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pharmcat2000
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Bras for young girls

DD#1 is 7. She was quite exasperated with me last week, demanding to know when she was going to get a training bra. I was like Chat Icon WHAT??? I told her she'd get one when she had something to train. She told me that she does (she doesn't), and that she feels like she needs a "cup bra" already. So I gave her a choice for her birthday: a training bra, or an iPad Mini. She chose the bra!!

So, how many other young girls are wearing them?

What is your opinion?


This article was in the New York Times last week:

The Playground Set Gets Its Own Bras
Bralettes: Bras for Grade-School Girls Gain in PopularityBy RACHEL FELDERMARCH 7, 2014

Not long ago, Stephanie Sorkin, an author of children’s books who lives in Roslyn, N.Y., was faced with an unexpected request from her daughter Lea, then age 5.
“She came home from camp and said, ‘Why am I the only one not wearing a bra?’ ” said Ms. Sorkin, 43. “I was like, ‘If you don’t call it a bra, I’ll go to the store and see what you’re talking about, but a 5-year-old doesn’t wear a bra.’ ”
Actually, plenty of young girls are indeed wearing a bra-like garment: a truncated, half-camisole top with narrow straps and a bit of stretch.
“This is the new undershirt,” said Sandy Sherman, a buyer for several locations of Lester’s, a chain of stores in New York and New Jersey specializing in children’s wear. “It serves the same purpose.”
Lester’s carries a selection of stretchy bralettes by Malibu Sugar in two sizes: 4 to 6x, for ages 4 through around 6, and a larger version for ages 7 through 14.
“It’s for them to wear under a shirt to give them that extra layer,” said Jil Garcia, Malibu Sugar’s president and chief executive. The company’s so-called bra camis, which look a bit like the top third of a thin-strapped leotard, are sold in around 600 children’s boutiques in the United States and Canada.
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Two of the styles for young girls offered by Target. Mainstream retailers and well-established brands are also stocking bralettes for their young customers, including the Children’s Place, Gap Kids, Zara and Hanes. Target, which carries 65 styles of girl’s bras, offers what it calls crop bras as part of its Xhilaration line.
Old Navy has sold cami bras with a peace-sign print. The Maidenform Girls line, aimed at ages 8 to 13, includes bralettes in bubble gum pink; at Macy’s Herald Square, Maidenform’s pieces are sold in a section of the children’s department, near similar items from Calvin Klein Girls.
“It’s important for us to offer the best breadth of assortment to the customer, and in this case she really feels that it’s important for her daughter to feel comfortable,” said Josh Saterman, a Macy’s vice president and the store’s fashion director of millennial, which includes children’s wear.
Still, the idea of buying a children’s bra, even if it’s cupless and in a pink and yellow heart print, makes some uncomfortable.
“My problem with bralettes as opposed to other things that kids might want is what it does to a girl’s image,” said Lori Evans, a clinical assistant professor in the department of child and adolescent psychiatry at the New York University Langone Child Study Center. “Does it say to a 5-year-old that there’s something wrong with her, that she needs breasts or that there’s an expectation?”
Still, Dr. Evans said: “I wouldn’t be so horrified by it. If they start stuffing their little bralettes, then that’s a different thing.”



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Posted 3/15/14 8:31 AM
 
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ny55angel
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Bras for young girls

My daughter is 15 and has been wearing "shelved cami's" since she was about 9/10 when she starting becoming self conscious about her body beginning to develop. If she asked me at 5 or 7 I don't think I would have been so quick to comply. I also wouldn't get a "regular" bra for them either.

Posted 3/15/14 9:08 AM
 

Eireann
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Re: Bras for young girls

That's so funny because just yesterday my oldest DD (8.5) just asked me when she was going to get a bra. I actually chuckled and told her age 12. Probably though if she takes after her mother, she'll never need one Chat Icon You did not ask for opinions though, and so I won't give you mine Chat Icon

Posted 3/15/14 9:14 AM
 

Ltdentway99
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I think it is too bad that 7-year old girls are conscious of that type of stuff. Kids should just be kids. Unless a child really is self-conscious because of early development I think it is unnecessary. I remember bring very self-conscious and literally just wanted an undershirt. I did not want a bra until middle school because I thought it was embarrassing. I went from no bra to a b-cup. Things are different there days.

