So who is the problem?

Dd has been semi- sleeping through the night for about a month. She is no longer eating at night, and she wakes up crying every few hours or so. Dh sleeps through it. She is in our room. I usually go to her, but we did CIO to get her in her crib (it worked) and I find the more I go to her, the more she wakes up.

So the night before last she screamed all night, and ended up in our bed, which hasn't happened in about a month. So dh and I said we have to let her CIO last night, because we didn't want to ruin everything.

So I decided to sleep with earplugs, because I can't listen to her cry all night and ignore her.

I slept with earplugs once before and she had a great night, barely woke at all. Again last night, she had a great night.

So, who is the problem?
Her, because she wakes up

Me, because I go to her and make it worse

Or dh because he sleeps though it?

He now wants me to wear earplugs every night.

Re: So who is the problem?

Uh oh, sounds like you were the problem!! Hehe. Glad to hear that you've figured it out!

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Can i vote DH is the problem only because he sleeps through it and it doesnt torment him like it does you??

I slept with ear plugs last night myself because she grunts so much and always wakes me up!

Re: So who is the problem?

Posted by MrsJ

Can i vote DH is the problem only because he sleeps through it and it doesnt torment him like it does you??

I slept with ear plugs last night myself because she grunts so much and always wakes me up!

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I say DH, because when in doubt, it's their fault!

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I say DH because it's his genes that wake up in the middle of the night.

As I said before choose - either she cries it out - or you do. Sounds like the ear plugs are the way to go!