valentinesbaby73

Posted by jlm2008

Along with the rest of the obnoxious, misinformation spreading crew. Oh joy.



Sweet coming from someone who has no kids but insisted to give their advice to someone on the other board Chat Icon



Why would you think I have no kids? From day one on this board over a decade ago, I have purposely given misinformation about personal details like that. Why you ask? Because of the psycho stalkers like you. Since you are a long time poster, you know that you are not the first stalker.



You aren't the first to say you do this. I find it interesting. Do people really worry that someone on here is going to stalk them to the point that they or someone in their family will be harmed? I try not to post about things like when I plan to travel (although we almost always have a house sitter so I hope no one gets any ideas....) because it is pretty easy to figure out my name IRL. But I would never make up details like having or not having children, being married or divorced etc.



Because if you say you know about their lives because they posted for years, you will be accused of being a stalker. She has said before she deleted things for a “stalker”.



uh YOU are the stalker a bunch of us started deleting posts because of !!!!!! Are you that dense???

Posted 3/3/21 10:51 PM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by jlm2008

Posted by Valentinesbaby73

Posted by lululu

Posted by jlm2008

Posted by Valentinesbaby73

Posted by jlm2008

Along with the rest of the obnoxious, misinformation spreading crew. Oh joy.



Sweet coming from someone who has no kids but insisted to give their advice to someone on the other board Chat Icon



Why would you think I have no kids? From day one on this board over a decade ago, I have purposely given misinformation about personal details like that. Why you ask? Because of the psycho stalkers like you. Since you are a long time poster, you know that you are not the first stalker.



You aren't the first to say you do this. I find it interesting. Do people really worry that someone on here is going to stalk them to the point that they or someone in their family will be harmed? I try not to post about things like when I plan to travel (although we almost always have a house sitter so I hope no one gets any ideas....) because it is pretty easy to figure out my name IRL. But I would never make up details like having or not having children, being married or divorced etc.



Because if you say you know about their lives because they posted for years, you will be accused of being a stalker. She has said before she deleted things for a “stalker”.



uh YOU are the stalker a bunch of us started deleting posts because of !!!!!! Are you that dense???



She has ZERO self awareness.

Posted 3/3/21 10:55 PM
 

Valentinesbaby73
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by jlm2008

Posted by Valentinesbaby73

Posted by jlm2008

Posted by Valentinesbaby73

Posted by jlm2008

Along with the rest of the obnoxious, misinformation spreading crew. Oh joy.



Sweet coming from someone who has no kids but insisted to give their advice to someone on the other board Chat Icon



Why would you think I have no kids? From day one on this board over a decade ago, I have purposely given misinformation about personal details like that. Why you ask? Because of the psycho stalkers like you. Since you are a long time poster, you know that you are not the first stalker.



Your comment about the birth control. It is very easy to see who have children and who don’t by nasty comments to others.




I won't confirm or deny obviously, but there are some people that actually try to raise their kids as functioning adults. Not as many with the millennial generation, but I was raised to have many responsibilities as a child and teen. Being responsible for my BC as a teen was one of them. a 21 year old adult is just that, an adult.



And once again by your remarks over there, I can tell you don’t have an adult child nor any children.

Posted 3/3/21 10:55 PM
 

Valentinesbaby73
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Re: Please don’t feed the troll

Posted by jlm2008

Posted by Valentinesbaby73

Posted by lululu

Posted by jlm2008

Posted by Valentinesbaby73

Posted by jlm2008

Along with the rest of the obnoxious, misinformation spreading crew. Oh joy.



Sweet coming from someone who has no kids but insisted to give their advice to someone on the other board Chat Icon



Why would you think I have no kids? From day one on this board over a decade ago, I have purposely given misinformation about personal details like that. Why you ask? Because of the psycho stalkers like you. Since you are a long time poster, you know that you are not the first stalker.



You aren't the first to say you do this. I find it interesting. Do people really worry that someone on here is going to stalk them to the point that they or someone in their family will be harmed? I try not to post about things like when I plan to travel (although we almost always have a house sitter so I hope no one gets any ideas....) because it is pretty easy to figure out my name IRL. But I would never make up details like having or not having children, being married or divorced etc.



Because if you say you know about their lives because they posted for years, you will be accused of being a stalker. She has said before she deleted things for a “stalker”.



uh YOU are the stalker a bunch of us started deleting posts because of !!!!!! Are you that dense???



Lol and by those we can all see you share a lot of info about yourself. I can’t see how what you say would make any sense if this was not your life.

Posted 3/3/21 10:57 PM
 
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