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MrsSx2
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Whats the meanest thing....
someone has said to you since you have been pregnant?
I noticed that people think they can say whatever they want to pregnant women about their weight. As if being pregnant is a free pass for other people to call you "big".
The other day a coworker (who I cant stand anyway) made a comment that I was "big" and would most likely have a big baby. Well, I had just had an ultrasound so I said..."She is about 5 lbs right now, so the good thing is that whatever I have gained...5lbs of it is her!". And I laughed. Well, then she laughs and says..."What about the other 300 lbs you gained"  At that point I had only gained 20 lbs at 33 weeks..not too bad IMO!
I didnt know what to say...and I literally turned around and walked away.
So, just wondering...what have people said to you.
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KS13
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
Thats awful!!! 
No one has really said anything mean...just annoying I guess.
Although just now two security guards were laughing at me.  Not sure why.l
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| Posted 3/22/12 12:43 PM |
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MrsRapz
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
omg i can't believe she said that to you!
I'm just 10 weeks along now so nobody's said anything yet.
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| Posted 3/22/12 12:46 PM |
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IAMMRSBROWN
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
That girl is a !$&!&#$#! **NT ..
You look amazing 
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| Posted 3/22/12 1:13 PM |
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MrsSx2
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
Posted by IAMMRSBROWN
That girl is a !$&!&#$#! **NT ..
You look amazing
This is only 1 of 4839348934 I heart you big time.
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| Posted 3/22/12 1:14 PM |
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IAMMRSBROWN
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
Posted by MrsSx2
Posted by IAMMRSBROWN
That girl is a !$&!&#$#! **NT ..
You look amazing
This is only 1 of 4839348934 I heart you big time.
 I have anger issues when it comes to you for some reason. Remember how mad I was at I think it was an aunt or someone during the wedding planning days?
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| Posted 3/22/12 1:20 PM |
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MrsSx2
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
Posted by IAMMRSBROWN
Posted by MrsSx2
Posted by IAMMRSBROWN
That girl is a !$&!&#$#! **NT ..
You look amazing
This is only 1 of 4839348934 I heart you big time.
I have anger issues when it comes to you for some reason. Remember how mad I was at I think it was an aunt or someone during the wedding planning days?
It was my MIL or my SIL! you're awesome
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| Posted 3/22/12 1:24 PM |
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july4mrsO
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
What is wrong with people?! I'm sorry she said that, she's an idiot.
I had a woman at work call me a weeble wobble. Then like 2 weeks later she yelled "there she blows!" as I walked past to go to the bathroom. Half of me wanted to cry, the other half wanted to throat punch her.
Just last night I was recapping for DH all the dumb things people have said to me just this week and he couldn't believe it. Like you said, people think they get a free pass when you're pregnant but I'll never understand why.
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| Posted 3/22/12 1:33 PM |
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MRsFaTThead
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WHO GIVES A POO WHO GIVES A FUDGE !!
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
WHAT THE FCUKKK IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SEEIN HOW IT WAS A PERSON YOU CANT STAND I CANT BELIEVE YOU DIDNT SNAP RIGHT BACK AT HER. HER HEIGHT, FACE CLOTHES ANYTHING!!!!!!!!! GRRRRRRRRRR. IM SO MAD FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!
YOU'RE A BETTER PERSON THAN ME ILL TELL YOU THAT MUCH.
BTW, YOU LOOK FRIGGIN GORGEOUS!!!! I HOPE I LOOK THAT GOOD WHEN I TOO GAIN 300POUNDS
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| Posted 3/22/12 1:59 PM |
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Cacarina
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
I got called a "House" by a male coworker once. He is a complete moron so I didn't take it too seriously. He also said if my belly is this big now at 6 months he can't imagine how big I'll be at 9 months.
Side note: He got fired yesterday (for something unrelated to me of course!)
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| Posted 3/22/12 2:07 PM |
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MaZz
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
My MIL telling me on 2 separate occasions that the baby is def a girl bc shes stolen my beauty 
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| Posted 3/22/12 2:13 PM |
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sheepbaby
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
I get a lot of "when are you due?" and when I say mid-May, they eyeroll and reply all dramatically, "HOW are you ever going to make that long when you're so big now?!?!"
