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MarisaK
HELLO Manolo !!
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Your Opinion? Am I being unreasonable?
Thanks all !!
Message edited 9/30/2013 2:48:51 PM.
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ali120206
2 Boys
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Your Opinion? Am I being unreasonable?
No - you are not evil or wrong!
Since your son has concerns - and isn't close with her, if she isn't having a good day, I don't think it's a good idea if he goes and visits.
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| Posted 9/30/13 12:24 PM |
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ThreeforTea
Girls just want to have fun..
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Your Opinion? Am I being unreasonable?
I wouldn't want my child to get upset after he sees the grandmother if she is having a bad day. Plus, they don't have a close relationship to begin with. So, I agree with you.
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| Posted 9/30/13 12:30 PM |
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Millie3
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Re: Your Opinion? Am I being unreasonable?
Similar situation here.For this age, out of sight out of mind. I don't think you should even ask his parents, let your DH go alone.
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| Posted 9/30/13 12:31 PM |
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Re: Your Opinion? Am I being unreasonable?
no i wouldnt want my ds going either. i had a hard time dealing with my grandmother dying and going to visits to nursing homes and i was like somewhere between ages 21-26 at the time... so i understand how you are feeling. go with your gut.
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| Posted 9/30/13 12:31 PM |
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JDubs
different, not less
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Re: Your Opinion? Am I being unreasonable?
I agree with you, I wouldn't want my DS going either.
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| Posted 9/30/13 12:32 PM |
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Chai77
Brighter days ahead
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Re: Your Opinion? Am I being unreasonable?
I agree with you. If the grandmother is out of it or very ill that it could scare your DS, I would definitely not bring him.
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| Posted 9/30/13 12:44 PM |
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evenedan
Need a little sunshine
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Re: Your Opinion? Am I being unreasonable?
Sounds reasonable to me.
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| Posted 9/30/13 12:56 PM |
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NYCGirl80
I love my kiddies!
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Re: Your Opinion? Am I being unreasonable?
If your DH didn't argue with it, then I wouldn't think twice about it.
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| Posted 9/30/13 1:52 PM |
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Re: Your Opinion? Am I being unreasonable?
I think you are being perfectly reasonable. Not that you need it, but if you are looking for validation - my older sister was very ill and died when I was 4. She was in a hospice/nursing home at the end and my parents didn't have any choice so they took me with them to visit her. I can still picture every horrible moment of it, 30 yrs later.
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| Posted 9/30/13 1:53 PM |
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