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MrsBurtch525
Year for change!
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Taryn
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Stop It!!
SIL and i are both trying to get pregnant, not luck for either of us yet but FIL won't get off my back because im the last hope for a grandson to pass along the family name and i already have a DD.
When i had DD last August i was in ICU with post partum heart failure and staph and a blood infection from DD's delivery. FIL had the nerve to come into my room and ask the doctor is my uertus was ok to have more kids and (i don't know if he was joking or not) said i had a year and half to have a gradnsone, which is obviously passed now that DD is 18 months but he keeps brining it up and asking if we are preggo yet and telling me there are certain times a month and DH and i should  . Really?!? I have mentioned this MIL who i am very close too but he doesn't stop. Well last night was the last straw...he asked if we were preggo yet and when i said no...he asked if there was something wrong with me because we were trying for 6 months now.....omg....i didn't even know what to say to that, im glad we were leaving because i just walked out the door and got in the car. It's really getting to me now...
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AngnShaun
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Re: Stop It!!
OMG!!!!!! i dont even know what to say... the nerve...
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| Posted 12/20/10 3:12 PM |
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kelkel09
Love my twins!!!
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Re: Stop It!!
wow. you should really tell DH to have a talk with him and tell him to knock it off. It is none of his business if and when you have another child so he needs to stop making comments and putting pressure on you. If your DH doesnt want to do it then you should. You can tell him if he doesn't cut it out then you won't be going to family functions anymore.
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| Posted 12/20/10 3:14 PM |
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apples99
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Re: Stop It!!
your DH should tell him to MYOB.. you should have to deal with this fantasy of a grandson.. let DH handle it..
so sorry that you are going through this..
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| Posted 12/20/10 3:21 PM |
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Nik211
my little monkey<3
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Re: Stop It!!
reminds me of my inlaws a little bit with stupid comments....
i had requests when i was pregnant also - talk about ridiculous...
that is horrible that you are dealing with that....just ignore them and let your DH rip them a new one  that is what i would do...
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| Posted 12/20/10 4:25 PM |
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Bearcat
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Re: Stop It!!
That is just so wrong... on so many levels. 
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| Posted 12/20/10 4:33 PM |
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Otherme
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Re: Stop It!!
so sorry you have to deal with that..
i can't even imagine what i would say if anyone even had the nerve to say something like that to me!
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| Posted 12/20/10 5:43 PM |
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DiamondGirl
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Re: Stop It!!
Posted by ar31
your DH should tell him to MYOB.. you should have to deal with this fantasy of a grandson.. let DH handle it..
so sorry that you are going through this..
ITA 
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| Posted 12/20/10 5:47 PM |
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Nicoley89
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Member since 9/10 623 total posts
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Re: Stop It!!
OMG! He has NO right what so ever to say these things to you. Your hubby should def put his father in his place. That is so disrespectful... he should bother his own daughter not YOU!
I would be soooo ****** off!
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| Posted 12/20/10 5:50 PM |
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PennyCat
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Re: Stop It!!
 I just can't get past how involved he is with this. It's just sort of bizarre!
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| Posted 12/20/10 6:10 PM |
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Re: Stop It!!
I am so sorry. Why doesn't your DH say something to him on the side? I would be angry too!
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| Posted 12/20/10 6:18 PM |
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RocPin
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Re: Stop It!!
Totally out of line! My dad doesnt leave me alone about it either. Its annoying but not to that extent. Im sorry you have to deal with that. 
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| Posted 12/20/10 6:22 PM |
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Shelleybean11
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Re: Stop It!!
 That is totally out of line! I don't even have words!!
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| Posted 12/20/10 8:14 PM |
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MrsBurtch525
Year for change!
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Taryn
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Re: Stop It!!
Posted by PennyCat
I just can't get past how involved he is with this. It's just sort of bizarre!
He's not involved. We told him 6 months ago we were going to start trying when he asked when we were going to have another and we go see DH parent's a few times a week so he usually brings it up at some point every week or so. I usually just saw "I don't know" regardless of the question and just try to ignore it.
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| Posted 12/20/10 9:46 PM |
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gina409
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Re: Stop It!!
i would ask him if he wants to get up in there and take a look to sdee if everything is working right
in all seriousness..i think its one of the rudest things i have ever heard...for me when i keep getting those questions of when u having kids..or dont take too long..i find when i blurt out..we r having problems people tend to shut up and stop asking..
i would def talk to dh and have him say something if u dont want to..he should not be saying those things to you
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| Posted 12/20/10 10:44 PM |
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BabyHopes15
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Posted by AngnShaun
OMG!!!!!! i dont even know what to say... the nerve...
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| Posted 12/21/10 10:15 AM |
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RGEC47
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Rosa
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Re: Stop It!!
Posted by letsmakeababy
wow. you should really tell DH to have a talk with him and tell him to knock it off. It is none of his business if and when you have another child so he needs to stop making comments and putting pressure on you. If your DH doesnt want to do it then you should. You can tell him if he doesn't cut it out then you won't be going to family functions anymore.
I agree. This is to close for comfort and he needs to back off.
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| Posted 12/21/10 10:18 AM |
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