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bringmeababy
LIF Zygote

Member since 4/09

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Name:
H

Back again

Hi ladies...I'm back from the PG board after 9w1dChat Icon scheduled for D & C tomorrow. Decided to set up a new account, not ready to reveal my identity...not sure I ever will. Hope you will accept this.

Posted 4/6/09 8:51 PM
 
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Rycois
Blessed with 2blue/2pink

Member since 12/05

13341 total posts

Name:
J

Re: Back again

I'm sorry for your loss Chat Icon

Posted 4/6/09 8:52 PM
 

danielleandscott
My new 71 Super Beetle

Member since 5/05

13476 total posts

Name:
Scott

Re: Back again

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Posted 4/6/09 9:02 PM
 

headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

Member since 6/07

42079 total posts

Name:
LB

Re: Back again

i am so sorry for your loss. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon i hope you are not back for long Chat Icon and you are back on the PG board very soon. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/6/09 9:14 PM
 

MaMaTeenie
Party of 5

Member since 4/08

6489 total posts

Name:
Mommy

Re: Back again

I am so deeply sorry for your loss and I respect your decision to want to create a new name I just hope its not because of any kind of shame or embarrassment. I have been thru 2 bfps and 2 mcs here and it was a great gift for me to have this place to go and talk. I wish you all the best and again I am really sorry


Posted 4/6/09 9:17 PM
 

4PsInaPod
My Loves <3

Member since 7/07

10079 total posts

Name:
D

Re: Back again

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Posted 4/6/09 9:20 PM
 

couldbtwins
I love you so much!

Member since 10/08

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Posted 4/6/09 9:20 PM
 

bringmeababy
LIF Zygote

Member since 4/09

15 total posts

Name:
H

Re: Back again

Posted by MaMaTeenie

I am so deeply sorry for your loss and I respect your decision to want to create a new name I just hope its not because of any kind of shame or embarrassment. I have been thru 2 bfps and 2 mcs here and it was a great gift for me to have this place to go and talk. I wish you all the best and again I am really sorry



Thanks ladies. I am not sure what the reason is....does this sound strange....I just don't want to talk directly to anyone about it. I told DH to tell his fam (who we told this weekend) that I don't want to talk about it, I don't want to hear "I'm sorry", I just want to act like it never happened. None of it. Is this completely strange?Chat Icon

Posted 4/6/09 9:33 PM
 

timanda
Puppy Love

Member since 6/08

1627 total posts

Name:
Amanda

Re: Back again

Posted by bringmeababy

Posted by MaMaTeenie

I am so deeply sorry for your loss and I respect your decision to want to create a new name I just hope its not because of any kind of shame or embarrassment. I have been thru 2 bfps and 2 mcs here and it was a great gift for me to have this place to go and talk. I wish you all the best and again I am really sorry



Thanks ladies. I am not sure what the reason is....does this sound strange....I just don't want to talk directly to anyone about it. I told DH to tell his fam (who we told this weekend) that I don't want to talk about it, I don't want to hear "I'm sorry", I just want to act like it never happened. None of it. Is this completely strange?Chat Icon



I've never been through such a loss (and I'm so sorry you are going through itChat Icon ), but you can mourn and deal with your loss however you feel comfortable. And I would never judge someone for how they choose to cope - especially a loved one or a family member.

So sorry again. I hope you are back on the pregnancy board soon. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/6/09 9:52 PM
 

MaMaTeenie
Party of 5

Member since 4/08

6489 total posts

Name:
Mommy

Re: Back again

Posted by bringmeababy

Posted by MaMaTeenie

I am so deeply sorry for your loss and I respect your decision to want to create a new name I just hope its not because of any kind of shame or embarrassment. I have been thru 2 bfps and 2 mcs here and it was a great gift for me to have this place to go and talk. I wish you all the best and again I am really sorry



Thanks ladies. I am not sure what the reason is....does this sound strange....I just don't want to talk directly to anyone about it. I told DH to tell his fam (who we told this weekend) that I don't want to talk about it, I don't want to hear "I'm sorry", I just want to act like it never happened. None of it. Is this completely strange?Chat Icon



No and I completely understand. IRL we hardly told anyone and have only now told our families because I am seeing a specialist and have certain things coming up. I didn't want to talk to anyone about it either.....well except for a few close friends, but DH told his family w/out me too and when my MIL came to say something I really just blew it off.
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Posted 4/7/09 7:32 AM
 

MrsUta
LIF Adolescent

Member since 2/08

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Name:

Re: Back again

My prayers are with you

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Posted 4/7/09 8:04 AM
 

PeasandCarrots

Member since 5/07

9579 total posts

Name:
L

Re: Back again

Posted by bringmeababy

Posted by MaMaTeenie

I am so deeply sorry for your loss and I respect your decision to want to create a new name I just hope its not because of any kind of shame or embarrassment. I have been thru 2 bfps and 2 mcs here and it was a great gift for me to have this place to go and talk. I wish you all the best and again I am really sorry



