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Tired of being nice................
3 times....yeah that is right 3 times in one night DH and I got a call from friends of ours that they were expecting, they were keeping it quiet and wanted to make our NYE happy.... .
Do I love all of these friends yes I do, but I know that all three of these women never wanted kids and they all said...well as long as it makes "insert husbands name here" happy then I'm ok with it. I am hurting so bad right now, and DH keeps asking me "why not us?"
Happy freakin New Year.
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MadDogMrsT
Wishing & Hoping
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Here's Hoping
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Re: Tired of being nice................
I'm so sorry! That's a really crappy way to start a new year! 
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| Posted 1/1/09 3:09 AM |
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Kate
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Shelleybean11
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Re: Tired of being nice................
I am so sorry.  that you will be next.
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| Posted 1/1/09 8:37 AM |
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jea128
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maybeamommy
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kitkat32
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kate
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Re: Tired of being nice................
i feel your pain. trust me!
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gsgirls1
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St Gerard and God, thank you for our blessing
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Re: Tired of being nice................
it's rough. Sometimes people say they wouldn't want a baby and it is really covering up the idea that they are afraid or may be having trouble getting pregnant. I know I was like that. I put up a front (and sometimes still do since NO ONE knows we are trying) to keep other's at arms length. It may seem childish but that is how I cope.
I hope you may realize your dreams soon.
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| Posted 1/1/09 10:01 AM |
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jerseygirl
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Re: Tired of being nice................
I know how you feel. We got one phone call last night saying that a good friend of ours is pregnant.
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ArmyOfBabies
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Re: Tired of being nice................
I'm sorry! That is really crappy. You have every right to feel upset.
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| Posted 1/1/09 10:36 AM |
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couldbtwins
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Re: Tired of being nice................
You are not alone in your feelings. I feels the same way when I hear someone else is PG. You just have to tell yourself your turn will come. Hang in there
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CoutureMaMa
nicholas is one!!
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Tinyswife
My family is complete
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pisces36
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Re: Tired of being nice................
I am so sorry.. I know how you feel and just know that it will happen for you!! Here's a lot of baby dust for you so you're next!
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lucyloo
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Leeners
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Re: Tired of being nice................
I definitely understand how you feel-that sting when someone gets preggo effortlessly and it just doesn't happen. Just keep your hopes strong and keep BDing and try not to think about anyone's situation but your own, this way your head is clear and you don't stress yourself out anymore than you probably are.
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