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maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief
Member since 10/07 17048 total posts
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Poll: What would you do?
Background: Thought we were PG after AF was 4 days late in October (weren't actively trying at the time). This kicked babyfever into high gear so we decided to actively start trying in November. Used OPKs. AF was 9 days late, but did show.
Now we're not sure if we should skip a month or continue trying. We have an important event at/around the estimated due date if we were to get pregnant in December. The event would require flying, and would be approximately 2 weeks before the estimated due date (but how accurate is that? it's based on an approximate ovulation date).
What would you do?
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Posted 11/25/07 3:56 PM  |
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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît
Member since 6/07 42079 total posts
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LB
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Re: Poll: What would you do?
i personally would never hold off on TTC for any event, no matter how big. IMO, life is too short to wait for something like this, especially if you don't know whether it will happen or not. but that is just ME - you have to do what is right for YOU. we all have different circumstances.
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| Posted 11/25/07 4:27 PM |
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nicrae
He's here!
Member since 12/06 9289 total posts
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Mommy
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Re: Poll: What would you do?
You probably wouldn't be able to fly two weeks before your due date without a doctor's note. Also the baby could come early. If the eventis a must be at then I would probably skip this month. If it isn't a command performance then go for it!
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| Posted 11/25/07 4:38 PM |
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MrsFlatbread
Skinny jeans are in my future
Member since 6/06 10258 total posts
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Baby Momma
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Re: Poll: What would you do?
Posted by headoverheels
i personally would never hold off on TTC for any event, no matter how big. IMO, life is too short to wait for something like this, especially if you don't know whether it will happen or not. but that is just ME - you have to do what is right for YOU. we all have different circumstances.
ITA
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| Posted 11/25/07 4:51 PM |
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Dani922
Here's to new beginnings
Member since 10/07 7260 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: Poll: What would you do?
You are technically not supposed to fly at all in your last trimester, so even if you skip this month & get pregnant next month it's likely you still wouldn't be able to fly. So, if you are just waiting so that you can fly, I wouldn't wait.
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| Posted 11/25/07 4:55 PM |
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Domino
Always My Miracle
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Re: Poll: What would you do?
DH and I have IF issues so I wouldnt wait for anything!
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| Posted 11/25/07 5:00 PM |
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Ronkonkomonga
LIF Adolescent
Member since 5/05 544 total posts
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We Three Kings...
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Re: Poll: What would you do?
I replied no - but I had done the opposite.
I actually scheduled around my busy time at work...
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| Posted 11/25/07 5:46 PM |
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MrsRivera
2 under 2...whew!!
Member since 2/07 9876 total posts
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Beth
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Re: Poll: What would you do?
Posted by Domino
DH and I have IF issues so I wouldnt wait for anything!
same here--I've waited years thus far, only to find out that it's going to be a struggle. I say go for it, and whatever happens, happens!
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| Posted 11/25/07 7:08 PM |
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kmac
Two under two!
Member since 5/07 3703 total posts
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Kris
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Re: Poll: What would you do?
Posted by Domino
DH and I have IF issues so I wouldnt wait for anything!
Same here. If we have to bail out of other plans because we are due we'd gladly do that.
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| Posted 11/25/07 7:20 PM |
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JennZ
MY LIFE!!
Member since 8/05 25463 total posts
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Re: Poll: What would you do?
Posted by headoverheels
i personally would never hold off on TTC for any event, no matter how big. IMO, life is too short to wait for something like this, especially if you don't know whether it will happen or not. but that is just ME - you have to do what is right for YOU. we all have different circumstances.
So true, "people make plans, God laughs" is SO true.
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| Posted 11/25/07 7:32 PM |
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DeniseMarie
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Member since 8/07 10682 total posts
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Re: Poll: What would you do?
Posted by headoverheels
i personally would never hold off on TTC for any event, no matter how big. IMO, life is too short to wait for something like this, especially if you don't know whether it will happen or not. but that is just ME - you have to do what is right for YOU. we all have different circumstances.
ITA
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| Posted 11/25/07 8:19 PM |
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Stephybaby
Love my two girls!!
Member since 11/07 1966 total posts
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Stephy
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Re: Poll: What would you do?
Hey sorry AF showed....
I dont think you should hold off especially since you want it so much....
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| Posted 11/25/07 9:26 PM |
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MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3
Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
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Michelle
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Re: Poll: What would you do?
Posted by kmac
Posted by Domino
DH and I have IF issues so I wouldnt wait for anything!
Same here. If we have to bail out of other plans because we are due we'd gladly do that.
Same here.
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| Posted 11/25/07 10:01 PM |
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-BabyMiracle-
When will my ship come in?
Member since 9/07 1056 total posts
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J
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Re: Poll: What would you do?
I personally would not hold off TTC for any event. Ultimately its up to you and DH though. Good luck with whatever you decide!
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| Posted 11/25/07 10:23 PM |
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BunnyBaby
Loving Motherhood!!!
Member since 11/07 1238 total posts
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Audrina
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Re: Poll: What would you do?
Nope- I wouldn't hold off at all.
May I ask what the event is?
Because seriously, if it is an event for a sister or brothers wedding, then MAYBE. But, if it is for a vacation or something like that - or even a party- never!!
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| Posted 11/26/07 11:27 AM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
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Susan
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Re: Poll: What would you do?
lots of people plan around events, work, etc..
I would do what you feel comfortable with.
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| Posted 11/26/07 11:35 AM |
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