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What would you think?

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What would you think if you got this

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rose825
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What would you think if you got this

To preface, yearly we get together with a bunch of friends , go apple picking and bake pies.

Today I get this email from a friend who shall remain nameless.

OK...Just spoke to friend 2 and she had a great idea:

1. We were thinking it would be best if everyone pre-measured out all their dry ingredients to bring to friend 3's. That way all we'll have to do is peel and slice our apples and bake. I bolded all the dry ingredients for ya! Here's the Recipe:

Orongonque pie crust
6-8 peeled and cored apples (sliced thin)
3/4-1 cup sugar
2 tablespoons of flour
1 tsp. cinnamon
dash of nutmeg
dash of salt

2 tbsp. of butter



Message edited 9/10/2007 10:19:58 AM.

Posted 9/10/07 10:19 AM
 

HoneyBadger
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Re: What would you think if you got this

I think it's a good idea, though I'm getting the impression that, to you, this is all part of the fun when you get together and would rather do everything together.

If that is the case and you are bothered by this suggestion, I would just say something.

Posted 9/10/07 10:22 AM
 

rose825
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Re: What would you think if you got this

for the people answering great idea. can you tell me why its a great idea to premeasure and bag a "dash of salt"

Posted 9/10/07 10:24 AM
 

Stefanie

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Re: What would you think if you got this

Are you kidding me? It sounds like they're being cheap...You mean you have to bring a dash of salt?Chat Icon

Why doesn't each friend host this apple pie party every year and provide the ingredients?

Wow...Chat Icon

Posted 9/10/07 10:24 AM
 

NewlyMrs
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Re: What would you think if you got this

The pie crusts are already made right?
So it's not like you are making them? And she is purchasing the crusts, right?

So maybe she thinks it's easier to just premeasure the ingredients prior (less mess) and then you girls can assemble them together and relax more?

Posted 9/10/07 10:27 AM
 

saraH
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Re: What would you think if you got this

not a great idea. seems kind of lame if you are all bringing your own ingredients. i mean, the host won't even share her salt with you?

Posted 9/10/07 10:31 AM
 

Blu-ize
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Re: What would you think if you got this

sounds a bit like micro managing a fun day.

Posted 9/10/07 10:32 AM
 

joenick
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Re: What would you think if you got this

OK...since I am the "nameless friend", I will respond to this.

FIRST of all...we go to the same girl's house EVERY year to make the pies.

Not only does she supply all the ingredients for us every year, but she also makes dinner for everybody and our kids (she doens't have any children). Plus she works CRAZY hours and barely has time to breathe.

Both myself and another friend thought it would be nice if we brought our own dry ingredients.

IT TAKES 4 SECONDS TO MEASURE OUT ALL THE STUFF WE NEED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PLUS...it's less stuff to have to take out, measure out, clean up at our friend's house which will give us MORE TIME to actually hang out with each other (all of us...not husbands and kids in one room with us in the kitchen) because we all only get together MAYBE 2 times a year!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry Pauline, that you think this is such a big deal. I do not. I cook, enjoy cooking, and have all these ingredients at home. For me...this isn't a big deal. You are making this into a friggin catastophic event.

And to bring this to LIF is absolutely Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 9/10/07 10:32 AM
 

joenick
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Re: What would you think if you got this

Posted by NewlyMrs

The pie crusts are already made right?
So it's not like you are making them? And she is purchasing the crusts, right?

So maybe she thinks it's easier to just premeasure the ingredients prior (less mess) and then you girls can assemble them together and relax more?



Thank you!!

Posted 9/10/07 10:33 AM
 

joenick
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Valerie...aka...Do Me A Favor?

Re: What would you think if you got this

Posted by joenick

Posted by NewlyMrs

The pie crusts are already made right?
So it's not like you are making them? And she is purchasing the crusts, right?

So maybe she thinks it's easier to just premeasure the ingredients prior (less mess) and then you girls can assemble them together and relax more?



Thank you!!



And Pauline...check out the poll results!! Ha Ha!

Posted 9/10/07 10:35 AM
 

Stefanie

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Stefanie

Re: What would you think if you got this

Wow, I'm backing out of this post ASAP.

Sorry for my comment...

Hmmm...why would she post this when her friend is on LIF?!?!?!?!Chat Icon

Posted 9/10/07 10:36 AM
 

joenick
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Valerie...aka...Do Me A Favor?

Re: What would you think if you got this

Posted by Stefanie



Hmmm...why would she post this when her friend is on LIF?!?!?!?!Chat Icon



That's my question too.

Posted 9/10/07 10:38 AM
 

saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!

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Re: What would you think if you got this

yikes, i voted anal, but now...sorry, not my business.

Posted 9/10/07 10:40 AM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: What would you think if you got this

Posted by saraH

yikes, i voted anal, but now...sorry, not my business.



why would you change the way you feel? If you think it is anal, so be it Chat Icon

Posted 9/10/07 10:42 AM
 

nov04libride
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Re: What would you think if you got this

Posted by joenick

Posted by Stefanie



Hmmm...why would she post this when her friend is on LIF?!?!?!?!Chat Icon



That's my question too.



