It's not easy .......but having 2 kids is NEVER easy. My boys are almost exactly 2 years apart. It was absolutely an adjustment, but you adjust, and you'll be fine.

I HATE when other people scare the hell out of you as if life is going to be so unbearable .......don't let others project their anxiety on you. You can do it. Millions of people have done it ! You'll be great!

And when they get older, it will be awesome.