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Is it okay to NOT wear a dress to my shower?

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teaforthree
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Is it okay to NOT wear a dress to my shower?

I mean, I know it is, but I just feel like I should wear a dress... but I HATE how I look in dresses! I WISH I looked cute in dresses, but I hate my legs... and sitting in front of everyone opening presents in a dress with pictures being taken just will spell disaster for me.

I want to look cute and special, but I feel like I'll look like everyone else in just a pants and a top.

It's a late June shower at a restaurant... right now I'm thinking I'm going to wear white capris or white dress pants with an Empire wasteline top. I just don't feel like I'll look like the guest of honor. Chat Icon

And I've tried on long dresses, but I hate that since I need a larger size, there's SO much material that flows down... it ends up looking like a moo moo.

Posted 5/29/11 12:27 PM
 
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bluekat16
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Member since 3/09

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Kathy

Re: Is it okay to NOT wear a dress to my shower?

I didn't wear a dress. I wore dress pants and a nice top.

You can wear whtever you want...you're the pregnant lady Chat Icon

Posted 5/29/11 12:34 PM
 

curlywife5808
2 boys for me!

Member since 6/08

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Mary

Re: Is it okay to NOT wear a dress to my shower?

I wish I wore pants to mine...I would of been more comfortable when opening gifts. Wear what ever you want its your day :)

Posted 5/29/11 12:55 PM
 

wingsofsong
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Member since 1/09

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Maureen

Re: Is it okay to NOT wear a dress to my shower?

If you are more comfortable in pants, wear pants. I wore pants to mine (although mine was a surprise), but I am always in pants, so it was me. I was very comfortable. Don't worry about not "looking like the guest of honor"- I promise you, no one will be mistaking who the shower is for! Just be comfy and enjoy it!

Posted 5/29/11 2:33 PM
 

Dana517
LIF Infant

Member since 3/11

291 total posts

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Dana

Re: Is it okay to NOT wear a dress to my shower?

im wearing leggings, heels and a nice top to mine next weekend, i agree, not feeling my pale legs right now lol
dont worry- with ur cute baby bump there will be no mistaking the guest of honor! Chat Icon

Posted 5/29/11 2:38 PM
 

QuackQuack
LIF Adolescent

Member since 12/06

572 total posts

Name:
Chrissy

Re: Is it okay to NOT wear a dress to my shower?

i wore capris and a cute top. Where whatever you want to be comfy in. It's a lot of work!!!

Posted 5/29/11 3:29 PM
 

Mugsy4
LIF Infant

Member since 10/10

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Name:
Heather

Re: Is it okay to NOT wear a dress to my shower?

I'm wearing a nice white tank top and khaki shorts or denim shorts. We are having the shower at my house, so we are hoping to have it in the backyard and the weather holds up. It will be hot out there!

Posted 5/29/11 6:55 PM
 

Bearcat
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Member since 6/10

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E

Re: Is it okay to NOT wear a dress to my shower?

there will be no mistaking you as the guest of honor! i mean if you're really concerned, get a shirt that says "baby momma" or something. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
in all seriousness i think it's fine not to wear a dress and i probably won't wear one when it comes time for mine, either.

Posted 5/29/11 7:01 PM
 

Jodee
I love my girls

Member since 11/08

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Name:
Danielle

Re: Is it okay to NOT wear a dress to my shower?

Your the guest of honor, wear what you LOVE!

and it will be so much easier opening gifts too!

Posted 5/29/11 7:18 PM
 

chrisnjoe8108
He's 1!

Member since 8/08

5649 total posts

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Chris

Re: Is it okay to NOT wear a dress to my shower?

I planned on wearing a dress but I decided on pants at the last minute. I am happy that I wore pants. I was definitely more comfortable.

Posted 5/29/11 7:21 PM
 

maybemommy10
Big Brothers to Be !

Member since 2/10

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Re: Is it okay to NOT wear a dress to my shower?

I will be wearing what I feel looks best on me and is comfortable. If you don't want to wear a dress, don't...its your day, enjoy it ! Chat Icon

Posted 5/29/11 7:23 PM
 

3MakesAFamily
LIF Infant

Member since 1/11

274 total posts

Name:
Stephanie

Re: Is it okay to NOT wear a dress to my shower?

hating my legs too right now so I know how you feel.....tghey are just so swollen and pale too!! So I'm going to do a pair of leggings with the dress I got since it's above the knee I thought it'd look cute and I'm all about leggings to begin with. It'll solve the opening gifts situation too. Whatever you wear just be comfy

Posted 5/29/11 8:50 PM
 

JulyMommy2Be
Happy Autumn<3

Member since 12/10

1328 total posts

Name:
Christina

Re: Is it okay to NOT wear a dress to my shower?

It's your shower.. wear what you want and what makes you feel comfortable.

I don't like my legs either, so I wore a maxi dress to mine since it was long and looked pretty, but pants & a nice shirt can work too! It's whatever your preference is!

Posted 5/29/11 9:21 PM
 

MrsG72907
Mommy of 2 girls!

Member since 5/10

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Re: Is it okay to NOT wear a dress to my shower?

I would go with whatever you are comfortable in.

I remember wearing a dress for my bridal shower and that was kinf od annoying while opening presents....moving around so much to open boxes and trying to keep my legs/ankles crossed the entire time. I cant even imagine how much more uncomfortable that would be pregnant. When the time comes for mine I will proib go with pants or capris. But then again mine will be a surprise so i guess i really dont have a choice in what i wear.

Posted 5/30/11 10:25 AM
 
 

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