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After we BD, most times DH's "stuff" leaks out of me. I am so sorry this question is kind of gross, but I need to ask someone. Does this have to do with my CM? I've tried laying there for a while, but it usually doesn't stay. Could you still get preggo when it leaks out? I'm sure some found their way

Message edited 7/12/2005 3:25:23 PM.

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I know this is going to sound mad gross but someone suggested that I use a tampon to try to keep it up there (like a cork ). Guess it worked!

Good luck!

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We have the same issue. According to my research, more than enough gets to the right places, but there's always some "left over" in the area.

I find that certain positions lend themselves to less leakage.

Doggie style seems to be the best for us.

Man, would DH kill me if he read this post!!

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I just try to lay there for a long time and then when I get up nothign comes out. Dont know where it goes! Most of the time we BD right before we go to sleep so I just stay laying in bed.

I wouldnt use a tampon...you arent supposed to use one if you dont have AF because you can get an infection and tear yourself, inside.

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there was a post on this a while back, someone asked their doctor and they said it was fine. Try laying with your legs raised for 15-20 minutes just to help the sperm swim to where they have to and even if some comes out when you get up it doesn't matter.

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It's gross, I know, but I used to have the same problem (well, still do... ha ha ha). Within a minute, with DH, and only DH (bizarre, huh?), it would feel like everything would just leak out... but, I got pregnant (twice) so I don't think it poses a problem at all... and, like someone said, there are positions that lend themselves to less "leakage" (i.e. doggy style)

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we also have the same problem. DH will roll me over with my feet over my head so it doesnt leak out

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same problem here, but I dont think I can get my feet over my head.

I have heard from other people ( who asked their MD) and it was normal and shouldnt be a problem.

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Posted by Diane

we also have the same problem. DH will roll me over with my feet over my head so it doesnt leak out

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Posted by Diane

we also have the same problem. DH will roll me over with my feet over my head so it doesnt leak out

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We had the same problem. I would put a pillow under my butt to raise my hips up on an angle so it wouldn't leak too much....don't use a good pillow.

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you guys crack me up!

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Posted by 2003fallwedding

We had the same problem. I would put a pillow under my butt to raise my hips up on an angle so it wouldn't leak too much....don't use a good pillow.

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My dr once said, "Don't worry about the boys who leak out, the obviously did not come out of the starting gate with a lot of gusto so they wouldn't have been able to make the journey anyway"
That thought always makes me feel a bit better.

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Posted by leighla

So I have a PBDP - Post-Baby-Dance-Pillow.

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Gosh where else could we talk so freely about leakage. When I was TTC with my first child, one time (I dont think it was the month I got PG). I actually hung myself over the side of the bed, "standing" on my head for about 10 minutes. I haven't tried it this time, but now that you reminded me....

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BUMP for calendargrl.

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I know some people will not like the idea, but the month I DID get pg I put in a tampon after BDing to keep everything in place. Now I have read enough to know it probably didn't make a difference but.....

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