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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle

Re: Do you know people

i sure do

my avatar says it all

with some people it's like going fishing, and they keep telling you how big the fish is that they caught and the more they tell the story, the bigger the fish becomes

Posted 3/27/06 9:51 PM
 
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.

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Re: Do you know people

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

i sure do

my avatar says it all

with some people it's like going fishing, and they keep telling you how big the fish is that they caught and the more they tell the story, the bigger the fish becomes




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some fish are as big as a car....or even a boat!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/27/06 9:52 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle

Re: Do you know people

exactly - -i have seen this "one upman ship" on a daily basis and it sickens me

Posted 3/27/06 9:54 PM
 

Shanti
True love

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Re: Do you know people

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Posted 3/27/06 9:55 PM
 

peabody
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Re: Do you know people

Yeah, I have a friend like that.

Posted 3/27/06 10:29 PM
 

evenedan
Need a little sunshine

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D

Re: Do you know people

I think everyone knows someone like that.

Posted 3/27/06 11:54 PM
 

-DonnaMarie-
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Re: Do you know people

I think I do that sometimes, mostly to help the person feel like I can relate to their vent, commiserate with them, etc. not to use it as a segway to my problems, not at all.

Posted 3/28/06 12:37 AM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Do you know people

I think Im guilty of this tooChat Icon
I also know people who do this.

Posted 3/28/06 6:58 AM
 

GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!

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Genna

Re: Do you know people

I know people that do this...I just try not to talk them if I dont have to!

Posted 3/28/06 8:48 AM
 

LisaW
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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?

Re: Do you know people

Yes, I had a friend like that and I had to cut her off. You know, I'm calling to tell you that my grandfather is in the hospital...oh, I'm so sorry, what flavor ice cream should I get, I can't decide? Chat Icon

It's been 4 years, and I've never regretted it for a minute....

Posted 3/28/06 8:51 AM
 

BaroqueMama
Chase is one!

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me

Re: Do you know people

YES YES YES! I know someone like this! Sometimes, when I have nothing else to say, I find that I just relate what they're saying to myself, however, I try to be conscientious about blabbing about myself.

Posted 3/28/06 9:08 AM
 

MrsPornStar
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Re: Do you know people

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

exactly - -i have seen this "one upman ship" on a daily basis and it sickens me



Me too! I have a friend who will actually say, "I can do you one better..." when I am talking about my feelings or something that has happened.

Posted 3/28/06 9:11 AM
 

Ookpik
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Re: Do you know people

I've known a lot of people like that!!!

Posted 3/28/06 9:21 AM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: Do you know people

YES! I know someone like this. I can never go to her with my issues because it ALWAYS becomes about HER. And she's also one of those self-drama-creators. Chat Icon

Posted 3/28/06 9:38 AM
 

FeliciaDP

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Mommy

Re: Do you know people

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

exactly - -i have seen this "one upman ship" on a daily basis and it sickens me



Here here, Captain ... HERE HERE

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Posted 3/28/06 9:39 AM
 

MrsERod
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Re: Do you know people

Posted by BabyAvocado

YES! I know someone like this. I can never go to her with my issues because it ALWAYS becomes about HER. And she's also one of those self-drama-creators. Chat Icon





blech!! Chat Icon i know EXACTLY what you mean!! Chat Icon

Posted 3/28/06 9:42 AM
 

MommyofG
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Re: Do you know people

and they go on and on, dwell and dwell, always bring up the same thing over and over again- blehChat Icon even from the past- nothing better in thier life but to bring up the old and go on and on, like nothing is new or good in their life and yours is unimportant or they are so jealous they have to constantly bring up things just to feel better about themselves. so it becomes about them and only them-

Posted 3/28/06 9:48 AM
 

Boobobunny
Live in the Present

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Dannielle

Re: Do you know people

Ms. Important at my office does this.

I just assume its because she is lonely and just wants something to add to the conversation...its kind of sad actually.

Posted 3/28/06 9:50 AM
 

Lichi
what what!?

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Re: Do you know people

Posted by evenedan
I think everyone knows someone like that.

Definitely. It's just up to each one of us whether we deal with it or not. I've limited conversations with people like that. It really bothers me, but then it makes me feel like I'm selfish, because all I want to do is vent about MY issues 1st... Chat Icon And I'm SO not a one-upper!

Posted 3/28/06 9:52 AM
 

Stefanie

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Re: Do you know people

YES!!! It's so annoying...Chat Icon

Posted 3/28/06 10:58 AM
 

LAMGAJ28
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Re: Do you know people

Posted by nrthshgrl

Posted by baghag

Ohhhhh yes. Chat Icon

ETA: I should keep a weekly log of their problems. When a year goes by, and not a week passes without the person having some kind of breakdown, do you think they'd realize they have a problem?



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This sounds horrible to say - but I've cut off friendships with people that have too much drama in their lives. Not bad things happen, but self created dramas. Just too emotionally draining.

Thanks for making me laugh about it.Chat Icon



I've done this as well. Anyone or anything that creates any type of emotional draining in my life is out. I've also cut off relationships if they get to that point.

Posted 3/28/06 11:05 AM
 

raken40
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Re: Do you know people

i hate this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!i work with someone that does this...i cant stand it! Chat Icon
sometimes i dont even get to finish what i'm complaining about before she cuts in about her problems and then i just look at her and think to myself- um...okay, what are we talking about?

its so annoying Chat Icon

Posted 3/28/06 11:06 AM
 

capricorn75
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Re: Do you know people

Yes Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
My BIL and his wife are like that. Separately they're bad enough but put them together..... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/28/06 11:54 AM
 

ggt08
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Re: Do you know people

Posted by girlygrl33

and they go on and on, dwell and dwell, always bring up the same thing over and over again- blehChat Icon even from the past- nothing better in thier life but to bring up the old and go on and on, like nothing is new or good in their life and yours is unimportant or they are so jealous they have to constantly bring up things just to feel better about themselves. so it becomes about them and only them-




wow, sounds like you are describing someone you know very well to a tee!

Posted 3/28/06 5:49 PM
 

Pumpkin
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Re: Do you know people

there is a girl at work, I am going to lose it on her. She is a one upper and constantly turing conversations about her. She also talks about how good she looks, she lost weight, constantly bragging. I am on my last nerve with her. Every time you turn around she is bragging about something and we hve to listen to her life. UGHH sorry for the vent.

Posted 3/28/06 6:57 PM
 
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