Thanks ladies. I am not sure what the reason is....does this sound strange....I just don't want to talk directly to anyone about it. I told DH to tell his fam (who we told this weekend) that I don't want to talk about it, I don't want to hear "I'm sorry", I just want to act like it never happened. None of it. Is this completely strange?Chat Icon



No not strange at all. I tried to do this esp since it happened to me at Thanksgiving and then Christmas was coming and nobody wants a debbie downer at the holidays. It wasn't until 3 days AFTER Christmas that it all just came pouring out and I was a mess for awhile. Just take baby steps and do what you have to. fmme if you need anythingChat Icon

Posted 4/7/09 8:06 AM
 

lululu
LIF Adult

Member since 7/05

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Posted 4/7/09 8:12 AM
 

headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

Member since 6/07

42079 total posts

Name:
LB

Re: Back again

Posted by bringmeababy

Posted by MaMaTeenie

I am so deeply sorry for your loss and I respect your decision to want to create a new name I just hope its not because of any kind of shame or embarrassment. I have been thru 2 bfps and 2 mcs here and it was a great gift for me to have this place to go and talk. I wish you all the best and again I am really sorry



Thanks ladies. I am not sure what the reason is....does this sound strange....I just don't want to talk directly to anyone about it. I told DH to tell his fam (who we told this weekend) that I don't want to talk about it, I don't want to hear "I'm sorry", I just want to act like it never happened. None of it. Is this completely strange?Chat Icon



that actually makes complete sense to me, i have a feeling i might do the same thing in your shoes.

whether you are here as *you* or under a different name, we are here for YOU no matter what. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/7/09 8:31 AM
 

Marcie
Complete Happiness :)

Member since 5/05

27789 total posts

Name:
LOVE being a Mommy!

Re: Back again

Posted by bringmeababy

Posted by MaMaTeenie

I am so deeply sorry for your loss and I respect your decision to want to create a new name I just hope its not because of any kind of shame or embarrassment. I have been thru 2 bfps and 2 mcs here and it was a great gift for me to have this place to go and talk. I wish you all the best and again I am really sorry



Thanks ladies. I am not sure what the reason is....does this sound strange....I just don't want to talk directly to anyone about it. I told DH to tell his fam (who we told this weekend) that I don't want to talk about it, I don't want to hear "I'm sorry", I just want to act like it never happened. None of it. Is this completely strange?Chat Icon



I am so sorry for your loss.

It is not completely strange at all.
When I had my loss, we only told a handful of people. And the only reason we told them was because they were the only ones that new I was pregnant (which was only his parents, my parents and my BIL and his wife). The other reason we told them, was because we needed them to watch my other child, while I had to keep going back to doctor appts.
I never posted about it on here. I only just started posting about my situation on the boards the last couple of months, a year after my loss. To this day most of my family do not know about it.

But do know, we are all hear for you if you need to talk. Feel free to FM me, if you want to talk. Chat Icon

Posted 4/7/09 8:40 AM
 

JennyPenny
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Member since 1/08

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Posted 4/7/09 8:41 AM
 

08BabySurprise
My Life. My Everything.

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I am so very sorry for your loss. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/7/09 8:48 AM
 

dajc23
My Loves :)

Member since 1/09

4980 total posts

Name:
Dana

Re: Back again

I'm soooo sorry for your lossChat Icon Chat Icon

When I m/c I told everyone not even to ask me how i'm doing. I felt it was better almost to not acknowledge it, b/c then it wouldn't bring up a whole mess of emotions. I cried on my own time and eventually it all passed.

Of course it still hurts to see all the babies and BFP but i know it WILL be my time.

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Posted 4/7/09 8:55 AM
 

lolipep
My prayers have been answered

Member since 10/08

3642 total posts

Name:
Lori

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I am soooo sorryChat Icon I know for me it was difficult to talk about as well--you need to do what is right for you and just know if you ever do want to talk we are here--again I am so sorryChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/7/09 10:08 AM
 

Makin-da-baby
Praying so hard this is it!!!

Member since 4/08

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Name:
Undercover Lover

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Posted 4/7/09 10:49 AM
 

maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief

Member since 10/07

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Posted 4/7/09 12:10 PM
 

MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor

Member since 12/07

16202 total posts

Name:
Deanna

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not strange at all.. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon everyone mourns in different ways.. nothing wrong with that!

i had 2 losses so far and for me i needed the support, i was so weak.. but i think for you , its a sign of strength that you are able to cope on your own.. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/7/09 12:37 PM
 

Arodisi
"My 3 Sons!"

Member since 3/06

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Name:
KT

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Posted 4/7/09 1:38 PM
 

Tinyswife
My family is complete

Member since 4/07

1819 total posts

Name:
Cathleen

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Posted 4/7/09 4:58 PM
 

LemonHead
Sour Girl

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