PPD

I THINK I HAVE IT. i had a miscarriage at 20w2d about 6 weeks ago, and i feel like i am worse then when it first happened. Everything was getting better i felt but in the last 2 weeks or so. i have been a mess crying, angry all the time. MY FH and i are at eachothers throats. i just feel so alone. Help!

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I have never been through this but remember a miscarriage is a tramatic event in any woman's life and you need time to grieve and by upset We are all here for you!

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Posted by beautyq115

I have never been through this but remember a miscarriage is a tramatic event in any woman's life and you need time to grieve and by upset We are all here for you!

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Posted by MikesGirl323

Posted by beautyq115

I have never been through this but remember a miscarriage is a tramatic event in any woman's life and you need time to grieve and by upset We are all here for you!

Thank you so much. i need all the help i can get. i want to get better.

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You are going through the all emotions of a tragedy like the one you just experienced. You certainly can't be expected to bounce back. You so unfaily lost the baby pretty late, which makes the whole thing even tougher to bare. Don't be so hard on yourself, and don't be afraid to ask for help.

My best friend suffered a m/c, and she was a different person for a while until she went through the mourning process. It was a terrible time for them, but she got PG quickly, and they are now the proud parents of a 3 year old boy and 1 yeard old daughter.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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I just want to give you some huggys and prayers....

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I hope you feel better real soon!!! I'm so sorry hunny!!!

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im so sorry again for what you went through... i know we spoke about it a couple times... but i want you to know that im always here to talk.. being that i had a late MC also...

and believe me, i still have my moments i feel like im depressed as well.. DH sometimes doesnt understand it.
sometimes i just feel like it wont get better, but i just have to keep fighting and just think about the future.

please dont hesitate to FM me.. and chat with us on the MC thread.. its really helpful!

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It's very possible. I had it as well after a miscarriage. My DH wanted to wait to TTC which made it a lot worse and almost ruined my marriage. I got in counseling and I even took some anti-depressants for about 4 months. I took the time to grieve and heal from the loss and now we are pregnant again and getting along better than before. It is completely understandable but should not be ignored. Maybe you could talk to someone to get out your feelings. I wish you the best. If you ever need to talk feel free to FM me.

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I think it actually is harder a few weeks after the miscarriage. I thought I was fine right after the D&C- very practical and pragmatic- these things happen kind of attitude. I was trying to be strong for DH but it kind of back-fired on me.

But then it got worse- I started crying for no reason, my DH thought I was crazy since I was acting fine when it happened, my SIL found out she was pregnant, it was just awful. I didn't think anyone understood- my DH got so mad at me and just wanted me to snap out of it.

Hang in there- you are not alone. It just feels that way right now.

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I'm so sorry you are going through this.

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so many of us have gone through this and we know exactly how you are feeling

it is sad and traumatic - we are all hear to listen