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Since when is it OK... (vent in progress)

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pmpkn087
Life is good...

Member since 9/05

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Stephanie

Since when is it OK... (vent in progress)

...to ask a total stranger if she is carrying TWINS?

TWO, YES TWO people asked me yestereday if I was carrying twins.

NO, I AM 38 WEEKS PREGNANT AND STILL TRAVELING WELL OVER AN HOUR TO GET TO WORK. DON'T MESS WITH ME.

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I know I'm huge, but it is not right to ask someone if they are carrying twins. All I can say is I loved seeing their faces when I said NO. Chat Icon Even if I was carrying twins, it's nobody's business.Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/06 9:56 AM
 
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nferrandi
too excited for words

Member since 10/05

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Nicole

Re: Since when is it OK... (vent in progress)

I think our new response to questions like that should be "you know what buddy, why don't you go f#@* yourself." Because honestly, that's how I feel when people make their stupid comments and since they're not holding anything in, why the heck should we?!

Posted 10/25/06 9:59 AM
 

pmpkn087
Life is good...

Member since 9/05

18504 total posts

Name:
Stephanie

Re: Since when is it OK... (vent in progress)

Posted by nferrandi

I think our new response to questions like that should be "you know what buddy, why don't you go f#@* yourself." Because honestly, that's how I feel when people make their stupid comments and since they're not holding anything in, why the heck should we?!



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That would have been my response today. Yesterday I was in a slightly better mood.

Posted 10/25/06 10:05 AM
 

Stacey1403
Where it all began....

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Re: Since when is it OK... (vent in progress)

Posted by nferrandi

I think our new response to questions like that should be "you know what buddy, why don't you go f#@* yourself." Because honestly, that's how I feel when people make their stupid comments and since they're not holding anything in, why the heck should we?!



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Posted 10/25/06 10:06 AM
 

Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn

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Janice

Re: Since when is it OK... (vent in progress)

The world is not preggo friendly at all!

Posted 10/25/06 10:07 AM
 

Trouble
I am going 2 be a BIG brother?

Member since 5/06

684 total posts

Name:
"HearzBellz"

Re: Since when is it OK... (vent in progress)

Posted by nferrandi

I think our new response to questions like that should be "you know what buddy, why don't you go f#@* yourself." Because honestly, that's how I feel when people make their stupid comments and since they're not holding anything in, why the heck should we?!

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That is awesomeChat Icon

Posted 10/25/06 10:20 AM
 

Sassyz75
Turning a new page

Member since 5/05

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Dina

Re: Since when is it OK... (vent in progress)

i get this all the time.
i say, no i assure you there is only one.

Posted 10/25/06 10:23 AM
 

megsmom
#2 on the way!

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Re: Since when is it OK... (vent in progress)

OMG i get this daily from some moron at work who feels the need to comment on my stomach.. "OH are you sure there isn't 2 in there" or WOW do you have a BIG ONE in there..or are you carrying twins? I SAID IT ONCE AND WILL NOT REPEAT MYSELF. IT'S ONE.. AND IF SHE'S BIG WELL IM 36 WEEKS PREGGO WHAT DO YOU EXPECT?Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/06 10:55 AM
 

nferrandi
too excited for words

Member since 10/05

18538 total posts

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Nicole

Re: Since when is it OK... (vent in progress)

I seriously think we all need to through our manners out the window. People have no problem making these inappropriate statements to us and I don't think we should reply nicely or clamly. I think we should all just start cursing people out and see how they like it. Chat Icon
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Posted 10/25/06 11:00 AM
 

pmpkn087
Life is good...

Member since 9/05

18504 total posts

Name:
Stephanie

Re: Since when is it OK... (vent in progress)

Posted by nferrandi

I seriously think we all need to through our manners out the window. People have no problem making these inappropriate statements to us and I don't think we should reply nicely or clamly. I think we should all just start cursing people out and see how they like it. Chat Icon
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I'm right there with you.

I actually came to work today HOPING somebody will say something so that I can curse them out.

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Posted 10/25/06 11:28 AM
 

FireIslandLove

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Re: Since when is it OK... (vent in progress)

That is NEVER ok - some people!!! Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/06 12:32 PM
 

leighla
Support Cancer Research

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Lauren

Re: Since when is it OK... (vent in progress)

Next time someone asks that you should say

"Oh, I have no idea, I haven't seen a doctor yet."

or

"What's a twin?"

Posted 10/25/06 1:10 PM
 

mrs-vyn
LIF Infant

Member since 11/05

60 total posts

Name:
Nicole

Re: Since when is it OK... (vent in progress)

I just posted about this yesterday. I feel the same way. I am only 33 weeks and have only gained 25lbs, yet people still ask if it is twins or when I say I am due in December they say "Are you sure?, maybe your due date is wrong, you look like your gonna pop!"

I want to say-No I am lying about my due date just for fun. Idiots!Chat Icon

Posted 10/25/06 1:42 PM
 
 

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