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Diana1215
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Words you NEVER want to hear
"when are you due?"
Especially when you are taking a Zumba class? HELLO Azzhole, I am jumping up and down like a lunatic wouldn't it make sense that I am trying to get rid of the baby belly.
Just pissses me off to no end. I know I still have a belly, and am working like a dog to get rid of it. I can't believe how rude some people are.
If I was in Babies R Us - ok, it's free game - but Zumba class???? Really????
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eddiesmommy
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
been there and I was IN A BAR HOLDING A BEER!!!!!!!!!
It sucks, but use it as motivation!
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| Posted 6/23/10 8:49 AM |
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
 I posted on here a while back that I was in the grocery store and picked up some biscuits. Some azzhole guy asked me if I knew what I was having. I just looked at him and he motioned to his belly. I don't know if he was genuinely asking, or just being an azz. I threw down those biscuits so quickly and just cried. The worst part is I don't even have a post-baby belly. This is just how my belly is. It has never been flat. So I totally know how you feel.
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| Posted 6/23/10 8:51 AM |
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Diana1215
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
People are just so stupid.
The best part is, I've seen her a few weeks at this one class and after she asked me and I told her I already had the baby and I wouldn't be here if I was pregnant she said "I talked my sister about it and she told me not to ask you....I hope I didn't offend you"
Lady - WHY are you talking to your sister about me and YES you did offend me.
Thanks to her though I didn't come home and snack on anything like I normally would have
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| Posted 6/23/10 8:57 AM |
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Mommy2Boys
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
People are just so stupid!
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| Posted 6/23/10 9:06 AM |
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What an azz!!
I am sure you don't look pregnant. Don't listen to her!
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| Posted 6/23/10 9:11 AM |
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Blu-ize
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
Oy! That blows.
Chin up, you will have that gone soon.
Someone said that to me at the mall one day..this was years ago but it prompted me to lose 25 lbs..too bad I didn't keep it off.
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| Posted 6/23/10 10:46 AM |
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bicosi
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
Posted by Diana1215
People are just so stupid.
The best part is, I've seen her a few weeks at this one class and after she asked me and I told her I already had the baby and I wouldn't be here if I was pregnant she said "I talked my sister about it and she told me not to ask you....I hope I didn't offend you"
Lady - WHY are you talking to your sister about me and YES you did offend me.
Thanks to her though I didn't come home and snack on anything like I normally would have
Sounds to me liike this biotch said it to you on purpose.
eff her! don't worry about her.
Keep up what you're doing. and be proud of the body you have. regardless of you not being 100% happy with it, that body bore 2 beautiful children...some people would kill for those blessings! 
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| Posted 6/23/10 11:29 AM |
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Diana1215
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
Posted by bicosi
Posted by Diana1215
People are just so stupid.
The best part is, I've seen her a few weeks at this one class and after she asked me and I told her I already had the baby and I wouldn't be here if I was pregnant she said "I talked my sister about it and she told me not to ask you....I hope I didn't offend you"
Lady - WHY are you talking to your sister about me and YES you did offend me.
Thanks to her though I didn't come home and snack on anything like I normally would have
Sounds to me liike this biotch said it to you on purpose.
eff her! don't worry about her.
Keep up what you're doing. and be proud of the body you have. regardless of you not being 100% happy with it, that body bore 2 beautiful children...some people would kill for those blessings!
Thanks! I know! It just sucks, having been 100lbs soaking wet my whole life, this really blows. 
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| Posted 6/23/10 11:31 AM |
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bicosi
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
I hear you.. but you WILL get there.. I can promise you that. keep up the good work!
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| Posted 6/23/10 11:33 AM |
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Diana1215
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
Posted by bicosi
I hear you.. but you WILL get there.. I can promise you that. keep up the good work!
Thing is, I feel like I am working so hard and we are probably going for #3. Was it easier to lose the weight after the third once it was already off?
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| Posted 6/23/10 11:52 AM |
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bicosi
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
Posted by Diana1215
Posted by bicosi
I hear you.. but you WILL get there.. I can promise you that. keep up the good work!
Thing is, I feel like I am working so hard and we are probably going for #3. Was it easier to lose the weight after the third once it was already off?
It was for me.. I didn't gain as much with #3 between being ill and how crazy the other two made me... I had my hands full big time!
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MockingJay
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
UGH  What an a$$. Seriously don't even stress about it! People like that are just friggin retarded. You know how many people have come up to me and thought they were COMPLIMENTING me when they said "Ya know, when you first walked in we didn't think you'd be any good, but you did great. That was a great class!"
Oh and I've had regular customers at the restaurant I work at sometimes point to my belly and ask if i was pg. Some people just have no filter!
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CrankyPants
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
I get the "look" all the time-I can tell people want to ask because they think I am knocked up, but they are not quite sure. I hate it
I feel for you!
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Carolyn
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CrankyPants
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
Posted by Diana1215
Posted by bicosi
I hear you.. but you WILL get there.. I can promise you that. keep up the good work!
Thing is, I feel like I am working so hard and we are probably going for #3. Was it easier to lose the weight after the third once it was already off?
I'm kind of in the same place (not 100 pounds, I wish!), trying to lose weight now even though I may be TTC in the near future.
For me-I'm just going to get in the best shape I can until it happens and hopefully, my good eating habits and exercise will continue when/if I'm pregnant in hopes that I don't go hog wild like I've done previously. Also, I'd like to not pile pregancy weight on 3 times over. Better to get as much as I can off now and deal with whatever I gain back.
Don't feel badly, you are doing great!
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People seriously need to stop asking that question until they hear a lady say she is pregnant!!!!
You do not look pregnant, but you know that Joanne taught that class until she was 8 mts pregnant, so the idea of being pregnant in Zumba is not a strange one - especially there...
And there are many preggos who would work out like crazy, so sometimes that has no bearing on anything....
HOWEVER - yes, total assinine thing to say. I had my very close friend who was asked that for a while after her baby... people suck
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
Keep your chin up!
She was just mean spirited. She knew better.
Don't worry about her! Keep doing what you are doing!
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jam11308
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
Ugh - sorry you had to deal w/that I haven't gotten it since the baby, but I did get asked 3 times before I was pg, so I know how it feels 
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Reese1106
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
Omg. People seriously need to think before they speak. I'm sorry, Diana!
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pinky
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
What a fool! You do NOT look pregnant. I had a FRIEND ask me if I was expecting recently too - it sucks.
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
Ugh so sorry! What an absolute idiot!
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| Posted 6/23/10 10:14 PM |
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Diana1215
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
Posted by lipglossjunky73
People seriously need to stop asking that question until they hear a lady say she is pregnant!!!!
You do not look pregnant, but you know that Joanne taught that class until she was 8 mts pregnant, so the idea of being pregnant in Zumba is not a strange one - especially there...
And there are many preggos who would work out like crazy, so sometimes that has no bearing on anything....
HOWEVER - yes, total assinine thing to say. I had my very close friend who was asked that for a while after her baby... people suck
It actually wasn't at Bet U Can Dance, it was at my gym.
I know there are preggos who work out....I'm never one of them, my fat butt likes to sit around with some potato chips and Haagen Dazs 
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| Posted 6/23/10 11:04 PM |
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Diana1215
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
Posted by pinky
What a fool! You do NOT look pregnant. I had a FRIEND ask me if I was expecting recently too - it sucks.
 You look amazing! People are insane!
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| Posted 6/23/10 11:04 PM |
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ME75
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Re: Words you NEVER want to hear
people just never cease to amaze me. ....she is such a jerk for asking you such a stupid question. pay it no mind anymore and keep up your great work!!
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