Wow, that's just wrong to post on LIF when your friend is on here.

Perhaps there could have been an easier way (someone bring salt, someone bring nutmeg), but this sounds like it was just being thoughful of the hostess, which is always a nice thing.

After hearing the whole story I think it would be nice if dinner was pot luck and everyone brought something. The poor hostess sounds like she does all of the work every year.

Message edited 9/10/2007 10:44:41 AM.

Posted 9/10/07 10:43 AM
 

MrsERod
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Re: What would you think if you got this

good idea! you can bring all the dry ingredients in one container....and once you get to your friend's house, just dump everything together, put the pies to bake, then sit back and hang out. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/10/07 10:43 AM
 

MrsERod
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Re: What would you think if you got this

Chat Icon hot damn! Chat Icon

Posted 9/10/07 10:44 AM
 

Stefanie

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Stefanie

Re: What would you think if you got this

Posted by MrsERod

Chat Icon hot damn! Chat Icon

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Did you respond and then read the whole topic..Chat Icon

Posted 9/10/07 10:45 AM
 

joenick
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Valerie...aka...Do Me A Favor?

Re: What would you think if you got this

Posted by MrsERod

good idea! you can bring all the dry ingredients in one container....and once you get to your friend's house, just dump everything together, put the pies to bake, then sit back and hang out. Chat Icon Chat Icon



EXACTLY why I thought this would be a good idea.

Thanks!!
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Posted 9/10/07 10:46 AM
 

MrsERod
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Re: What would you think if you got this

Posted by Stefanie

Posted by MrsERod

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Did you respond and then read the whole topic..Chat Icon




yep Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/10/07 10:46 AM
 

leighdvm
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Re: What would you think if you got this

Posted by MrsERod

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exactly!

Posted 9/10/07 10:47 AM
 

rose825
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Re: What would you think if you got this

Posted by joenick

Posted by Stefanie



Hmmm...why would she post this when her friend is on LIF?!?!?!?!Chat Icon



That's my question too.



cause I was being funny. I even emailed Val to check out LIF. So know one should think I was doing this behind her back.

And she knows how I felt about it (the email), I called the moment I saw it.

I'm not trying to make this catastophic. I may be PMSy so I wanted to see if my reaction (are you freakin kidding me) was an overreaction.

PS- friend 3 is my cousin who is an angel and the least cheap person I knoe. Val isnt cheap either- but she is a bit compulsive (which is one of the reasons I love her)

And yes val- the people love you!!!!!!!! And overwhelmingly agree with your analness



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Posted 9/10/07 10:48 AM
 

joenick
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Valerie...aka...Do Me A Favor?

Re: What would you think if you got this

Posted by nov04libride

Posted by joenick

Posted by Stefanie



Hmmm...why would she post this when her friend is on LIF?!?!?!?!Chat Icon



That's my question too.



Wow, that's just wrong to post on LIF when your friend is on here.

Perhaps there could have been an easier way (someone bring salt, someone bring nutmeg), but this sounds like it was just being thoughful of the hostess, which is always a nice thing.

After hearing the whole story I think it would be nice if dinner was pot luck and everyone brought something. The poor hostess sounds like she does all of the work every year.



I really don't know why she posted this on LIF.

It wasn't a big deal at ALL, but now it's turned into one.

I kinda hurt by this, actually.

You're right...all I was trying to do was be thoughtful.

And again, you're right...I also suggested pot luck, or ordering pizza. Again, just trying to be thoughtful.

Posted 9/10/07 10:50 AM
 

rose825
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Re: What would you think if you got this

Posted by MrsERod

good idea! you can bring all the dry ingredients in one container....and once you get to your friend's house, just dump everything together, put the pies to bake, then sit back and hang out. Chat Icon Chat Icon



I know the thread has taken a different trun. But I honestly didnt even think of that. I was imagining a pinch of salt in a ziplock, flour in another bagChat Icon Chat Icon

So now it does seem much less of a big deal, and that has nothing to do with the response from this thread.

To all of those who feel bad calling Val anal, I apologize cause I should have said a nameless LIFer

Posted 9/10/07 10:51 AM
 

rose825
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Re: What would you think if you got this

Posted by joenick

I really don't know why she posted this on LIF.

It wasn't a big deal at ALL, but now it's turned into one.

I kinda hurt by this, actually.

You're right...all I was trying to do was be thoughtful.

And again, you're right...I also suggested pot luck, or ordering pizza. Again, just trying to be thoughtful.




OMG, I did not mean to hurt you. I really thought it would be a funny poll, and you've never been sensitive about your compulsiveness before.Chat Icon I am calling you as soon as my phone stops ringing.

I am so sorry if I offended you. For retaliation, please share with everyone why I didnt want to do this. Come on, it will be fun

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Posted 9/10/07 10:53 AM
 
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