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jea128
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I'm out...and depressed
I honestly didn't think it was our month...but I'm still soooooo upset. I always wanted DD to be close in age to her sibling and now I feel as the months go by, she may never get a sibling. This was all I asked for, for X-mas this year. I just feel so discouraged and don't even want to TTC anymore.
OK pity party done for me. Add me to the list of girls that needs lots of  for 2009.
I hope 2009 is a great year for ALL of us!!!!
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| Posted 12/22/08 1:12 PM |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe
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Re: I'm out...and depressed
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| Posted 12/22/08 1:17 PM |
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lolipep
My prayers have been answered
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Lori
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Re: I'm out...and depressed
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| Posted 12/22/08 1:40 PM |
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maybeamommy
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Re: I'm out...and depressed
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| Posted 12/22/08 1:54 PM |
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sweetdreamz1181
Baby Girl on the way!
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Jackie
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Re: I'm out...and depressed
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| Posted 12/22/08 2:00 PM |
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Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!
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Re: I'm out...and depressed
The first day of AF is the hardest IMO. I cried so hard this month then I got myself together and started planning for the next month! I think we are so focused on doing things right and we have so much hope in that 2ww that it doesn't hit us until AF actually shows that another month has passed by and we have to do it all over again. I had all of these plans - that I have basically just thrown out the window and realized that unfortunately I don't have contol over anything TTC related! It will happen when it's supposed to I guess!
The ONLY thing that has gotten me through the last couple of months is knowing that there is a greater plan for everything - we don't know why things happen when they do - but they do for a reason!
So, scream, cry, vent away - we all understand how depressing it is - and we're all here for you --- but, just know that it will happen eventually!! 
Message edited 12/22/2008 2:44:07 PM.
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jea128
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Re: I'm out...and depressed
Thanks sooooo much!!! I know I should be blessed that I have my beautiful DD, DH, my health, etc. I just feel so let down!
And you're absolutely right, the first day is definitely the hardest. And just think in a week I get to start the BD marathon again....UGGGHHH, I'm tired of living my life in 2 week spurts!
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| Posted 12/22/08 3:22 PM |
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Kate
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Re: I'm out...and depressed
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| Posted 12/22/08 4:49 PM |
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pisces36
LIF Infant
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Re: I'm out...and depressed
and much for 2009!!
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TCOMF09
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Re: I'm out...and depressed
Posted by Diana1215
The ONLY thing that has gotten me through the last couple of months is knowing that there is a greater plan for everything - we don't know why things happen when they do - but they do for a reason!
So, scream, cry, vent away - we all understand how depressing it is - and we're all here for you --- but, just know that it will happen eventually!!
This is sooo well said. I can honestly say it's the only thing that has gotten me through month after month of disappointment.
I also agree w/Diana - scream, cry & vent away!
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| Posted 12/22/08 6:57 PM |
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kitkat32
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kate
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Re: I'm out...and depressed
Posted by Diana1215
The first day of AF is the hardest IMO. I cried so hard this month then I got myself together and started planning for the next month! I think we are so focused on doing things right and we have so much hope in that 2ww that it doesn't hit us until AF actually shows that another month has passed by and we have to do it all over again. I had all of these plans - that I have basically just thrown out the window and realized that unfortunately I don't have contol over anything TTC related! It will happen when it's supposed to I guess!
The ONLY thing that has gotten me through the last couple of months is knowing that there is a greater plan for everything - we don't know why things happen when they do - but they do for a reason!
So, scream, cry, vent away - we all understand how depressing it is - and we're all here for you --- but, just know that it will happen eventually!!
You are so right
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Re: I'm out...and depressed
<-for next month!
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| Posted 12/23/08 3:39 PM |
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