Posted 3/15/14 9:19 AM
 

lynnd126
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Bras for young girls

I don't think it's so bad to get a camisole bra for a girl that's 7. My kids are much younger but I have nephews and can easily see the 7/8/9 crowd noticing stuff like development or nipples that could be showing through a shirt. I wore a sports bra looking thing by age 9/10. I definitely had something there and felt self conscious about it.

Posted 3/15/14 10:13 AM
 

pharmcat2000
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Re: Bras for young girls

Posted by Eireann

That's so funny because just yesterday my oldest DD (8.5) just asked me when she was going to get a bra. I actually chuckled and told her age 12. Probably though if she takes after her mother, she'll never need one Chat Icon You did not ask for opinions though, and so I won't give you mine Chat Icon



No, please...share your opinion.

Posted 3/15/14 10:18 AM
 

pharmcat2000
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Re: Bras for young girls

Sorry, double post.

Message edited 3/15/2014 10:19:44 AM.

Posted 3/15/14 10:18 AM
 

PennyCat
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Re: Bras for young girls

Let me just say that's growing up today seems so much more complicated than it was back in the day!
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Posted 3/15/14 10:19 AM
 

edfilippi
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Re: Bras for young girls

I think wearing a cami or bralette as the article mentioned is not terrible. If it makes her feel comfortable and she is asking for it than why say no? Even if she doesn't "need" it if having another article of clothing under her shirt makes her feel comfortable, confident, or even if he makes her feel like she fits in with the other girls in her class I would let her.

Posted 3/15/14 11:27 AM
 

Sash
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Bras for young girls

This happened with my niece. My sister is very big on undershirts/Camis. So around 8yrs old my sister replaced the Camis with bras which were really just sports bras. They don't have the bra hooks in the back or padding. My niece was happy with that, so it seemed like a fair compromise. My niece also didn't have anything lol.

Posted 3/15/14 11:54 AM
 

KarenK122
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Bras for young girls

My daughter is 7 and has never mentioned wanting a bra. She has asked when girls start wearing them and I just said when your older lol. I do no think any girls in her class wear them either. I thought I still had a few years to worry about this stuff and now I'm paranoid that she is going to ask me today for one lol.

I'm all for making your child feel comfortable and empowered and not following "traditional" rules, so if your daughter wants one and you are ok with it, I see nothing wrong with it.

Posted 3/15/14 12:12 PM
 

pharmcat2000
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Re: Bras for young girls

Posted by edfilippi

I think wearing a cami or bralette as the article mentioned is not terrible. If it makes her feel comfortable and she is asking for it than why say no? Even if she doesn't "need" it if having another article of clothing under her shirt makes her feel comfortable, confident, or even if he makes her feel like she fits in with the other girls in her class I would let her.



She does wear an undershirt every day. I guess it's my mental block against letting my little girl wear a "bra". Chat Icon

Posted 3/15/14 12:21 PM
 

Sash
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Re: Bras for young girls

I think stuff like this is ok, this so what my niece wears.
She likes all the colors more than anything and trying to match it with her clothes. Some have cups or padding but we don't buy her those.

aeropostale bras

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Posted 3/15/14 12:24 PM
 

edfilippi
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Re: Bras for young girls

Posted by pharmcat2000

Posted by edfilippi

I think wearing a cami or bralette as the article mentioned is not terrible. If it makes her feel comfortable and she is asking for it than why say no? Even if she doesn't "need" it if having another article of clothing under her shirt makes her feel comfortable, confident, or even if he makes her feel like she fits in with the other girls in her class I would let her.



She does wear an undershirt every day. I guess it's my mental block against letting my little girl wear a "bra". Chat Icon



oh I am sure! I only have a 8 month old ds but I can imagine I would feel like what happened to my baby girl. From an outside perspective though I don't see a big deal. That link that was posted above is something I was imagining.

Posted 3/15/14 7:20 PM
 

PrincessP
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Re: Bras for young girls

My Dd is 7 asked for a hello kitty Cami type last yr. I bought it bc it was cute not bc she had boobs. She wore it to bed under her Pjs. I don't think it was a body thing for her but rather a hello kitty fun thing.

Posted 3/16/14 9:56 PM
 
 

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