My response is usually along the lines of, "I guess I'll have to get hosed down every night and start wearing bed sheets to the office."
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| Posted 3/22/12 2:18 PM |
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JackiePags
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
What? What is wrong with people..I find people say such things to mask their own insecurities.
Anyway, my MIL told me at 18 weeks that she couldn't believe how big I am...probably like 8 times in a weekend, ok enough.
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| Posted 3/22/12 2:19 PM |
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KartveliT
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
Wow, talk about rude !
For me it would be what I posted about earlier ...
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| Posted 3/22/12 2:27 PM |
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KartveliT
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
Posted by KartveliT
Wow, talk about rude !
For me it would be what I posted about earlier ...
actually I take it back , that wasn't really mean , more like rude. So nothing so far .
Sorry can't edit for some reason
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| Posted 3/22/12 2:28 PM |
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KartveliT
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
Posted by KartveliT
Posted by KartveliT
Wow, talk about rude !
For me it would be what I posted about earlier ...
actually I take it back , that wasn't really mean , more like rude. So nothing so far .
Sorry can't edit for some reason
lol I mean my post, not the woman who was mean to u . My god I'm all over the place, lol, still getting used to the Ipad. 
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| Posted 3/22/12 2:30 PM |
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Jax430
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
One of my coworkers feels the need to constantly comment on my belly. Earlier this week, she said that I was so big that I looked like I would give birth the next day! I am 28 weeks, and have a nice round belly, but I certainly don't look like I'm 9 month PG!!! 
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| Posted 3/22/12 2:58 PM |
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carissa1643
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
Someone told me "yeah I can see your face getting full" and motioned around THEIR double chin. I'm like are you freakin kidding me? You think thats ok to say? I just said "Oh I didn't really notice". I don't think anything has changed on me other than my stomach, I would be the first one to say it too. I don't know why there is no filter with pregnant comments.
Message edited 3/22/2012 3:05:44 PM.
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Loveme
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
What a bunch of a holes people can be!
I constantly get the scared and frightened looks when I tell people how far I Am. I am carrying really well, and in no way look 38 weeks PG, and people I guess expect me to look much larger. One family friend at my shower said 'oh no, youre baby is going to be so small I hope he won't be sick". Um, ok, thanks b1tch.
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| Posted 3/22/12 3:18 PM |
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MRsFaTThead
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
Posted by MaZz
My MIL telling me on 2 separate occasions that the baby is def a girl bc shes stolen my beauty
YOUR DH LETS HER GET AWAY WITH THAT
MINE WOULD NOT STAND FOR THAT
THEN AGAIN HE CAN BE AN ASSSSHOLE
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| Posted 3/22/12 3:21 PM |
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PrettyPeonies
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
Both my MIL and FIL made comments on how huge my baby is going to be or how they MUST have my due date wrong since I was so big early in the pregnancy. Meanwhile they both knew that I was on pitocin so I wouldn't lose this pregnancy like I did the last. I explained more than once that was why I was so bloated. Dumb @sses still opened their mouths. I finally turned to DH one day and told him if he didnt set his parents straight that this was not the way to talk to me than I would no longer have anything to say to them. They haven't opened their traps since 
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| Posted 3/22/12 3:25 PM |
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IAMMRSBROWN
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
Posted by MaZz
My MIL telling me on 2 separate occasions that the baby is def a girl bc shes stolen my beauty
  
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| Posted 3/22/12 3:25 PM |
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bettybcafe
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
Wow, what a B!tch! 
No one has said anything mean to me (yet) but its probably because Im really not that big...there are so many people who still cant tell Im even pregnant..its kind of annoying considering I want to be obviously pregnant.
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| Posted 3/22/12 3:26 PM |
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IAMMRSBROWN
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
Posted by MaZz
My MIL telling me on 2 separate occasions that the baby is def a girl bc shes stolen my beauty
You should ask her who stole hers.
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| Posted 3/22/12 3:29 PM |
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Jenn627
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Re: Whats the meanest thing....
I can't believe SHE said that to you. People are so right, women are so cruel.
God, don't you wish you had better retorts in the moment? Like this one:
Posted by sheepbaby
My response is usually along the lines of, "I guess I'll have to get hosed down every night and start wearing bed sheets to the office."
I'm sorry but this is fantastic. 
OP - so sorry. Women suck.
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