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DebG
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A spin on an old debate
We have talked (ad naseaum) about how it makes us mad to take the time out to send someone a long FM with details and loads of info and not get acknowledged or thanked.
Does the same ring true if for posts?
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DebG
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Re: A spin on an old debate
wow, 100 views in 3 minutes.
Message edited 4/19/2007 5:32:26 PM.
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| Posted 4/19/07 5:32 PM |
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MrsMessina
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Re: A spin on an old debate
I would say yes- I actually make it a point to answer people's posts specifically when no one else had answered them (Even though there's been a thousand views...)
That's what we're all here for- and though not everything applies to everyone for an answer- it's nice to know when you take the time to write something that someone should take the time to answer it...
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| Posted 4/19/07 5:32 PM |
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Tany
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Posted by MrsMessina
I would say yes- I actually make it a point to answer people's posts specifically when no one else had answered them (Even though there's been a thousand views...)
That's what we're all here for- and though not everything applies to everyone for an answer- it's nice to know when you take the time to write something that someone should take the time to answer it...
i agree but I also notice that some posters don't answer my posts.
Message edited 4/19/2007 5:36:07 PM.
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| Posted 4/19/07 5:35 PM |
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greenfreak
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Yup, I always try to thank people, especially when I'm asking for opinions or information, no matter what responses I get or how many.
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| Posted 4/19/07 5:38 PM |
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evnme
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Posted by greenfreak
Yup, I always try to thank people, especially when I'm asking for opinions or information, no matter what responses I get or how many.
same here
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| Posted 4/19/07 5:39 PM |
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NewlyMrs
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Posted by evnme
Posted by greenfreak
Yup, I always try to thank people, especially when I'm asking for opinions or information, no matter what responses I get or how many.
same here
me too!
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| Posted 4/19/07 5:43 PM |
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Christine
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Re: A spin on an old debate
I only get annoyed if I feel overlooked. Otherwise, I don't really care. I don't expect someone to come in and post a thank you for every single reply and I am fine with a "Thanks in Advance" in the first post.
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| Posted 4/19/07 5:46 PM |
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greenfreak
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Re: A spin on an old debate
I should clarify that I don't typically address every person who responds. I do a follow-up later sometimes with my decision, and thank everyone for their help.
And I mean it too. This is a great resource for opinions! 
Message edited 4/19/2007 5:48:11 PM.
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| Posted 4/19/07 5:47 PM |
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DebG
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Posted by Christine
I only get annoyed if I feel overlooked. Otherwise, I don't really care. I don't expect someone to come in and post a thank you for every single reply and I am fine with a "Thanks in Advance" in the first post.
OO i don't expect that either.
Just when I write a 5 paragraph reply with a TON of ingo
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| Posted 4/19/07 5:48 PM |
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greenfreak
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Thank you Deb. 
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| Posted 4/19/07 6:15 PM |
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CookiePuss
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Re: A spin on an old debate
I do try to post when I think I can be helpful but there are times that I have nothing to add so I don't post.
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| Posted 4/19/07 6:37 PM |
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DebG
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Posted by greenfreak
Thank you Deb.
 You're quite welcome!
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| Posted 4/19/07 7:23 PM |
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saraH
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Re: A spin on an old debate
I try to thank everyone who answers BUT I have a problem with the people that post thank you after every response. even go so far as to bump a post so every answer gets acknowledged. that bugs me.
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| Posted 4/19/07 7:41 PM |
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DebG
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Posted by BNL2005
I try to thank everyone who answers BUT I have a problem with the people that post thank you after every response. even go so far as to bump a post so every answer gets acknowledged. that bugs me.
ooh thats a good point.
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| Posted 4/19/07 7:45 PM |
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saraH
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Posted by DebG
Posted by BNL2005
I try to thank everyone who answers BUT I have a problem with the people that post thank you after every response. even go so far as to bump a post so every answer gets acknowledged. that bugs me.
ooh thats a good point.
why thank you Deb.
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| Posted 4/19/07 7:47 PM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Honestly, my first instinct is to thank everyone as they post because that's what I would do conversationally, but instead, I wait and then summarize and thank at the end
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baghag
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Posted by BNL2005
I try to thank everyone who answers BUT I have a problem with the people that post thank you after every response. even go so far as to bump a post so every answer gets acknowledged. that bugs me.
Agreed. I usually wait and post a general thank you to everyone who responded so I don't bump by post needlessly.
Asking for help here (for me) is like stopping a stranger in the street for directions and walking away without saying thank you.
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| Posted 4/19/07 8:35 PM |
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Gertyrae
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Posted by shamrock124
I do try to post when I think I can be helpful but there are times that I have nothing to add so I don't post.
ITA with this...sometimes I read a post and either someone has already answered questions or I can't answer the question so I move on. I'm on here enough, imagine how many hours I'd be here if I answered every post
As far as thank you's, if someone does a TIA, I'm fine with it. I don't usually go back and check after I've written a reply anyway.
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BabyAvocado
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Nah, I post just to watch myself type. 
I think that if you are posting a lot of informative material to help someone out - then yes, a thank you is in order. A 5 paragraph opinion though...maybe not so much.
Still I have to say that sometimes I'll start a thread asking for advice or opinions, or even info, come back to it later to find it on the 3rd page of NFR and I feel silly bumping it so I don't thank - but that does not take away from how thankful I am. I guess in those cases, I should probably FM the people...
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dm24angel
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Posted by BabyAvocado
Nah, I post just to watch myself type.
I think that if you are posting a lot of informative material to help someone out - then yes, a thank you is in order. A 5 paragraph opinion though...maybe not so much.
Still I have to say that sometimes I'll start a thread asking for advice or opinions, or even info, come back to it later to find it on the 3rd page of NFR and I feel silly bumping it so I don't thank - but that does not take away from how thankful I am. I guess in those cases, I should probably FM the people...
Same here!
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Re: A spin on an old debate
I try to on posts. I may have forgotten sometimes.
I usually try to acknowledge all FMS though.
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| Posted 4/19/07 9:42 PM |
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mrswask
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Posted by BNL2005
I try to thank everyone who answers BUT I have a problem with the people that post thank you after every response. even go so far as to bump a post so every answer gets acknowledged. that bugs me.
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: A spin on an old debate
i have no shame
if i don't get the answers i need, and the thread is on page 3, i bump it
you no likey? tough
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mikeswife06
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Re: A spin on an old debate
Posted by QuoteTheRaven424
i have no shame
if i don't get the answers i need, and the thread is on page 3, i bump it
you no likey? tough
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