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CaidensMommy
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Melissa
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When "O" and timing BD? I'm worrying too much...
Do you worry that you need to BD at certain times of the day and trying to BD 24 hours apart, at the same time every night etc., or am I being neurotic? I think I am just worrying too much about timing BD that I'm not enjoying it as much.  If we BD at 11:00pm one night then the next night I think we need to do it the same time every night that follows, and if it's a few hours later than the previous night I get upset that we've missed our window? Please tell me to relax and just BD when we can during my fertile days!  My DH says to relax that we're doing what we can.
My BD'ing schedule...
CD11 - 1:00am
CD13 - 11:00pm
CD14 - 4:45am
CD15 - 1:00am - "O" day - afternoon
Do you think we did ok for this cycle? Thanks!
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Posted 11/16/09 3:23 PM  |
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mommyin09
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Re: When "O" and timing BD? I'm worrying too much...
I think your timing for BD-ing was very good. You BD-ed 3 days in a row leading up to O which are your most fertile days. I know it is hard but try not to stress it. Good luck! 
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| Posted 11/16/09 3:28 PM |
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zoe282
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Re: When "O" and timing BD? I'm worrying too much...
I think it's great...but like you said it's overwhelming. I have decided to quit the crazyness...lol...I was just too stressed and like you said I totally stopped enjoying it! Now....I figure what will be will be!
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| Posted 11/16/09 3:29 PM |
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CaidensMommy
My 3 Miracles!
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Melissa
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Re: When "O" and timing BD? I'm worrying too much...
Posted by mommyin09
I think your timing for BD-ing was very good. You BD-ed 3 days in a row leading up to O which are your most fertile days. I know it is hard but try not to stress it. Good luck!
But you don't think that since we BD at 11:00pm on Friday and not until 4:45am is bad? I can't stop thinking that we should have BD sooner in the night. It was just the first time we have gone out in a LONG time and got home much later than expected. Because of that timing I just feel like we missed the window.
I just need to stop worrying about the hours and minutes!!! 
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| Posted 11/16/09 3:39 PM |
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CaidensMommy
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Re: When "O" and timing BD? I'm worrying too much...
Posted by zoe282
I think it's great...but like you said it's overwhelming. I have decided to quit the crazyness...lol...I was just too stressed and like you said I totally stopped enjoying it! Now....I figure what will be will be!
It definitely is quite stressful. With my boys we got PG the first cycle, (both were lucky, second one took surgery to conceive) so this is the first time that it's actually taking longer to conceive. I'm in the 2WW, 1 DPO today of Cycle 4. It feels like a year already! 
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| Posted 11/16/09 3:41 PM |
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CaidensMommy
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Melissa
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Re: When "O" and timing BD? I'm worrying too much...
Thanks for the responses! 
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| Posted 11/16/09 3:41 PM |
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Hofstra26
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Re: When "O" and timing BD? I'm worrying too much...
The time of day doesn't matter. I never worry about that at all. You BD plenty. I think you covered your bases. You're looking into it TOO much!!  Relax.
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| Posted 11/16/09 4:23 PM |
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CaidensMommy
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Re: When "O" and timing BD? I'm worrying too much...
Posted by Hofstra26
The time of day doesn't matter. I never worry about that at all. You BD plenty. I think you covered your bases. You're looking into it TOO much!! Relax.
Thank you so much! I'm going to relax now and just take 1 day at a time.
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| Posted 11/16/09 4:29 PM |
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Hofstra26
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Re: When "O" and timing BD? I'm worrying too much...
Posted by CaidensMommy
Posted by Hofstra26
The time of day doesn't matter. I never worry about that at all. You BD plenty. I think you covered your bases. You're looking into it TOO much!! Relax.
Thank you so much! I'm going to relax now and just take 1 day at a time.
Good idea. Don't look at your watch when you get busy. 
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| Posted 11/16/09 4:30 PM |
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