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LuckyMe
LIF Infant
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Antoinette
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DH and I have been trying...
and nothing so far. It's odd for us too because I've never had trouble before. We've always had to be extremely careful not to because it happens so easily. Now that we want to have the last one nothing. Im so frustrated. We are having the big wedding next June so we deceided we would try until May and that would be it until after the wedding so I dont have problems with the dress. Now  Im thinking one more month wont hurt right? I've used every ovulation calculator on the computer to and they all give you the same dates(never had to do this before)so I figured it should work right but maybe Im missing something. Any suggestions?
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Posted 6/6/07 10:36 AM  |
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HoneyBadger
YourWorstNightmare.
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Re: DH and I have been trying...
While I don't have any suggestions for you I was thinking maybe with all the stress a wedding can bring, that is why you're having some trouble this time around?
Also, I was just wondering is your FH on board with trying one more month? It seems to me that this may not be the best time for you... JMHO, I'm not trying to be mean or anything.
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| Posted 6/6/07 12:25 PM |
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LuckyMe
LIF Infant
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Antoinette
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Re: DH and I have been trying...
Thanks I dont find you being mean at all. I thought the stress could be it and I havent talked to DH yet about trying one more month yet. Just a thought I had. Planning on talking to him over the weekend about it since today is my birthday If he's not it's okay with me too. We are just really excited though and he swears each month(we've only been trying for 2 months now)that I am this time, so I think he's a bit more gung ho not that Im not just that I cant believe how much he wants to this time.
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| Posted 6/6/07 12:34 PM |
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Rycois
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J
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Re: DH and I have been trying...
Personally, if this is something you want now, I don't know that I would stop trying b/c of a wedding.
If you don't mind me asking - How long have you been trying? How old are you?
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| Posted 6/6/07 12:57 PM |
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HoneyBadger
YourWorstNightmare.
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Re: DH and I have been trying...
Posted by LuckyMe
Thanks I dont find you being mean at all. I thought the stress could be it and I havent talked to DH yet about trying one more month yet. Just a thought I had. Planning on talking to him over the weekend about it since today is my birthday If he's not it's okay with me too. We are just really excited though and he swears each month(we've only been trying for 2 months now)that I am this time, so I think he's a bit more gung ho not that Im not just that I cant believe how much he wants to this time.
You know another thought...
Besides the wedding, maybe just the stress you and your DH are putting on yourselves could be messing you up too. Talk to him and see what he says. Either way, try not to stress it. You probably didn't have any problems the other times b/c you were relaxed.
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| Posted 6/6/07 1:58 PM |
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HoneyBadger
YourWorstNightmare.
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Re: DH and I have been trying...
Posted by SweetCaroline
Personally, if this is something you want now, I don't know that I would stop trying b/c of a wedding.
If you don't mind me asking - How long have you been trying? How old are you?
I think she's concerned about the wedding b/c it's her wedding... I think there's some concern that if they get PG now, she will not fit into the gown that has already been ordered.
Correct me if I'm wrong...
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| Posted 6/6/07 1:59 PM |
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LuckyMe
LIF Infant
Member since 5/05 205 total posts
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Antoinette
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Re: DH and I have been trying...
I am 35yrs. old today and the reason we can put it off for the wedding is we already have kids together so I have time to wait. When we deceided to have one more we were already in the process of planning the wedding and I really dont want to be 8months pregnant at my wedding, which is just my preference.
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| Posted 6/6/07 2:22 PM |
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LuckyMe
LIF Infant
Member since 5/05 205 total posts
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Antoinette
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Re: DH and I have been trying...
I think your right though about the stress. In the past I wouldnt say we were stress free but we werent trying to have a baby either it just happened.
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| Posted 6/6/07 2:24 PM |
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Rycois
Blessed with 2blue/2pink
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Re: DH and I have been trying...
Sorry, I misunderstood - I thought you meant you were in a bridal party  
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| Posted 6/6/07 3:04 PM |
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LuckyMe
LIF Infant
Member since 5/05 205 total posts
Name:
Antoinette
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Re: DH and I have been trying...
That's okay! I appreciate all honest opinions even ones I might not want to hear.
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| Posted 6/6/07 9:50 PM |
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