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What's going on with me?? *UPDATE

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maybeamommy
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What's going on with me?? *UPDATE

19 dpo and still no sign of AF!Chat Icon

My last test was at 17 dpo with FMU and it was BFN. Obviously I'm not PG, but what's going on with me? This was our first month TTC, but I was never on birth control so I don't know why everything is so irregular!Chat Icon Also, we used OPKs so I know when I O'd... I'm so confusedChat Icon


*UPDATE: AF showed up yesterday, FINALLY! Making this last cycle 40 daysChat Icon

We are planning on taking this current cycle off, and starting to try again the following one! I'm hoping I can get back to a normal length cycle (for me, that's 32 days) and then get PG in January without stressing over it so much!

Message edited 11/23/2007 4:47:38 PM.

Posted 11/18/07 1:47 PM
 
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mooshyboo
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Re: What's going on with me??

hmmm maybe your body is changing ~ I would wait a few days and take a pregnancy test... if you are concerned I would call your doctor...Chat Icon

Posted 11/18/07 2:18 PM
 

jjk1007
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Re: What's going on with me??

Maybe it could have something to do with all the emotions involved with it being your first month TTC. Maybe you could actually be preggers. I dont know...but if you're concerned, you could always give your dr. a call.

Posted 11/18/07 3:48 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: What's going on with me??

Thanks girls.

The only problem is that I'm under a new insurance plan now so I don't have a doctor yetChat Icon

Posted 11/18/07 3:53 PM
 

Stephybaby
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Re: What's going on with me??

Where r you?..My gyno is great but hes in Bayside

Posted 11/18/07 6:03 PM
 

DeniseMarie
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Re: What's going on with me??

Maybe its stress making AF late???

Posted 11/18/07 6:10 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: What's going on with me??

bump. 21 dpo.... CD 39 and still no AFChat Icon

Posted 11/20/07 9:58 PM
 

Stephybaby
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Re: What's going on with me??

Did you take another test today??

Posted 11/20/07 9:59 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: What's going on with me??

Posted by Stephybaby

Did you take another test today??



No, I took one yesterday and it was BFNChat Icon

Posted 11/20/07 10:10 PM
 

jennyb
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Re: What's going on with me??

AF plays mind games. Try to relax- I know easier said than done.
The first month of DH and I TTC was exactly like that. I had to focus on other stuff because I was driving myself (and him) insane!

Good Luck Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/21/07 9:42 AM
 

hopin4baby
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Re: What's going on with me??

Were your cycles regular before?

Posted 11/21/07 9:58 AM
 

BlueDiamonds
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Re: What's going on with me??

are you temping at all?

i would try to find a new dr. that is a long time past O with no AF. some women never see a BFP on a HPT.

Posted 11/21/07 11:11 AM
 

Maybeababyin08
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Re: What's going on with me??

Posted by jennyb

AF plays mind games. Try to relax- I know easier said than done.
The first month of DH and I TTC was exactly like that. I had to focus on other stuff because I was driving myself (and him) insane!

Good Luck Chat Icon Chat Icon



ITA! That witch messes with your head! I would definately see a dr if you think that something may be up.
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Posted 11/21/07 12:06 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: What's going on with me??

Thanks for the responses.

To answer everyone's questions...

No, I haven't been temping at all. This was our first month TTC so I just used OPKs.

My cycles do tend to be long. They average 32 days though. Right now I'm on CD 40.

My last cycle was 35 days in October
27 days in September
32 days in August
40 in July (but that was the month of my wedding, so it was definitely stress-related),
30 in June
35 in May
30 in April
30 in March
31 in February
30 in January.

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Posted 11/21/07 1:07 PM
 

Stephybaby
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Re: What's going on with me??

Maybeamommy....Our cycles are so similar its scary


I have 32 day cycles on average and my only extra long cycle was this past July but I figured it was because of my wedding!!!!

lol

I am also now 15DPO and no sign of AF!!! I tested this morning and got a BFN!!

So now I'm just thinking the stress of this wait (it was also our first month TTC) has just made AF hide out for a while longer.

Posted 11/21/07 1:43 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: What's going on with me??

Posted by Stephybaby

Maybeamommy....Our cycles are so similar its scary


I have 32 day cycles on average and my only extra long cycle was this past July but I figured it was because of my wedding!!!!

lol

I am also now 15DPO and no sign of AF!!! I tested this morning and got a BFN!!

So now I'm just thinking the stress of this wait (it was also our first month TTC) has just made AF hide out for a while longer.



This stinks! Hopefully we'll both be getting AF soon so we can start trying again!!!!

Posted 11/21/07 1:50 PM
 
 
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