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Tany
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Re: Internet Stalkers

Posted by leighla

Posted by DebG

Posted by boosh1002

Posted by MrsProfessor

Someone who looks up information about a person (as much as they can get) and using it to weasel his/her way into the person's life, or doing creepy things like watching the person's home or place of work.

ETA: e-mail and phone contact may be involved too.



I agree


Wouldnt that be regular stalking though instead of internet stalking



Yes - I think that's stalking, stalking.

Internet stalking to me is stalking or harassing another person through the Internet, e-mail or other electronic devices (cell phones, blackberries) and sending threatening or damaging messages to someone through those devices.

It may lead to a face to face confrontation if not stopped early on.

Earlier this year when a poster on this board found my personal email address and used it to send hurtful messages to me, I considered that Internet Stalking.



I completely agree.
That s ucks that someone did that to you.
Sorry.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/14/05 8:37 PM
 
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Re: Internet Stalkers

Posted by MrsJ

Posted by DebG

Posted by MrsJ

Posted by DebG

I find it funny and hard to believe that someone who had such hateful and mean things to say to me could be "genuinly happy". All I have asked since our disagreement is for you to leave me alone and stay away. Why is that so difficult? I never "slammed" you when you sent the well wishes, I simply asked you to conform to the arrangement already made.


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The "arrangement" already made? I dont know what you're talking about.

I was mad, I said things, its over. I dont hold grudges.

And yes I was genuinely happy for you because I know what a long hard struggle it was for you to get to this point and I knew how much it meant to you to finally have your prayers answered.




I'm glad that you can say "its over" because you say its over. You words deeply hurt me and still do to this day. Pardon me for not being over it because you said so.
Most times an apology helps me "get over" things.



I meant it is over for me because I dont hold grudges. I am sorry for the things that I said that night that hurt you. I was angry, not that thats any excuse, but I was really angry that night. After I calmed down I felt bad that the whole thing even happened especially since you had helped me so much with TTC issues.

I was not fully at blame - but I will take the blame for my share of it.

I did try to FM you a few times to tell you that I felt badly about what happened, but I wasnt able to.


Kathy,
Thank you, I do appreciate the apology. An apology is something that I need in order to heal. I appreciate the fact that you took the step first. I admit that I did not react in the best way and I too am sorry for some of the things that I may have said.

Posted 12/14/05 8:46 PM
 

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Re: Internet Stalkers

Posted by DebG

Posted by MrsJ

Posted by DebG

Posted by MrsJ

Posted by DebG

I find it funny and hard to believe that someone who had such hateful and mean things to say to me could be "genuinly happy". All I have asked since our disagreement is for you to leave me alone and stay away. Why is that so difficult? I never "slammed" you when you sent the well wishes, I simply asked you to conform to the arrangement already made.


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The "arrangement" already made? I dont know what you're talking about.

I was mad, I said things, its over. I dont hold grudges.

And yes I was genuinely happy for you because I know what a long hard struggle it was for you to get to this point and I knew how much it meant to you to finally have your prayers answered.




I'm glad that you can say "its over" because you say its over. You words deeply hurt me and still do to this day. Pardon me for not being over it because you said so.
Most times an apology helps me "get over" things.



I meant it is over for me because I dont hold grudges. I am sorry for the things that I said that night that hurt you. I was angry, not that thats any excuse, but I was really angry that night. After I calmed down I felt bad that the whole thing even happened especially since you had helped me so much with TTC issues.

I was not fully at blame - but I will take the blame for my share of it.

I did try to FM you a few times to tell you that I felt badly about what happened, but I wasnt able to.


Kathy,
Thank you, I do appreciate the apology. An apology is something that I need in order to heal. I appreciate the fact that you took the step first. I admit that I did not react in the best way and I too am sorry for some of the things that I may have said.



Whew...I was waiting for your response and didnt know what to expect...

I hope that we can start putting it all behind us Chat Icon ...not to mention enjoy these pregnancies we've wanted so bad, right?Chat Icon

Posted 12/14/05 8:47 PM
 

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Re: Internet Stalkers

TY, I hope we can as well.
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Posted 12/14/05 8:54 PM
 

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Re: Internet Stalkers

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Isnt this what Christmas is all about?Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/05 9:04 PM
 

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Re: Internet Stalkers

Posted by rose825

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Isnt this what Christmas is all about?Chat Icon Chat Icon


stalking? Chat Icon

ETA...i guess the idea of a fat man comming down a chimeny might constitute as stalking
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Message edited 12/15/2005 9:06:55 PM.

Posted 12/15/05 9:06 PM
 

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Re: Internet Stalkers

Posted by MrsProfessor

Someone who looks up information about a person (as much as they can get) and using it to weasel his/her way into the person's life, or doing creepy things like watching the person's home or place of work.

ETA: e-mail and phone contact may be involved too.



Yup, i think that pretty much sums it up.

ETA: sorry, didn't read the rest of this thread prior to responding, so at this point it seems like my response was unnecessary! Chat Icon

Message edited 12/15/2005 9:10:10 PM.

Posted 12/15/05 9:07 PM
 

rose825
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Re: Internet Stalkers

Posted by Redhead

Posted by rose825

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Isnt this what Christmas is all about?Chat Icon Chat Icon


stalking? Chat Icon

ETA...i guess the idea of a fat man comming down a chimeny might constitute as stalking
Chat Icon




Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I meant all this forgiveness that is going on. Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/05 9:09 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Internet Stalkers

Posted by rose825

Posted by Redhead

Posted by rose825

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Isnt this what Christmas is all about?Chat Icon Chat Icon


stalking? Chat Icon

ETA...i guess the idea of a fat man comming down a chimeny might constitute as stalking
Chat Icon




Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I meant all this forgiveness that is going on. Chat Icon


i know Chat Icon

just took the op to make a joke

Posted 12/15/05 9:10 PM
 

MrsProfessor
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Re: Internet Stalkers

Posted by Redhead

Posted by rose825

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Isnt this what Christmas is all about?Chat Icon Chat Icon


stalking? Chat Icon

ETA...i guess the idea of a fat man comming down a chimeny might constitute as stalking
Chat Icon




Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/05 9:15 PM
 
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