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ItsTime2011
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While I agree that not worrying about OPK's this month has been nice and I haven't needed to rush home to pee every afternoon, I am SUUUCHHH a control freak and planner that it has been hard just saying "Meh...whatever". I am on CD 26 and this morning woke up feeling bloated and nauseous. My right boob has been experienceing twinges on and off for a couple of days now. However...I have NO idea where I am in my cycle. According to my last two cycles I could have O'd already or I could have a LONG way to go.
It has been fun just spending more time with DH though...its amazing the creativity we have shown as of late Chat Icon Chat Icon

Okay, time to tell my self "JUST RELAX YOU CRAZY WOMAN!!!"

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Edited: Because apparently sentences need periods at the end.
Also Edited: Because I am having such an abundance of CM today that it feels like I am wetting myself. What the fluck does THAT mean now?

Message edited 5/19/2011 12:03:36 PM.

Posted 5/19/11 9:20 AM
 
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WinginIt
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Re: Where am I?

Whole bunch of hugs for you! I am also a planner. I understand where you are coming from it is something totally out of our hands. We can try and plan but you know how that goes! Chat Icon

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Posted 5/19/11 9:25 AM
 

NYCGirl80
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Re: Where am I?

I think it means you should BD tonight!

Honestly, I used OPKs this months and BDing after you get a negative is just not as much fun. I much rather BD and hope that this could be the time that matters!

As long as you knwo you're regularly Oing I think it's fine (or even better!) not to use OPKs. I never got a positive, though, so tomorrow I'm starting blood work to see what's going on with me.

Posted 5/19/11 1:49 PM
 

ItsTime2011
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Re: Where am I?

Posted by NYCGirl80

I think it means you should BD tonight!




Oh don't worry we will Chat Icon

Posted by NYCGirl80As long as you knwo you're regularly Oing I think it's fine (or even better!) not to use OPKs.



The only thing with that is that it is quite possible to get a positive OPK and STILL not O...ah thus is the confusion with TTC

Posted 5/19/11 2:21 PM
 

NYCGirl80
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Posted by NYCGirl80As long as you knwo you're regularly Oing I think it's fine (or even better!) not to use OPKs.



The only thing with that is that it is quite possible to get a positive OPK and STILL not O...ah thus is the confusion with TTC


Yes, I agree with that. However, I never even got a + OPK last month so you're one up from me. Chat Icon

Posted 5/19/11 5:24 PM
 

MamaNature
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Re: Where am I?

maybe you are fertile now? How long are your cycles? I have O'd that late.

Posted 5/19/11 8:20 PM
 

ItsTime2011
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Re: Where am I?

Posted by MamaNature

maybe you are fertile now? How long are your cycles? I have O'd that late.



At this point? Who knows...My first cycle I got a smiley on the CD24 on the 2nd cycle I got it on CD35...I am CD27 right now...I actually remember having EWCM about a week ago...In fact I was surprised when I saw it...it was the first time I could actually recognize it as EWCM...of course we BD'd then and we BD'd last night as well...just covering the bases. We have been really busy the last few weeks.
TTC= A total crap shoot

Posted 5/20/11 7:53 AM
 

MamaNature
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Re: Where am I?

Posted by ItsTime2011

Posted by MamaNature

maybe you are fertile now? How long are your cycles? I have O'd that late.



At this point? Who knows...My first cycle I got a smiley on the CD24 on the 2nd cycle I got it on CD35...I am CD27 right now...I actually remember having EWCM about a week ago...In fact I was surprised when I saw it...it was the first time I could actually recognize it as EWCM...of course we BD'd then and we BD'd last night as well...just covering the bases. We have been really busy the last few weeks.
TTC= A total crap shoot



Are you using OPK every day, or just when you think you may get a positive? I find that you gotta use it every day when you long/irregular cycles cause its always all over the place.

Posted 5/20/11 8:03 AM
 

ItsTime2011
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Re: Where am I?

I am not using the opks this month...my doctor thought it might be better for me not worry so much, HA!!! Fat chance Doc....I am a planner and as such even when I think I am not overthinking...I am overthinking about NOT overthinking Chat Icon

Oh well...I am curious, but honestly not beating myself up about stuff. I think I just need a hobby. Chat Icon

Posted 5/20/11 9:16 AM
 
 
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