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Eunyboo
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Re: tipping someone you know
Posted by Pomegranate5
He probably felt uncomfortable being tipped by someone he knows, and felt like he needed to say something to thank you.
The whole tipping friends thing is always so awkward for both parties.
Just move on and don't give it a second thought. 
This! My hairdresser is a good friend and our convo ALWAYS gets awkward when I go to tip. We even made jokes about it but it still happens. LOL. Let it go.
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Mushesgirl
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Re: tipping someone you know UPDATE
went back to the restaurant saw the manager. He was very friendly even hugging me. so all is well. I still haven't told dh, because he will flip his shit and not go there knowing him.
thanks to all who assured me not to overthink it.
moving on.
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Sash
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Re: tipping someone you know UPDATE
Posted by Mushesgirl
went back to the restaurant saw the manager. He was very friendly even hugging me. so all is well. I still haven't told dh, because he will flip his shit and not go there knowing him.
thanks to all who assured me not to overthink it.
moving on.
I'm so confused as to why your DH would flip out, I don't see what your friend did that was so bad?
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jeanyus27
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Re: tipping someone you know UPDATE
Posted by Sash
Posted by Mushesgirl
went back to the restaurant saw the manager. He was very friendly even hugging me. so all is well. I still haven't told dh, because he will flip his shit and not go there knowing him.
thanks to all who assured me not to overthink it.
moving on.
I'm so confused as to why your DH would flip out, I don't see what your friend did that was so bad?
I don't understand either...it seemed he thanked you in the first place cuz he's not used to getting tips & maybe was just awkward about it cuz someone he knew tipped him...but wanted you to know he appreciated it. And now he's being even friendlier because he didn't forget & still really appreciates it. Why would anyone flip out over that?
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| Posted 10/14/17 2:30 PM |
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Mushesgirl
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Re: tipping someone you know UPDATE
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Posted by Mushesgirl
went back to the restaurant saw the manager. He was very friendly even hugging me. so all is well. I still haven't told dh, because he will flip his shit and not go there knowing him.
thanks to all who assured me not to overthink it.
moving on.
I'm so confused as to why your DH would flip out, I don't see what your friend did that was so bad?
I don't understand either...it seemed he thanked you in the first place cuz he's not used to getting tips & maybe was just awkward about it cuz someone he knew tipped him...but wanted you to know he appreciated it. And now he's being even friendlier because he didn't forget & still really appreciates it. Why would anyone flip out over that?
It was his tone when he said it; it was off, not genuine. I really didn't feel in my gut that I was being thanked in a real way. That's why I questioned it in the first place.
DH would flip because it shouldn't even have been brought up at all.
Alls well that ends well
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FirstMate
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Re: tipping someone you know UPDATE
I would think he felt funny because 1. he knows you and 2. he's the manager so its weird that he got tipped at all. I wouldn't think too much of it. Don't let it bother you.
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| Posted 10/15/17 11:21 PM |
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Sash
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Re: tipping someone you know UPDATE
Posted by Mushesgirl
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Posted by Mushesgirl
went back to the restaurant saw the manager. He was very friendly even hugging me. so all is well. I still haven't told dh, because he will flip his shit and not go there knowing him.
thanks to all who assured me not to overthink it.
moving on.
I'm so confused as to why your DH would flip out, I don't see what your friend did that was so bad?
I don't understand either...it seemed he thanked you in the first place cuz he's not used to getting tips & maybe was just awkward about it cuz someone he knew tipped him...but wanted you to know he appreciated it. And now he's being even friendlier because he didn't forget & still really appreciates it. Why would anyone flip out over that?
It was his tone when he said it; it was off, not genuine. I really didn't feel in my gut that I was being thanked in a real way. That's why I questioned it in the first place.
DH would flip because it shouldn't even have been brought up at all.
Alls well that ends well
I'm sorry still scratching my head.. how bad could his tone be that your DH would flip for him saying thank you for a tip. Unless there were more words exchanged or more to the story. I just can't see the big deal and I'm sure my DH would just think I was blowing things out of proportion.
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