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Who's the tougher parent?

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ThreeforTea
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Who's the tougher parent?

I feel that my DH lets our 2 yr old DD get away with most things. He gives in to her more than I do. I am def more tougher than he is. Who is the tougher parent at your house?

Message edited 7/11/2012 3:24:03 PM.

Posted 7/11/12 2:28 PM
 
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maymama
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Re: Who's the tougher parent?

DH Chat Icon Chat Icon he is definately a momma's boy Chat Icon

Posted 7/11/12 2:34 PM
 

mnmsoinlove
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Melissa

Re: Who's the tougher parent?

I think dh is tougher. That being said dd is a daddy girl!

Posted 7/11/12 2:40 PM
 

Karen
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Who's the tougher parent?

Definitely DH! Since I am with them pretty much 24/7, I pick my battles, where as DH makes a federal case out of many things that I would just shrug off.

Posted 7/11/12 2:44 PM
 

aliwnec10
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Ali

Re: Who's the tougher parent?

without a doubt- ME

Posted 7/11/12 2:46 PM
 

GoldenRod
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Shawn

Re: Who's the tougher parent?

I actually think DW are I are both equally as tough on DC. Our parenting styles are very similar, even without conferring with each other.

Posted 7/11/12 2:46 PM
 

mamabear
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Who's the tougher parent?

DH.

Posted 7/11/12 2:47 PM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: Who's the tougher parent?

Me-DH is weakChat Icon

DD1 tells him she wants brownies for breakfast. He tells her, brownies aren't for breakfast. She starts counting. He asks her way. She says you are going into timeout when I get to 3 if you don't give me brownies. Needless to say she had 2 brownies for breakfast.

DS is didn't like the applesauce DH gave him for a snack. He wanted something else. DH couldn't figure out what DS wanted so just kept presenting new options. Must have gone through 6 choices. DS go upset, threw the applesauce on the floor. And his milk. DH gave him back his milk and got him another snack. Me? you get 2 choices andif you throw anything food time is over.

And it doesn't seem to matter whi is tougher. DD is still a mommas girl and DS isall about daddy.

Posted 7/11/12 2:58 PM
 

Sash
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fka LIW Smara

Re: Who's the tougher parent?

I am the warden and he is still a mommas boy.Chat Icon

Posted 7/11/12 3:02 PM
 

ItsaJoya19
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E

Re: Who's the tougher parent?

DH is very strict about bedtime. He says DD's bedtime is 8pm.

Well, *I* do bedtime, so it's when *I* say it is.

I like to get her down by 8:30 but sometimes she naps late and isn't tired at 8. So since *I* am doing bedtime and *I* have to deal with a cranky toddler, *I* get to say when *I* am putting her down.

Besides bedtime, I'd say we're pretty much 50/50 good guy/bad guy.

Posted 7/11/12 3:09 PM
 

MrsRbk
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Re: Who's the tougher parent?

I am. But that is because I'm he one with them all day.

Posted 7/11/12 3:10 PM
 

NervousNell
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..being a mommy and being a wife!

Re: Who's the tougher parent?

DH is tougher.
And it shows because I am starting to notice she responds/listens better when he tells her to do something.
I feel like I am the push over and she already knows it!

Posted 7/11/12 3:20 PM
 

ThreeforTea
Girls just want to have fun..

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Mama

Re: Who's the tougher parent?

Posted by MrsRbk

I am. But that is because I'm he one with them all day.



Yep! That's why!

Posted 7/11/12 3:25 PM
 

Kelly9904
Mommy to 2 amazing little boys

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Kelly

Re: Who's the tougher parent?

me, without a doubt. DH almost never disciplines, yells at or tells DSs no.
He never took that role with the dog so I knew I would be the one to do it with the kids too!

BOth my kids know that Daddy and Nonna are the push overs in our family!

Posted 7/11/12 3:43 PM
 

JennZ
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Re: Who's the tougher parent?

Me, Im always bad cop. Always.

Posted 7/11/12 4:46 PM
 

maybemommy10
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Re: Who's the tougher parent?

Me. DH is "fun daddy" he changes a diaper and its a whole sing and dance, literally. I am more about getting things done !!!

Posted 7/11/12 8:19 PM
 

Jacksmommy
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Liz

Re: Who's the tougher parent?

Posted by NervousNell

DH is tougher.
And it shows because I am starting to notice she responds/listens better when he tells her to do something.
I feel like I am the push over and she already knows it!



this! Honestly, I am strict at work (I am a teacher) and then I do home cases afterwards. I am just tired of being strict when I get home and just want to love on my baby. Not that I don't discipline - just DH is tougher, but when DS says "oh please" with the look, i just can't stand it and want to give him everything! LOL

Posted 7/11/12 8:31 PM
 

allIwant
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Re: Who's the tougher parent?

Me!

Posted 7/11/12 8:32 PM
 
 

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