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DH and TTC
I just gave DH a heads up that O will be happening very soon. He asked me (not seriously) why my body chooses the worse times to O. He says he is going through some stressful stuff at work and is not sure if he will be able to perform as much as last month. Aughhhhhhh!!!! I told him that if we waited for a non-stressful time for us to TTC we'd never have a baby. Men  .
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Maybe this time?
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Re: DH and TTC
I can relate...they are so annoying sometimes. Just remember that they think differently than us.....while you are thinking about BD to conceive, he is thinking about supporting a family....its a good thing! He's thinking along the same lines....just in a different way.
My advice to you is to NOT TALK ABOUT IT...just get naked or do whatever you need to seduce him....get him to respond....and....and get busy. 
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CoutureMaMa
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Posted by kristinel
I just gave DH a heads up that O will be happening very soon. He asked me (not seriously) why my body chooses the worse times to O. He says he is going through some stressful stuff at work and is not sure if he will be able to perform as much as last month. Aughhhhhhh!!!! I told him that if we waited for a non-stressful time for us to TTC we'd never have a baby. Men .
ugh dh is in the same boat!!! he came home from work today and was in such a bad mood and then he left to go play cards with my family, and i couldnt even talk to him or look at him, never mind bd. meanwhile today and yesterday i think were important days and we didnt bd either day now. so now i am crying in my office by myself thinking this month was a bust again. and im not even opk'ing so i dont even know when was good and when wasnt.     
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kristinel
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Re: DH and TTC
Posted by when
I can relate...they are so annoying sometimes. Just remember that they think differently than us.....while you are thinking about BD to conceive, he is thinking about supporting a family....its a good thing! He's thinking along the same lines....just in a different way.
My advice to you is to NOT TALK ABOUT IT...just get naked or do whatever you need to seduce him....get him to respond....and....and get busy.
LOL, actually, I was naked and getting ready to take a shower when I told him this. Unfortunately for me, when DH is concentrating on work nothing can distract him. Usually giving him a heads up works. It kind of lets him pencil bd'ing into his schedule. Although, right now he has a sore throat and I'm crossing my fingers he doesn't get sick. This will be the second time in 5 months of trying that he has been sick during O.
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Posted by kristinel
I just gave DH a heads up that O will be happening very soon. He asked me (not seriously) why my body chooses the worse times to O. He says he is going through some stressful stuff at work and is not sure if he will be able to perform as much as last month. Aughhhhhhh!!!! I told him that if we waited for a non-stressful time for us to TTC we'd never have a baby. Men .
ugh dh is in the same boat!!! he came home from work today and was in such a bad mood and then he left to go play cards with my family, and i couldnt even talk to him or look at him, never mind bd. meanwhile today and yesterday i think were important days and we didnt bd either day now. so now i am crying in my office by myself thinking this month was a bust again. and im not even opk'ing so i dont even know when was good and when wasnt.
It's good to know I'm not the only one in this situation. Let's all share a  .
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Re: DH and TTC
you have fm
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CoutureMaMa
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Re: DH and TTC
Posted by kristinel
Posted by beleebuton
Posted by kristinel
I just gave DH a heads up that O will be happening very soon. He asked me (not seriously) why my body chooses the worse times to O. He says he is going through some stressful stuff at work and is not sure if he will be able to perform as much as last month. Aughhhhhhh!!!! I told him that if we waited for a non-stressful time for us to TTC we'd never have a baby. Men .
ugh dh is in the same boat!!! he came home from work today and was in such a bad mood and then he left to go play cards with my family, and i couldnt even talk to him or look at him, never mind bd. meanwhile today and yesterday i think were important days and we didnt bd either day now. so now i am crying in my office by myself thinking this month was a bust again. and im not even opk'ing so i dont even know when was good and when wasnt.
It's good to know I'm not the only one in this situation. Let's all share a .
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AT times like these, I tell DH to have a beer, relax and then man up. Only 1 beer, otherwise I find it canbe counterproductive.
DH is a horny toad, so I do not often have this problem.
Okay, that glass of wine I had is kicking in.
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