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BaroqueMama 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
Yes, I do, and no, he doesn't care. We actually have more active social lives together and separately than we did before we got married. Planning a wedding was time consuming!  
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			Posted 2/24/06 11:50 AM    | 
	
	
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Christine 
2nd verse same as the 1st 
  
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
Yes, I do go out drinking with girlfriends once in a while (aside from dinners or such).  The dinners and such he doesn't mind but he's not  fond of the "girls nights out".   
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			Posted 2/24/06 11:53 AM    | 
	
	
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Bebalina 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
yes i do (not necessarily a bar for me) but we go out  and dh doesnt mind just like i let him go out and enjoy too we're not parents yet, so we can still enjoy this, b4 it becomes a thing where we take shifts  
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			Posted 2/24/06 11:56 AM    | 
	
	
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krwm 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
DH doesn't care if I go AT ALL....sometimes he comes too... 
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			Posted 2/24/06 12:07 PM    | 
	
	
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btrflygrl 
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Member since 5/05 12013 total posts 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
no I don't (I would though) and no he does not/would not mind
 
  BUT...I'd like to add that DH has this cute theory "I didn't get married to go out to bars with the guys"...
 
  we go together and do almost everything together  
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			Posted 2/24/06 12:07 PM    | 
	
	
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CunningOne 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
Posted by Lisa
  I go out once or twice a month with my girlfriends....usually for dinner and dessert!! My DH doesnt mind....there is no reason he should anyway!    
 
  Same here, its usually a dinner out, not to a bar.  He totally encourages me to go, especially now that I need a break from my 21 month old!
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			Posted 2/24/06 12:09 PM    | 
	
	
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dpli 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
My bar days are behind me, but I do go out without him on occasion.  My friends and I usually go out for lunch or dinner.  I need to do things on my own or I would go nuts. 
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			Posted 2/24/06 12:09 PM    | 
	
	
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Shelly 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
We go out a lot together. Actually at 8 months pregnant, we are going to a club tomorrow for a friend's birthday party. She is a promoter and hooking me up wtih a nice comfy chair for the evening   I remember the days when she would hook me up with a bottle of vodka       
  But to answer your question, Usually when the girls and I get together, its for a restaurant or coffee. But even when I do go to bars without him, he doesn't mind. Its important to us that we each maintain our own identity and frienship. 
 
  
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			Posted 2/24/06 12:13 PM    | 
	
	
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nrthshgrl 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
Not that often - and no he doesn't mind. 
 
  Posted by Shellyesq
  She is a promoter and hooking me up wtih a nice comfy chair for the evening   I remember the days when she would hook me up with a bottle of vodka       
 
  
             
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			Posted 2/24/06 12:21 PM    | 
	
	
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juju 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
We've been married 2 years.  The only time I remember is when my friend came to visit and we went out to a bar/club.  But, I didn't have a good time at all.  I don't miss it.  
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			Posted 2/24/06 12:21 PM    | 
	
	
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BabyAvocado 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
Just went out with the girls on Sat night and no he didn't mind.   But that was the first time in a very long time.  It's very rare that either of us get a chance like that so we are both okay with it.  If it became a habit, both of us would have a problem with it.  
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			Posted 2/24/06 12:22 PM    | 
	
	
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BrunetteMom 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
I usually make a date with my gfs once a month..We'll either go to dinner, meet at one of our homes or go out somewhere.. My husband doesn't mind one bit. It gives him time alone with the kids and he says that when I get home, I'm always nicer to him lol 
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			Posted 2/24/06 12:29 PM    | 
	
	
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eroxgirl 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
I very rarely go out but he has no problem when I do.  It gives him more time to play xbox live.    
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			Posted 2/24/06 12:30 PM    | 
	
	
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MrsPornStar 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
I still go out to bars and DH doesn't mind. I also encourage him to go out with his friends as well. 
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			Posted 2/24/06 12:44 PM    | 
	
	
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reggie 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
Posted by FeliciaDP
  I hardly ever go out to bars w/my friends these days, but when I do - he does not mind one bit.  IN fact he encourages it! 
 
  Same here.  
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			Posted 2/24/06 1:17 PM    | 
	
	
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Moehick 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
Before NAimal I did and DH didn't care.  Now I usually meet up for dinner   
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			Posted 2/24/06 1:32 PM    | 
	
	
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IrishTracy 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
I have girls nights every month or so.  He could care less.  He gets his alone time w/ the kids 
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			Posted 2/24/06 1:57 PM    | 
	
	
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JodiBabe 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
Never was one to go out to the bars but I do go out with my girlfriend whether it is to dinner & drinks or the movies or a concert.
  ETA that my DH doesn't care at all when I do! 
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			Posted 2/24/06 1:59 PM    | 
	
	
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lovelybride 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
Yes, I still go out with the girls.. We have girls night once a month, so we usually go to a lounge or dinner.  No, he doesn't mind.. 
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			Posted 2/24/06 2:04 PM    | 
	
	
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MrsJ 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
Before I got PG we went out together with our friends. We have all the same friends so we all go out together. I like it that way.  But I do encourage him to call the guys and try to  get together for a guys night from time to time, since I'm too PG and dont feel like doing anything lately. 
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			Posted 2/24/06 2:18 PM    | 
	
	
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MRSJLK 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
Yes sometimes I go out with my GF's, sometimes with work for happy hour and sometimes we go out together with our friends....he doesn't mind at all. 
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			Posted 2/24/06 2:36 PM    | 
	
	
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christy 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
My girlfriends don't really do this. But we go as a couple with his friends sometimes, and he goes alone with his friends sometimes..during football season mostly! 
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			Posted 2/24/06 3:37 PM    | 
	
	
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Redhead 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
Posted by Rapunzel
  Now that you are married, do you still go out to bars (occasionally) with your girlfriends?  If so, does DH mind? 
  yup...on occassion and no he doesn't mind at all.....he encourages me to have my "girl time"  
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			Posted 2/24/06 4:03 PM    | 
	
	
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Cookiegobbler 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
Not really, we usually go out together... not that I would mind if he went out, but we usually go out to clubs and bars with our couple friends... 
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			Posted 2/24/06 4:05 PM    | 
	
	
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Diane 
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 Re: Married Ladies....question for you 
well, Im PG now so I dont go. But before that yes, and no he didnt mind because I let him go with his friends 
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